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Της Ματίνας Σταθάκη.

Μου υποδεικνύουν συχνά τρόπους για να γίνω ευτυχισμένη. Γιατί λέει περνάνε τα χρόνια και αναρωτιούνται πόσες ευκαιρίες έχω ακόμα για να είμαι ευτυχισμένη…

Η αλήθεια είναι πως δεν ξέρω αν υπάρχει αυτό που λέμε ευκαιρία στην ευτυχία. Κι αν υπάρχει, πόσες ευκαιρίες έχουμε; Μία; Πολλές; Καμία; Άπειρες; Το αποτέλεσμα επηρεάζεται από την τύχη μας; Από τις επιλογές μας; Από την προσωπικότητά μας;

Και έπειτα, η ευτυχία είναι μια κατάσταση ή είναι στιγμιαία;

Η ευτυχία είναι αυτό που πιστεύω εγώ ή αυτό που πιστεύει ο άλλος;

Πολλά τα ερωτηματικά και δε χωράνε πια στο μυαλουδάκι μου.

Δε θέλω πια να αναλύω πού είναι η ευτυχία και πού κρύβεται.

Δεν πιστεύω εξάλλου ότι παίζει κρυφτό. Ούτε πως παίζει κυνηγητό, όπως πίστευα παλιότερα.

Δεν ξέρω καν αν υπάρχει η έννοια της στιγμής που λένε στην ευτυχία.

Εδώ που τα λέμε δεν ξέρω αν υπάρχει και η ευτυχία σαν κατάσταση.

Είναι κάτι εντελώς υποκειμενικό, ο καθένας βιώνει το όποιο συναίσθημα ευτυχίας με εντελώς διαφορετικό τρόπο.

Τότε τι υπάρχει από την ευτυχία;

Αφού δεν κρύβεται, αφού δε μεταδίδεται, αφού δε μεταβιβάζεται από γενιά σε γενιά, αφού δε διαμορφώνεται εκ του μη όντος… ε τότε πού βρίσκεται η ευτυχία;

Κάποιος θα περιμένει να πω πως βρίσκεται μέσα μας.

Όχι, ούτε εκεί βρίσκεται.

Για μένα δεν υπάρχει ευτυχία. Υπάρχει ζωή.

Κυρίως υπάρχει η διάθεση για ζωή.

Είναι αυτό που έχει πει και ο Αμερικανός συγγραφέας αυτοβοήθειας, William Arthur Ward:

«Μια συννεφιασμένη μέρα δεν μπορεί να τα βάλει με μια ηλιόλουστη προδιάθεση.»

Αν χαμογελάτε στη ζωή και σας χαμογελά και αυτή, για ποια ευτυχία να μιλήσουμε;

Αν κάποιος δεν αποφεύγει τη ζωή, γιατί να αναλύσουμε πόσες ευκαιρίες είχε, έχει ή θα έχει για την ευτυχία; Γιατί να αναρωτηθούμε αν του χρωστάει η ζωή λίγη ευτυχία παραπάνω;

Αν κάποιος αναπνέει και η ανάσα του ξυπνά κάθε σπιθαμή του σώματος και του πνεύματος, δε με νοιάζει να βαθμολογήσω πόσο ευτυχισμένος είναι.

Αν κάποιος τολμά να είναι ο εαυτός του χωρίς να φοβάται να χάσει τους άλλους, δε θα ασχοληθώ με τον δείκτη ευτυχίας του.

Αν κάποιος ξέρει τι θέλει και το διεκδικεί χωρίς να παραβιάζει τα θέλω του άλλου, δε θα τον πω ευτυχισμένο. Θα τον πω άνθρωπο με συνείδηση, γαλήνη και ισορροπίες.

Θα του πω επίσης πως το θερμόμετρο της ζωής του έχει χτυπήσει κόκκινο.

Θα του ζητήσω να μου μάθει το μυστικό του.

Όχι για να έχω μια ευκαιρία και γω στην ευτυχία, αλλά γιατί έχω καταλάβει πως ζω σημαίνει χρωματίζω την ψυχή μου με χρώματα που μόνο εγώ αναγνωρίζω. Αυτό που βλέπουν οι άλλοι είναι η αντανάκλαση.

