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Ξέχασέ τα όλα.

Και το καλοκαίρι και τα μπάνια στη θάλασσα και ότι τελικά νομίζεις πως σε χαλαρώνει.

Νομίζεις.

Και επιτέλους κοίταξε εσένα.

Για μία φορά στη ζωή σου, μία και μοναδική κοίταξε εσένα.

Δες τα μάτια σου.

Δες τις επιθυμίες σου.

Δες και επιτέλους μίλα.

Μίλα ανοιχτά για αυτά που αισθάνεσαι.

Και οι φόβοι και οι απογοητεύσεις και στα σίγουρα το να κόβεις τα σχοινιά είναι επίπονο. Όλα μα όλα, είναι αντιμετωπίσιμα.

Όλα. Όπως επίσης κι όλοι σου οι δισταγμοί, είναι στους μηχανισμούς του μυαλού.

Ναι θα γίνουν ρήξεις.

Ναι θα έρθουν ανατροπές.

Κι έπειτα όλα και πάλι θα μπουν σε μία νέα βάση δεδομένων.

Λες αξίζει.

Λες αισθάνεσαι.

Λες ζεις κάτι μοναδικό.

Αγάπη. Μην ψάχνεις για τον ορισμό της.

Θα σου πω πως η αγάπη, είναι θεώρημα και θέλει απόδειξη.

Κι όταν θα πεις πως βρήκες το κάτι άλλο, το κάτι διαφορετικό, πρέπει να το κρατήσεις όχι μόνο, πρέπει να το διεκδικήσεις με νύχια και με δόντια.

Ίσως θα σκεφτείς πως; Κόβοντας γέφυρες ; Σπάζοντας δεσμούς;

Ναι και αυτό εάν χρειαστεί.

Ρίχνοντας τα τουβλάκια σου και στήνοντάς τα από την αρχή, με τον τρόπο που σου ζητούν πλέον τα μάτια σου.

Και αν πιστεύεις πως με τα όσα κάνεις, γεμίζει η ψυχή σου αυταπατάσαι και το ξέρεις και αυτό είναι το χειρότερο.

Άλλα θέλεις κι άλλα κάνεις.

Γιατί…

Κι αν δε μπορείς να πάρεις δύναμη από το συναίσθημα της καρδιάς σου τότε τι κάνεις;

Γιατί μένεις;

Γιατί εγκλωβίζεσαι ανάμεσα σε δύο κόσμους ;

Τι φοβάσαι;

Μη δεν είναι αληθινό αυτό που αισθάνεσαι;

Μη δεν κρατήσει;

Μη μείνεις μόνος;

Μα είσαι ήδη μόνος. Ήδη φοβάσαι, ήδη νοιώθεις.

Δύο κόσμοι, αυτός που είσαι και αυτός που θα ήθελες να είσαι.

Μίλα. Κουνήσου, όλα θα πάρουν το δρόμο τους ούτως η άλλως.

«Είμαι ο βασιλιάς της Σαλίμ, είπε ο γέρος.

-Για ποιο λόγο ένας βασιλιάς πιάνει κουβέντα με έναν βοσκό; Ρώτησε το αγόρι έκπληκτο.

-Για πολλούς λόγους. Ας πούμε ότι ο πιο σημαντικός είναι πως εσύ κατάφερες να πραγματοποιήσεις τον Προσωπικό Μύθο σου.

Το αγόρι δεν είχε ιδέα τι θα πει Προσωπικός Μύθος.

-Είναι αυτό που πάντα επιθυμούσες, να κάνεις. Όλοι οι άνθρωποι στα πρώτα νεανικά τους χρόνια, ξέρουν ποιος είναι ο Προσωπικός τους Μύθος. Την εποχή αυτή της ζωής τους, όλα είναι ξεκάθαρα, όλα γίνονται και οι άνθρωποι δεν φοβούνται να ονειρεύονται, να επιθυμούν όσα θα ήθελαν να πραγματοποιήσουν στην ζωή τους. Όσο όμως ο χρόνος περνά μια μυστική δύναμη, αρχίζει να προσπαθεί να τους αποδείξει ότι είναι αδύνατον  να πραγματοποιήσει κανείς τον Προσωπικό του Μύθο.

Για το αγόρι τα λόγια του Γέρου δεν είχαν και πολύ νόημα. Ήθελε όμως να μάθει ποιες ήταν οι «μυστικές δυνάμεις». Η κόρη του εμπόρου θα έμενε με το στόμα ανοιχτό.

