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Χάζευε στο τμήμα της κλασικής αγγλικής λογοτεχνίας, όταν εκείνη ανεβασμένη σε μια σκάλα δίπλα του, τεντώθηκε στις μύτες των ποδιών της στην προσπάθεια να βάλει ένα βιβλίο στη θέση του.

Άφησε με αυτό τον τρόπο σε κοινή θέα ένα μικρό μέρος του κορμιού της, ακριβώς πάνω από τη γραμμή του τζιν παντελονιού και κάτω από τον αφαλό της.Διέκρινε ένα τατουάζ σε έντονο μαύρο χώμα και καλλιγραφική γραμματοσειρά: “soul mates never die”.
“Πιστεύεις στις αδελφές ψυχές;” τη ρώτησε.
Κατέβηκε δυο σκαλιά για να συναντήσει το βλέμμα του.
“Πιστεύω στο κάρμα, του απάντησε. Εγώ και χιλιάδες ινδουιστές, βουδιστές και λάτρεις της αστρολογίας. Με βολεύει η εξήγηση πως κάθε πράξη είναι αποτέλεσμα κάποιας αιτίας του παρελθόντος και την ίδια στιγμή η ίδια πράξη είναι αιτία για τα αποτελέσματα του μέλλοντος. Ο νόμος του κάρμα μιλά για δράση και αντίδραση, δικαιοσύνη και ισορροπία. Για τη σχέση του αιτίου και αιτιατού που εφαρμόζεται σε κάθε εκδήλωση της ζωής. Είναι ο δικός μου τρόπος να εξηγώ τις αδικίες της ζωής και του έρωτα”.

“Υπάρχει αδικία στον έρωτα;” τη ρώτησε μη μπορώντας να συγκρατήσει το χαμόγελό του.
“Όταν έχεις βρει τον έρωτα της ζωή σου και δεν μπορείς να είσαι μαζί του, τι είναι, αν όχι αδικία;”.

Το χαμόγελο του μίκρυνε στο άκουσμα της φράσης. Αυτή την αδικία την ήξερε καλά.

Χτύπησα ευαίσθητες χορδές φίλε μου, συνέχισε εκείνη. Είμαστε πολλοί στο κλαμπ του ανολοκλήρωτου.
Άκου να μαθαίνεις λοιπόν. Σύμφωνα με τη θεωρία της μετενσάρκωσης, τα ερωτικά πάθη μας τα ζούμε ξανά με τα ίδια άτομα από ζωή σε ζωή, για να ρεφάρουμε τις μεταξύ μας αδικίες, να επιστρέψουμε τα χρωστούμενα, να βγάλουμε τα απωθημένα μας, να πάρουμε έστω, το αίμα μας πίσω.
Τι νόμιζες; Πως είσαι ο μόνος που έχεις ζήσει έναν δυνατό έρωτα να σε στοιχειώνει όλη σου τη ζωή; Όλοι έχουν βιώσει σχέσεις που δεν προχωράνε αλλά ούτε και διαλύονται, τρελά πάθη που δεν τους φρενάρει καμιά λογική, έρωτες ανυπέρβλητους και ανεπανάληπτους. Όλοι έχουν να διηγηθούν μια τέτοια ιστορία.
Είναι οι καρμικοί έρωτες.
Αυτοί που συνεχίζουν να παιδεύονται από ζωή σε ζωή, μέχρι να απαλλαγούν από απωθημένα πράξεων που έγιναν ή δεν έγιναν, από το βάρος των ανεκπλήρωτων πόθων, από τη μανία για εκδίκηση, από οτιδήποτε αποτελεί, με λίγα λόγια, φορτίο του παρελθόντος. Είναι η μόνη εξήγηση που μπορείς να δώσεις για έρωτες που αυτοκαταστρέφονται, ενώ το μόνο που θα έπρεπε να κάνουν, είναι να είναι μαζί.

Το ενδιαφέρον του για όσα η νεαρή βιβλιοθηκάριος με σθένος υποστήριζε, είχε ανάψει για τα καλά.
“Και πώς καταλαβαίνεις ότι ένας έρωτας είναι καρμικός;” τη ρώτησε ανυπόμονα.
“Αυτό που χαρακτηρίζει μια καρμική ερωτική σχέση είναι η εκδήλωση οικειότητας από το πρώτο λεπτό. Οι άμυνες πέφτουν χωρίς να το καταλάβεις. Νιώθεις ένα ψυχικό δέσιμο χωρίς προηγούμενο. Σου θυμίζει κάτι από εσένα. Έχεις την αίσθηση πως κάπως, κάπου, κάποτε, εσείς οι δυο έχετε ξανασυναντηθεί. Η έλξη είναι έντονη και αδύνατο να την προσπεράσεις. Θέλεις να δημιουργήσεις μια θέση στη ζωή σου για αυτόν τον έρωτα, ακόμη κι όταν φαίνεται να μην υπάρχει χώρος. Η επιθυμία της παρουσίας του στη ζωή σου, με όποιο τρόπο είναι πιο έντονη από κάθε άλλη ανάγκη. Αν όλα αυτά δεν είναι κάρμα, τότε τι είναι;”.