Αν κάποιος με συμβουλεύει να βγω στην αναζήτηση για την ευτυχία είναι γιατί δεν μπορεί να διακρίνει τα πραγματικά μου χρώματα, βλέπει μόνο την αντανάκλασή του στα δικά μου.

Αν κάποιος μου πει πως δεν είμαι ευτυχισμένη θα του πω:

Εγώ απλά ζω. Ζω και ζωγραφίζω. Ζωγραφίζω τη ζωή μου με τα χρώματα που θέλω.

Σήμερα διαλέγω το κόκκινο, το χρώμα της καρδιάς, και σας το αφιερώνω για να θυμηθείτε πως για όσο χτυπά η καρδιά σας ζείτε και ζωγραφίζετε και εσείς μαζί μου.

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Ματίνα Σταθάκη

Όταν ξεκίνησα να γράφω, πίστευα πως το παιχνίδι με τις λέξεις κρύβεται στο μυαλό. Γρήγορα κατάλαβα πως οι λέξεις, οι αυθεντικές, είναι κρυμμένες στα συναισθήματα και χαραγμένες βαθιά στην ψυχή. Και κάπως έτσι το μολύβι γίνεται το κλειδί που ξεκλειδώνει όσα έχω φυλαγμένα.
Θα σας πω ένα μυστικό: δεν είμαι όσα γράφω, όμως όσα γράφω είναι η αλήθεια μου, η αλήθεια της στιγμής μου. Φανταστική ή πραγματική, ωραιοποιημένη ή ονειροπαρμένη, είναι η δική μου αλήθεια. Αν μέσα σε όλο αυτό διακρίνετε κάτι από τη δική σας αλήθεια, σας το χαρίζω με πολλή αγάπη, αν όχι, δεν πειράζει γιατί γραφή για μένα σημαίνει αφήνω τις λέξεις να πετάξουν, για να πετάξω μαζί τους... Φτου ξελευτερία λοιπόν!

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«Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».
Πόσο εύκολα έχουν ειπωθεί αυτές οι λέξεις. Πόσο μελάνι δεν χύθηκε, πόσες συζητήσεις έμειναν στη μέση μόνο και μόνο γιατί το συμπέρασμα ήταν το εξής ένα. «Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».

Συμφωνώ, υπάρχουν πολλών ειδών «μαλάκες». Αν, όμως, εσύ δεν μπορείς να ξεχωρίσεις το αγόρι απʾ τον άντρα, και τον άντρα απʾ το αρσενικό δε σου φταίει κανένας, είναι δικό σου θέμα και καθόλου δεν με ενδιαφέρει.

Κρύβεσαι πίσω από δύο αποσιωπητικά, βουτηγμένη μέσα στο δήθεν φεμινισμό σου και δεν καταλαβαίνεις πως ουσιαστικά κάνεις ζημιά μόνο σε εσένα.

Το αγόρι, ο άντρας ή το αρσενικό (αν και τα δυο τελευταία έχουν λίγο μπερδεμένο νόημα) υπάρχει πιθανότητα να μην πάψει ποτέ να έχει αυτή του την ιδιότητα μέχρι τέλους.

Υπάρχει, όμως, καλή μου, μια κατηγορία αγοριών τα οποία «μυρίζουν» από μακριά πως όταν τα μαλλιά τους ασπρίσουν, θα έχουν αποδείξει ότι είναι αρσενικά (κρατώντας το «αρσενικά» ως τον υπέρτατο χαρακτηρισμό σʾ έναν άντρα).
Θα ωριμάσει μέσα από τον αυτοσαρκασμό του και θα βάλει την εκτίμηση που έχει στη γυναίκα δίπλα του πάνω απʾ όλα.

Είναι αυτός ο άντρας που θα ήθελες να δεις δίπλα στην κόρη σου, εκείνος στον οποίο θα ήθελες να μοιάσει ο γιος σου.

Είναι αυτός που θα καταφέρει να σʾ ανεβάσει ψηλά χωρίς να έχει μπράτσα και κοιλιακούς. Ξέρει να ξεχωρίσει το γυναικάκι απʾ την γυναίκα και θα διυλίσει την κάθε σου ματιά.