-Είναι δυνάμεις που φαίνονται κακές, αλλά στην πραγματικότητα, σου διδάσκουν πώς να εκπληρώσεις τον Προσωπικό σου Μύθο. Προετοιμάζουν το πνεύμα και τη θέλησή σου, γιατί πάνω σε αυτόν τον πλανήτη υπάρχει μια μεγάλη αλήθεια. Όποιος κι αν είσαι, ότι κι αν κάνεις, όταν επιδιώξεις κάτι, σημαίνει πως η επιθυμία σου πηγάζει από την Ψυχή του Κόσμου. Είναι η αποστολή σου πάνω στη Γη.

Ακόμη κι αν θέλεις μόνο να ταξιδεύεις. Η να παντρευτείς την πλούσια κόρη του εμπόρου υφασμάτων. Η να αναζητήσεις έναν θησαυρό. Η Ψυχή του Κόσμου τρέφεται από την ευτυχία των ανθρώπων. Η από τη δυστυχία, η τον φθόνο, τη ζήλεια.

Η εκπλήρωση του Προσωπικού Μύθου είναι το μοναδικό χρέος του ανθρώπου. Τα πάντα είναι ένα και μοναδικό πράγμα.

Και όταν επιδιώξεις κάτι, όλο το Σύμπαν συνωμοτεί, για να γίνει όπως επιθυμείς.

Για ένα διάστημα έμειναν σιωπηλοί, κοιτάζοντας την πλατεία και τους ανθρώπους.

-Γιατί μου τα λέτε όλα αυτά Κύριε;

-Γιατί προσπαθείς να ζήσεις τον Προσωπικό Μύθο σου και είσαι έτοιμος να τον απαρνηθείς

-Και εσείς εμφανίζεστε πάντα σε τέτοιες περιπτώσεις;

-Όχι πάντα με αυτήν τη μορφή, αλλά ποτέ δεν το παρέλειψα.

Μερικές φορές εμφανίζομαι με την μορφή μιας καλής διεξόδου, μιας καλής ιδέας. Άλλες φορές, σε μια κρίσιμη στιγμή απλουστεύω τα πράγματα. Και ούτω καθεξής…

Οι περισσότεροι άνθρωποι όμως δεν το προσέχουν.

Ο γέρος τότε διηγήθηκε ότι την προηγούμενη εβδομάδα είχε αναγκαστεί να εμφανιστεί σε έναν άνθρωπο που αναζητούσε πολύτιμους λίθους με την μορφή πέτρας!

Ο άνθρωπος αυτός είπε, είχε εγκαταλείψει τα πάντα, για να πάει να ψάξει για σμαράγδια.

Πέντε ολόκληρα χρόνια είχε δουλέψει σε  έναν ποταμό και είχε σπάσει 999.999 πέτρες, ψάχνοντας για ένα σμαράγδι!

Τότε ο κυνηγός πολύτιμων λίθων, σκέφθηκε να τα παρατήσει. Κι όμως του έλειπε μόνο μια πέτρα, μονάχα ΜΙΑ ΠΕΤΡΑ, για να ανακαλύψει το σμαράγδι. Επειδή εκείνος ο άνθρωπος είχε επενδύσει τα πάντα στον Προσωπικό του Μύθο, ο γέρος αποφάσισε να επέμβει.

Μετατράπηκε σε πέτρα, κύλησε μέχρι τα πόδια του κυνηγού πολύτιμων λίθων. Αυτός τότε με την λύσσα και την απογοήτευση των τόσων χαμένων χρόνων, εκσφενδόνισε την πέτρα τόσο μακριά, με τέτοια δύναμη που η πέτρα χτύπησε μια άλλη και θρυμματίστηκε.

Και τότε φανερώθηκε το πιο ωραίο σμαράγδι του κόσμου!

-Οι άνθρωποι μαθαίνουν πολύ νωρίς, το νόημα της ζωής, είπε ο γέρος με κάποια πικρία στα μάτια.

Ίσως γι’ αυτό τα παρατάνε…επίσης νωρίς.

Έτσι όμως είναι ο κόσμος»

~Απόσπασμα από τον Αλχημιστή του Paulo Coelho~

Πιστεύω πως κατάλαβες ποιο είναι το νόημα.

Πιστεύω πως ξέρεις τι πρέπει να κάνεις.

Άσε λοιπόν την αναβλητικότητα, άσε τις όμορφες παραλίες και τα ζεστά καλοκαίρια. Πάντα θα υπάρχουν όμορφα μέρη να επισκεφθείς και θα έρθουν, τόσα, μα τόσα πολλά καλοκαίρια…

Αρκεί μόνο να είσαι ευτυχισμένος άνθρωπος.

