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Όταν κυριεύσει το μυαλό σου, δεν έχει πώς ούτε γιατί.
Σε κατακλύζει, σε παρασύρει, σε συνεπαίρνει άνευ όρων και ορίων και σε απογειώνει.

Έτσι είναι ο έρωτας, καρδιά μου,  δε ξέρει από όρια και φραγμούς.

Σε βγάζει απ’ το «κουκούλι» σου και σ’ αφήνει γυμνή στη δίνη του.Σου ανατρέπει τα δεδομένα σου, σου ακυρώνει τα «πιστεύω»  σου, κυριαρχεί στη σκέψη σου τη κάθε στιγμή!
Μία πάλη που είναι ακατάπαυστη, ανάμεσα στην επιθυμία και στην πραγματικότητα δε σου αφήνει περιθώρια για λίγη ηρεμία.
Παίρνει και ταξιδεύει το μυαλό σου, κάνει την έλξη ακατανίκητη την επιθυμία πόθο διακαή!

Πετάς στα σύννεφα! Δεν σ’ αγγίζει τίποτε άλλο, δε μπορείς να ελέγξεις τις σκέψεις σου και να τις δαμάσεις.
Πολλές φορές, προσπαθείς να τις καθησυχάσεις μέσα από διάφορες δικαιολογίες που δε «στέκονται λογικά», ξεγελώντας τον εαυτό σου σαν άπειρο σχολιαρούδι, πως ο έρωτας δεν έχει λογική! Και ναι! Αυτό είναι κάθε ερωτευμένος…ένα ά-λογο ον!
Ένα έρμαιο που το τραβάει ο έρωτας απ’ τη μύτη τσακίζοντάς το στις γωνίες για λίγες «λείες»  στιγμές…
Είναι πολλές οι φορές που νιώθεις να χάνεις τον εαυτό σου ή ανακαλύπτεις κομμάτια του που ούτε καν φανταζόσουν πως υπάρχουν…
Και κάπως έτσι σχηματίζεται ένα παζλ που άλλοτε το φτιάχνεις με κλειστά τα μάτια σε λίγα λεπτά, κι άλλοτε θες μέρες ή και μήνες να το συνθέσεις.
Αυτή είναι η μαγεία του έρωτα που γεμίζει το στομαχάκι σου με «πεταλούδες» που με το σαματά τους, ξεσηκώνουν  όλο σου το «είναι», φέρνοντας την άνοιξη μέσα σου ακόμη κι αν έξω είναι βαρυχειμωνιά.
Κι εσένα δε σε νοιάζει κανείς και τίποτα παρά μονάχα αυτός, που έδωσε στις πεταλούδες σου φτερά.

Ξεκουκουλώνεσαι, εγκαταλείπεις τον εαυτό σου στο έλεός του κι ακολουθείς με τα μάτια κλειστά! Έτσι είναι ο έρωτας! Τυφλώνει!

Σε αποξενώνει με τον εαυτό σου! Δεν τον αναγνωρίζεις πια.Όταν βρεθείς στη δίνη του, χορεύεις στο ρυθμό του, αφήνεσαι σε βήματα που δε ξέρεις που θα σε οδηγήσουν! Λαχταράς τόσο πολύ, για το «άγνωστο»  που σε παρασέρνει, που δε σκέφτεσαι να ρίξεις «ψιχουλάκια»  για να ξανάβρεις τον δρόμο να γυρίσεις,  αν χρειαστεί…

Γιατί απλά, ελπίζεις πως δε χρειαστεί να γυρίσεις! Πως δε θα χαθείς!

Πως κι αν τον εαυτό σου χάσεις έναν καλύτερο «εαυτό» θα βρεις.
Ναι! μπορεί να συμβεί κι αυτό! Μπορεί να γίνει κι έτσι.
Μα πάντα θυμήσου ότι μπορεί να γίνει κι αλλιώς!
Είναι περίεργο παιχνίδι ο έρωτας με βαθμό επικινδυνότητας μεγάλο!

Καλό το «πέταγμα» μα θέλει δυνατά φτερά και σύστημα προσγείωσης σε ετοιμότητα!
Μπορεί να χάσεις τον εαυτό σου για πάντα, αν ολότελα κι άνευ όρων τον δώσεις.

Κομμάτια θα τον πάρεις πίσω, αν δε ξέρουν πώς να του φερθούν.
Γι’ αυτό θυμήσου να βάζεις σημαδάκια.

Για να μπορείς να επιστρέψεις εκεί που τον έχασες.

Γιατί μόνο εκεί μπορείς να τον ξαναβρείς!

Στο ασφαλές «κουκούλι» σου.

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Είμαι από τους ανθρώπους που όσο δύσκολα κι αν είναι τα πράγματα δε παύω να ονειρεύομαι και να ζω τα όνειρά μου! Επίμονη! Πεισματάρα! Τελειομανής! Αθεράπευτα ρομαντική... Ονειρεύομαι, έναν καλύτερο κόσμο, πιο αληθινό, πιο ειλικρινή, πιο ανθρώπινο! Ιδιαίτερα συναισθηματική με ότι αυτό συνεπάγεται... Ψάχνω πάντα να βρω στους ανθρώπους τη θετική τους πλευρά και πιστεύω πως όλοι έχουν κι απ' αυτήν! Φύσει αισιόδοξη, πιστεύω πως τίποτα δεν είναι αδύνατο όταν το θέλουμε πολύ! Αγαπώ τους "καθαρούς" και "ανοιχτούς" ανθρώπους με θέληση και πείσμα για ζωή που δεν παύουν να ονειρεύονται και να ελπίζουν σε κάτι καλύτερο. Λατρεύω να ταξιδεύω ακόμη και νοερά. Ο σπουδαιότερος ρόλος της ζωής μου είναι ο ρόλος της μητέρας, κι ο μεγαλύτερος φόβος μου μην αποτύχω σ' αυτόν! Πάντα μου άρεσε να αποτυπώνω στο χαρτί τις βαθύτερες σκέψεις και τα συναισθήματά μου και νιώθω πανευτυχής που "αναπνέω" μαζί σας!

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Η ζωή θα ήταν αδύνατη αν θυμόμασταν όλα όσα μας έχουν συμβεί

Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

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Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

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Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

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Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

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Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

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