Ξέρει τι θα πει ευγένεια, εκτίμηση και θα στη δείξει ακόμα και στον τρόπο που περπατάει δίπλα σου ή στον τρόπο που μιλάει για εσένα στους φίλους του.

Δεν πιστεύω να νομίζετε πως ακόμα κι αυτός ο τύπος άντρα δε θα κοιτάξει άλλη γυναίκα.
Φυσικά και θα κοιτάξει, μα το νόημα δεν είναι τι θα κοιτάξει, αλλά πού θα καταλήξει τελικά το βλέμμα του, γιατί πολύ απλά εκείνο ανήκει μόνο σʾ εσένα.

Τα υπόλοιπα απλά τα προσπερνά σαν την πρώτη ματιά που ρίχνει μπαίνοντας σʾ ένα bar προσπαθώντας να βρει ένα κενό τραπέζι να κάτσετε.
Αυτό είσαι για εκείνον, η ξεχωριστή, μοναδική γωνιά, το μοναδικό τραπέζι που ψάχνει να βρει για νʾ αράξει.

Για τον πραγματικό άντρα, το «σʾ ευχαριστώ» και το «συγγνώμη» είναι ένα σύνολο γραμμάτων τα οποία με μεγάλη ευκολία θα τα συντάξει στη σωστή σειρά, για να τους αποδώσει τις τιμές που τους αναλογούν και μαζί μʾ αυτά και σε εσένα.

Την αποδοχή σου την έχει γραμμένη στα παλαιότερα των υποδημάτων του, μιας κι αυτό που αναζητά είναι η εκτίμηση κι ο σεβασμός σου.
Θα αποζητήσει σʾ εσένα τη γνώμη σου, την άποψή σου κι όχι ένα κοριτσάκι που θα του ψελλίζει συνεχόμενα, φοβισμένα «ναι».

Απλώνει το χέρι του να σε κρατήσει, έτσι απλά, επειδή είναι ικανός να κάνει το απλό, σημαντικό.

Είσαι η ιδανική για εκείνον, όχι επειδή συμμορφώνεσαι με κάποια πρότυπα, αλλά επειδή δεν τον ενδιαφέρει το ιδανικό και δεν το ψάχνει. Ξέρει τον τρόπο να σε κάνει να νιώσεις ιδανική για εκείνον κι αυτό του αρκεί.

Είναι ο άντρας που δεν είναι όμορφος, αλλά θα σου αποδεικνύει καθημερινά πως μοναδικός σκοπός του είναι το να νιώθει όμορφος στα μάτια σου.

Ξέρει να ηγηθεί, και μέσα απʾ την ηγετική του υπόσταση θα καλύψει όλες σου τις ανασφάλειες, την ίδια στιγμή που στα μάτια σου θα αναζητά εκείνη που θα μείνει στα δύσκολα χωρίς πολλές φαμφάρες.

Να ξέρεις πως τα λόγια του είναι οι πράξεις του, αλλά ακόμα κι όταν τα χρησιμοποιεί, το κάνει για να μην ξεχνιέσαι, γιατί ξεχνιέστε, αγαπητή μου.

Είναι εκείνος που στο άκουσμά του θα ριγήσεις από πόθο, θα σε κάνει να τον ποθήσεις παίζοντας με το μυαλό σου κι όχι με το κορμί σου.

Στο τέλος της ημέρας, στο κρεβάτι σου, θα είναι αυτός που, κλείνοντας τα μάτια σου δίπλα του, θα σε κάνει να χαμογελάσεις με την εικόνα ενός γέρου γκριζομάλλη που σε πλησιάζει από πίσω κουτσαίνοντας, και σε παίρνει αγκαλιά, την ίδια στιγμή που φιλά τον ρυτιδιασμένο σου λαιμό.

Αυτός ο ίδιος που το πρωί δε θα ξεχάσεις ποτέ να τον αποχαιρετήσεις με μια καλημέρα και ένα φιλί.

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Της Ανθής Κατερίνη.