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Είμαι η Χριστίνα, κάπου στα 40 plus και μεγαλώνω δυο υπέροχα κορίτσια.Ονειροπόλα και ατίθαση ψυχή. Ζω κάπου ανάμεσα στο δικό μου παραμύθι και την πραγματικότητα. Γράφω απ'όσο θυμάμαι τον εαυτό μου.Ότι και να έρθει στη ζωή μου παραμένω πιστή στα όνειρα μου! Το moto που με ακολουθεί: Ποτέ μη λες ποτέ!

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«Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».
Πόσο εύκολα έχουν ειπωθεί αυτές οι λέξεις. Πόσο μελάνι δεν χύθηκε, πόσες συζητήσεις έμειναν στη μέση μόνο και μόνο γιατί το συμπέρασμα ήταν το εξής ένα. «Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».

Συμφωνώ, υπάρχουν πολλών ειδών «μαλάκες». Αν, όμως, εσύ δεν μπορείς να ξεχωρίσεις το αγόρι απʾ τον άντρα, και τον άντρα απʾ το αρσενικό δε σου φταίει κανένας, είναι δικό σου θέμα και καθόλου δεν με ενδιαφέρει.

Κρύβεσαι πίσω από δύο αποσιωπητικά, βουτηγμένη μέσα στο δήθεν φεμινισμό σου και δεν καταλαβαίνεις πως ουσιαστικά κάνεις ζημιά μόνο σε εσένα.

Το αγόρι, ο άντρας ή το αρσενικό (αν και τα δυο τελευταία έχουν λίγο μπερδεμένο νόημα) υπάρχει πιθανότητα να μην πάψει ποτέ να έχει αυτή του την ιδιότητα μέχρι τέλους.

Υπάρχει, όμως, καλή μου, μια κατηγορία αγοριών τα οποία «μυρίζουν» από μακριά πως όταν τα μαλλιά τους ασπρίσουν, θα έχουν αποδείξει ότι είναι αρσενικά (κρατώντας το «αρσενικά» ως τον υπέρτατο χαρακτηρισμό σʾ έναν άντρα).
Θα ωριμάσει μέσα από τον αυτοσαρκασμό του και θα βάλει την εκτίμηση που έχει στη γυναίκα δίπλα του πάνω απʾ όλα.

Είναι αυτός ο άντρας που θα ήθελες να δεις δίπλα στην κόρη σου, εκείνος στον οποίο θα ήθελες να μοιάσει ο γιος σου.

Είναι αυτός που θα καταφέρει να σʾ ανεβάσει ψηλά χωρίς να έχει μπράτσα και κοιλιακούς. Ξέρει να ξεχωρίσει το γυναικάκι απʾ την γυναίκα και θα διυλίσει την κάθε σου ματιά.

Ξέρει τι θα πει ευγένεια, εκτίμηση και θα στη δείξει ακόμα και στον τρόπο που περπατάει δίπλα σου ή στον τρόπο που μιλάει για εσένα στους φίλους του.

Δεν πιστεύω να νομίζετε πως ακόμα κι αυτός ο τύπος άντρα δε θα κοιτάξει άλλη γυναίκα.
Φυσικά και θα κοιτάξει, μα το νόημα δεν είναι τι θα κοιτάξει, αλλά πού θα καταλήξει τελικά το βλέμμα του, γιατί πολύ απλά εκείνο ανήκει μόνο σʾ εσένα.

Τα υπόλοιπα απλά τα προσπερνά σαν την πρώτη ματιά που ρίχνει μπαίνοντας σʾ ένα bar προσπαθώντας να βρει ένα κενό τραπέζι να κάτσετε.
Αυτό είσαι για εκείνον, η ξεχωριστή, μοναδική γωνιά, το μοναδικό τραπέζι που ψάχνει να βρει για νʾ αράξει.

Για τον πραγματικό άντρα, το «σʾ ευχαριστώ» και το «συγγνώμη» είναι ένα σύνολο γραμμάτων τα οποία με μεγάλη ευκολία θα τα συντάξει στη σωστή σειρά, για να τους αποδώσει τις τιμές που τους αναλογούν και μαζί μʾ αυτά και σε εσένα.

Την αποδοχή σου την έχει γραμμένη στα παλαιότερα των υποδημάτων του, μιας κι αυτό που αναζητά είναι η εκτίμηση κι ο σεβασμός σου.
Θα αποζητήσει σʾ εσένα τη γνώμη σου, την άποψή σου κι όχι ένα κοριτσάκι που θα του ψελλίζει συνεχόμενα, φοβισμένα «ναι».