Την κοιτούσε χωρίς να απαντά.

“Και για να ολοκληρώσω την θεωρία του κάρμα, με ανακουφίζει λίγο η ιδέα πως ακόμη κι αν παιδεύομαι με τον καρμικό μου έρωτα σε αυτή τη ζωή, υπάρχει η ελπίδα πως σε μια άλλη θα συναντηθούμε για να τελειώσουμε ό,τι αφήσαμε εδώ στη μέση. Θλιβερό δεν θα ήταν να μην υπάρχουν δεύτερες ευκαιρίες για ανθρώπους που θα έπρεπε να είναι μαζί; Ας τα καταφέρουν έστω και σε μια άλλη ζωή. Με αυτόν τον τρόπο οι αδελφές ψυχές δεν πεθαίνουν ποτέ”.

Τη συζήτηση διέκοψε μια πελάτισσα που έψαχνε κάτι στο τμήμα ψυχολογίας.
Η κοπέλα έφυγε για να την εξυπηρετήσει και τον άφησε στις σκέψεις του.
Η αδελφή ψυχή, το αιώνιο ζητούμενο του έρωτα, η πλήρης ολοκλήρωση και ταύτιση…είχε πάντα την πεποίθηση πως ήταν ευσεβής πόθος, μύθος, παραμύθια της αστρολογίας. Υπήρχε άραγε η πιθανότητα να είναι αλήθεια;

Τον ειρμό της σκέψης έκοψε ξαφνικά ο ήχος του κινητού τηλεφώνου του. Κοίταξε την οθόνη.
Ήταν εκείνη. Ο έρωτας της ζωή του. Το άλλο του μισό. Πόσες πιθανότητες είχε να συμβεί αυτό, όταν είχαν τόσο καιρό να μιλήσουν;
Έβαλε το κινητό στο αυτί του και απάντησε στην κλήση:

“Πιστεύεις στις αδελφές ψυχές;” τη ρώτησε σαν να είχαν να μιλήσουν από χθες, αν και είχαν περάσει χρόνια.
“Φυσικά. Αφού είσαι η δική μου”, του είπε.

Αν δεν ήταν το κάρμα που του έπαιζε περίεργα παιχνίδια, ίσως ήταν η μοίρα. Ίσως ο Θεός. Ίσως εκείνη, που τον ήξερε καλύτερα από όλους. Πάντως κάποιος κινούσε τα νήματα του αιώνιου έρωτα του.
Άλλωστε, ποιος ήταν εκείνος για να πάει ενάντια στους νόμους της φύσης.
Και η φύση είχε γι’ αυτούς μόνο έναν νόμο. Εκείνον της έλξης…

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Όταν σκεφτόμαστε συνεχώς πράγματα από το παρελθόν μας, είτε αναπολώντας τα, είτε αναθεωρώντας τα, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε μία παγίδα που μας κρατάει πίσω. Δεν δίνουμε αξία στο παρόν μας και έτσι δεν μπορούμε να χαρούμε τις εμπειρίες που βιώνουμε καθημερινά.

Η ζωή δεν είναι ένα ημερολόγιο γεγονότων που χρειάζεται ξεφύλλισμα από έναν παθητικό αναγνώστη, αλλά μία αρένα δραστηριοτήτων που πάντα έχει κάτι να μας τραβήξει το ενδιαφέρον. Το βέλος της ζωής δεν δείχνει ποτέ προς τα πίσω, δείχνει πάντα μπροστά.Έτσι, είναι ανώφελο κάποιος να κολλάει τη σκέψη του στο παρελθόν ή στο μέλλον σα να μην υπάρχει το “εδώ” και το “τώρα”.

Φυσικά, οι αναμνήσεις είναι εγγενές μέρος της ζωής και συχνά αναπόφευκτες. Είναι ένας τρόπος να μένουμε κοντά στα πρόσωπα που αγαπάμε και σε όσα είμαστε παθιασμένοι. Είναι το συστατικό της προσωπικής μας ταυτότητας και του χαρακτήρα μας. Είναι οι ρίζες βαθιά μέσα στον πυρήνα του εαυτού μας.

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Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

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Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

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Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

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Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

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Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

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