Αποκτάς μεγαλύτερη αγάπη για τους άλλους όταν αρχίζεις να φροντίζεις τον εαυτό σου. Εάν θέλεις να τους αγαπήσεις και δεν μπορείς να το εκφράσεις, η ίδια αυτή δυσκολία υπάρχει στην σχέση σου με τον εαυτό σου. Και αν σήμερα θέλεις να τους πεις πόσο όμορφοι είναι, είναι γιατί τα λόγια και οι πράξεις σου δεν κατευθύνονται εχθρικά προς τον εαυτό σου όπως χθες. Από τις σωστές για σένα επιλογές απορρέει από μέσα σου η επιθυμία να σου πεις μπράβο και έτσι καταλήγεις να επιβραβεύεις την ύπαρξη των άλλων που υπάρχουν εκεί και στέκουν τόσο όμορφοι. Με ιδιαίτερη ομορφιά, με την φιλικότητα και τον αυθορμητισμό τους, με την επιμονή και την εργατικότητά τους, με το άγχος τους, με την ντροπαλότητά τους. Όλοι βλέπεις σου αρέσουν τέτοιες μέρες που έχεις φροντίσει τον εαυτό σου και όλους τους αγαπάς ακόμη και αν είναι τόσο διαφορετικοί μεταξύ τους. Αποτελούν πλευρές του εαυτού σου και τις αποδέχεσαι. Μα εάν κάποια έχεις αποκλείσει από την ταυτότητά σου και δεν την θεωρείς δική σου πλευρά καταβάθος την ζηλεύεις και την αποστρέφεσαι σαν ατελής άνθρωπος που είσαι, που δεν του αρέσει να τον βαραίνει μία αίσθηση κατωτερότητας. Γι’ αυτό δεν πρέπει να φοβάσαι να γίνεις όλα αυτά που έχεις αποκλείσει πως μπορείς να είσαι. Αυτό ήταν μέχρι χτες. Σήμερα μπορείς να επιλέξεις από την αρχή. Μια επιλογή σε κρατά και η ιδέα πως δεν ήταν τέτοια όμορφα πράγματα στο πεδίο των επιλογών σου.
Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους. Όσο πιο όμορφο σε βρίσκεις τόσο θα βλέπεις ομορφιά στους άλλους.
Σταμάτα τις πράξεις που σε οδηγούνε σε φαύλους κύκλους αρνητικών συναισθημάτων. Αν σε τρέφει αυτή η ρόδα που πάνω της τσουλάς και ταυτόχρονα στην άσφαλτο πατιέσαι, μάθε να μην φοβάσαι να μείνεις εκτεθειμένος με τον πόνο σου, αντί να τον καλύπτεις με σκουπίδια. Μάθε πως όταν σταματήσεις τα εφήμερα παυσίπονα τότε θα σε διδάξει ο πόνος σου. Πρέπει να τον κοιτάξεις και μια φορά στα μάτια. Να μην τον πνίγεις με μία κουβέρτα για να εξαφανιστεί. Αντιθέτως, να καλύψεις εσένα με την κουβέρτα αυτή, να ζεσταθείς και ό, τι άσχημο ,θα δεις, που θα φύγει σαν μικρόβιο που δεν μπόρεσε να επιζήσει μέσα σε έναν οργανισμό που οι στρατιώτες του πολέμησαν με τόλμη και δύναμη για την προστασία του παλατιού τους. Γύμνασε τους πολεμιστές της ψυχής σου και θα γίνεις ο καλύτερος προστάτης του εαυτού σου. Γιατί όσο και να μην θέλουμε να το παραδεχτούμε εάν κατηγορούμε κάποιον για το κακό που μας έκανε, στην πραγματικότητα κατηγορούμε εμάς που μας φερθήκαμε με τέτοια αναισθησία και δεν μας προστατέψαμε όπως μας άξιζε. Και τέτοια ντροπή πώς να την ξεχάσεις; Με το να κάνεις τον εαυτό σου να σε εμπιστευτεί ξανά. Να πιστέψει πως εάν αφεθεί χαλαρός στα χέρια σου δεν θα βρεθεί ξανά στο πάτωμα, αλλά θα είσαι εκεί να τον αφήσεις να πέσει απαλά μέσα στην τρυφερή σου χούφτα.

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Τραβάς εσύ από την μια, τραβούν οι υπόλοιποι από την άλλη και τώρα είναι η ώρα που χρειάζεται την καλύτερη περίθαλψη γιατί αιμορραγεί στο κέντρο της.
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