Απλώνει το χέρι του να σε κρατήσει, έτσι απλά, επειδή είναι ικανός να κάνει το απλό, σημαντικό.

Είσαι η ιδανική για εκείνον, όχι επειδή συμμορφώνεσαι με κάποια πρότυπα, αλλά επειδή δεν τον ενδιαφέρει το ιδανικό και δεν το ψάχνει. Ξέρει τον τρόπο να σε κάνει να νιώσεις ιδανική για εκείνον κι αυτό του αρκεί.

Είναι ο άντρας που δεν είναι όμορφος, αλλά θα σου αποδεικνύει καθημερινά πως μοναδικός σκοπός του είναι το να νιώθει όμορφος στα μάτια σου.

Ξέρει να ηγηθεί, και μέσα απʾ την ηγετική του υπόσταση θα καλύψει όλες σου τις ανασφάλειες, την ίδια στιγμή που στα μάτια σου θα αναζητά εκείνη που θα μείνει στα δύσκολα χωρίς πολλές φαμφάρες.

Να ξέρεις πως τα λόγια του είναι οι πράξεις του, αλλά ακόμα κι όταν τα χρησιμοποιεί, το κάνει για να μην ξεχνιέσαι, γιατί ξεχνιέστε, αγαπητή μου.

Είναι εκείνος που στο άκουσμά του θα ριγήσεις από πόθο, θα σε κάνει να τον ποθήσεις παίζοντας με το μυαλό σου κι όχι με το κορμί σου.

Στο τέλος της ημέρας, στο κρεβάτι σου, θα είναι αυτός που, κλείνοντας τα μάτια σου δίπλα του, θα σε κάνει να χαμογελάσεις με την εικόνα ενός γέρου γκριζομάλλη που σε πλησιάζει από πίσω κουτσαίνοντας, και σε παίρνει αγκαλιά, την ίδια στιγμή που φιλά τον ρυτιδιασμένο σου λαιμό.

Αυτός ο ίδιος που το πρωί δε θα ξεχάσεις ποτέ να τον αποχαιρετήσεις με μια καλημέρα και ένα φιλί.

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Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους.

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Της Ανθής Κατερίνη.

Αποκτάς μεγαλύτερη αγάπη για τους άλλους όταν αρχίζεις να φροντίζεις τον εαυτό σου. Εάν θέλεις να τους αγαπήσεις και δεν μπορείς να το εκφράσεις, η ίδια αυτή δυσκολία υπάρχει στην σχέση σου με τον εαυτό σου. Και αν σήμερα θέλεις να τους πεις πόσο όμορφοι είναι, είναι γιατί τα λόγια και οι πράξεις σου δεν κατευθύνονται εχθρικά προς τον εαυτό σου όπως χθες. Από τις σωστές για σένα επιλογές απορρέει από μέσα σου η επιθυμία να σου πεις μπράβο και έτσι καταλήγεις να επιβραβεύεις την ύπαρξη των άλλων που υπάρχουν εκεί και στέκουν τόσο όμορφοι. Με ιδιαίτερη ομορφιά, με την φιλικότητα και τον αυθορμητισμό τους, με την επιμονή και την εργατικότητά τους, με το άγχος τους, με την ντροπαλότητά τους. Όλοι βλέπεις σου αρέσουν τέτοιες μέρες που έχεις φροντίσει τον εαυτό σου και όλους τους αγαπάς ακόμη και αν είναι τόσο διαφορετικοί μεταξύ τους. Αποτελούν πλευρές του εαυτού σου και τις αποδέχεσαι. Μα εάν κάποια έχεις αποκλείσει από την ταυτότητά σου και δεν την θεωρείς δική σου πλευρά καταβάθος την ζηλεύεις και την αποστρέφεσαι σαν ατελής άνθρωπος που είσαι, που δεν του αρέσει να τον βαραίνει μία αίσθηση κατωτερότητας. Γι’ αυτό δεν πρέπει να φοβάσαι να γίνεις όλα αυτά που έχεις αποκλείσει πως μπορείς να είσαι. Αυτό ήταν μέχρι χτες. Σήμερα μπορείς να επιλέξεις από την αρχή. Μια επιλογή σε κρατά και η ιδέα πως δεν ήταν τέτοια όμορφα πράγματα στο πεδίο των επιλογών σου.
Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους. Όσο πιο όμορφο σε βρίσκεις τόσο θα βλέπεις ομορφιά στους άλλους.
Σταμάτα τις πράξεις που σε οδηγούνε σε φαύλους κύκλους αρνητικών συναισθημάτων. Αν σε τρέφει αυτή η ρόδα που πάνω της τσουλάς και ταυτόχρονα στην άσφαλτο πατιέσαι, μάθε να μην φοβάσαι να μείνεις εκτεθειμένος με τον πόνο σου, αντί να τον καλύπτεις με σκουπίδια. Μάθε πως όταν σταματήσεις τα εφήμερα παυσίπονα τότε θα σε διδάξει ο πόνος σου. Πρέπει να τον κοιτάξεις και μια φορά στα μάτια. Να μην τον πνίγεις με μία κουβέρτα για να εξαφανιστεί. Αντιθέτως, να καλύψεις εσένα με την κουβέρτα αυτή, να ζεσταθείς και ό, τι άσχημο ,θα δεις, που θα φύγει σαν μικρόβιο που δεν μπόρεσε να επιζήσει μέσα σε έναν οργανισμό που οι στρατιώτες του πολέμησαν με τόλμη και δύναμη για την προστασία του παλατιού τους. Γύμνασε τους πολεμιστές της ψυχής σου και θα γίνεις ο καλύτερος προστάτης του εαυτού σου. Γιατί όσο και να μην θέλουμε να το παραδεχτούμε εάν κατηγορούμε κάποιον για το κακό που μας έκανε, στην πραγματικότητα κατηγορούμε εμάς που μας φερθήκαμε με τέτοια αναισθησία και δεν μας προστατέψαμε όπως μας άξιζε. Και τέτοια ντροπή πώς να την ξεχάσεις; Με το να κάνεις τον εαυτό σου να σε εμπιστευτεί ξανά. Να πιστέψει πως εάν αφεθεί χαλαρός στα χέρια σου δεν θα βρεθεί ξανά στο πάτωμα, αλλά θα είσαι εκεί να τον αφήσεις να πέσει απαλά μέσα στην τρυφερή σου χούφτα.

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Ανθή Κατερίνη

Κάθε φορά που χάνομαι ανάμεσα στον ρεαλισμό και τον ρομαντισμό, στην αισιοδοξία και την απαισιοδοξία παίζω με τις λέξεις για να με ανακαλύψω. Οι σκέψεις μου χορεύουν στάζοντας μελάνι και δεν ξέρεις ποτέ τι θα σχηματίσουν τα βήματά τους. Η αδυναμία μου είναι οι όμορφες ψυχές. Μυρωδιές, μουσικές, εικόνες χρωματίζουν την καθημερινότητα μου. Στόχος μου είναι η αυτοβελτίωση γι’ αυτό συχνά αλλάζω αφήνοντας πίσω ότι στέκεται εμπόδιο ανάμεσα σε μένα και τον εαυτό μου.

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Η Ελλάδα πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.

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Της Δικαίας Μαραβέλια.

Αγαπητέ μου Έλληνα, ξέρεις από τότε που η Ελλαδίτσα μας θυμάται τον εαυτό της, πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.
Τραβάς εσύ από την μια, τραβούν οι υπόλοιποι από την άλλη και τώρα είναι η ώρα που χρειάζεται την καλύτερη περίθαλψη γιατί αιμορραγεί στο κέντρο της.
Οι αξίες μας, ο πολιτισμός μας, η ψυχή μας, εμείς οι ίδιοι αφήσαμε να μας τα πάρουν… και τώρα απαιτείς να στα επιστρέψουν. 
Φοβάσαι να πεις δημόσια, ότι φοβάσαι για τα παιδιά σου;
Ξέρεις φοβάμαι, που φοβάσαι. Φοβάμαι που νομίζεις ότι τα θέματα που απασχολούν ολόκληρο τον πλανήτη δεν σε απασχολούν.
Ναι ζούμε στην πιο ευλογημένη χώρα στο κόσμο, στην χώρα της δημοκρατίας, στην χώρα που κάνουμε ποστ μόνο, τις σοφίες των σοφών μας, χωρίς να γνωρίζουμε το βαθύτερο νόημα τους.
Φοβάμαι… αλλά είμαι αισιόδοξη. Για τα παιδιά ρε, για τα παιδιά μας!

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Η Δικαία Μαραβέλια ζει μόνιμα στη Σύμη.
Μεγαλωμένη και κανακεμένη, στα γόνατα του παπά Τάσου, με ιερή στιγμή αυτή που την τάϊζε γλυκό σταφύλι με τόση ευλάβεια, σαν να ήταν κοινωνία.
Τον έβλεπε πάντα να γράφει όταν δεν λειτουργούσε.
Τώρα έφτασε η ώρα να ακολουθήσει τα χνάρια του, συντροφιά με τους αγγέλους της.

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