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Βρισκόμαστε σε μια εποχή, όπου οι ανθρώπινες σχέσεις, και δη οι ερωτικές, έχουν γίνει επιφανειακές και καθόλου ουσιαστικές. Που οι άνθρωποι με την πρώτη δυσκολία είναι έτοιμοι να τα παρατήσουν· που αντί να μείνουν και να παλέψουν για να σωθεί η σχέση τους και να κρατήσει μέσα στο πέρασμα του χρόνου, επιλέγουν τον εύκολο δρόμο· τον δρόμο της φυγής.

Πέρα, όμως, από αυτό, υπάρχει και κάτι άλλο πιο σοβαρό που μπορεί να καταστρέψει μια σχέση κι αυτό είναι η απιστία· όταν κάτι πλέον σε έχει κουράσει, για τον οποιονδήποτε λόγο, όταν έχεις πλέον σταματήσει να νιώθεις αυτά που ένιωθες, πρώτα φεύγεις από εκεί που ήσουν και μετά πας κάπου αλλού· είναι άκρως εγωιστικό και ταπεινωτικό να βρίσκεσαι σε δύο μέρη ταυτοχρόνως. Αυτή η συμπεριφορά σε απαξιώνει σαν άνθρωπο. Είναι άσχημο να κρατάς κάποιον δίπλα σου μόνο και μόνο από ασφάλεια, αλλά παράλληλα να διατηρείς κι άλλο δεσμό κρυφό. Δείχνεις πως δεν σε σέβεσαι κι αυτό είναι το λυπηρό και πως δεν αγαπάς πραγματικά τον σύντροφό σου, γιατί αν τον αγαπούσες δεν θα πήγαινες αλλού και δεν θα φερόσουν με τέτοιο τρόπο πληγώνοντάς τον με μια πράξη για την οποία μόνο ντροπή θα έπρεπε να νιώθεις.

Τα πάντα είναι μέσα στο μυαλό και τα πάντα για να συμβούν θέλουν τον χρόνο τους. Το να θέλεις να κάνεις μια σχέση και να προχωρήσεις με κάποιον στη ζωή, σημαίνει πως το κάνεις συνειδητά· πως το κάνεις γιατί το θες, γιατί το αισθάνεσαι, γιατί θες να ζήσεις στιγμές και να μοιραστείς συναισθήματα με ένα και μόνο συγκεκριμένο άτομο. Το να επιλέξεις, όμως, να απατήσεις τον σύντροφό σου είναι αυτοταπείνωση· ταπεινώνεις με αυτό τον τρόπο τον εαυτό σου και δείχνεις πως από τη στιγμή που δεν σεβάστηκες τον σύντροφό σου, δεν σέβεσαι πάνω απ’ όλα εσένα τον ίδιο και τις επιλογές σου· γιατί μια επιλογή ήταν και ο άνθρωπος που είχες αποφασίσει να έχεις δίπλα σου. Να θυμάσαι πάντα πως τους ανθρώπους που αγαπάμε, δεν τους πληγώνουμε· τους ανθρώπους, όμως, που αγαπάμε αληθινά.   

Και πρέπει να πάψεις να θεωρείς τον άλλο δεδομένο· πως αν κάνεις μια τέτοια πράξη ο άλλος θα σε συγχωρέσει και θα σε δεχτεί πίσω. Και γιατί να το κάνει αυτό; Επειδή σε αγαπά; Ναι, αν όμως, αγαπάει κι αυτός τον εαυτό του, θα του δείξει τον απαραίτητο σεβασμό και δε θα δεχτεί ποτέ ξανά πίσω έναν άνθρωπο που του φέρθηκε με τον χειρότερο τρόπο· που έδειξε πως δεν τον σεβάστηκε και που με αυτή του την πράξη είναι σα να ξέχασε όσα είχαν περάσει μαζί, σα να τα έσβησε όλα μονομιάς. Ακόμη και να γυρίσει πίσω σε σένα, πάντα θα τον τρώει η αμφιβολία ότι μπορεί να ξανασυμβεί το ίδιο. Δυστυχώς, τίποτα δεν θα είναι ξανά το ίδιο, γιατί η εμπιστοσύνη θα έχει χαθεί και πάντα στο πίσω μέρος του μυαλού θα υπάρχει ο φόβος.

Λοιπόν, είναι άσχημο πράγμα να επαναπαύεσαι στη σιγουριά θεωρώντας πως ο σύντροφός σου θα είναι δίπλα σου για πάντα κι εσύ μπορείς να κάνεις ό,τι θέλεις· ακόμη και να απιστήσεις. Όλες οι σχέσεις έχουν και τις καλές και τις άσχημές τους στιγμές, και μπορεί οι άσχημες να είναι πολλές περισσότερες, όμως αυτό τι σημαίνει; Ό,τι θα βρεις παρηγοριά σε άλλη αγκαλιά; Αν το κάνεις αυτό, τότε σημαίνει πως δεν αγαπάς πραγματικά τον άνθρωπο που έχεις δίπλα σου, αλλά πάνω απ’ όλα δεν αγαπάς Εσένα! Και με τις πράξεις σου σε υποτιμάς. Μην σε υποτιμάς, δεν αξίζει! Και είναι κρίμα οι άνθρωποι να πληγώνουν ανθρώπους που είναι δίπλα τους και τους στηρίζουν και τους δείχνουν έμπρακτα της αγάπη τους. Να θυμάσαι πάντα, όπως έλεγε και ο συγγραφέας Θανάσης Χατζής « Όσοι αγαπούν ούτε απατούν, ούτε απαιτούν, ούτε επαιτούν ».

αναπνοές    

Μιρένα Πατρού

Αγαπώ τη ζωή, προσπαθώ να ζω και να απολαμβάνω την κάθε μου στιγμή, το κάθε δευτερόλεπτο! Λατρεύω τα ταξίδια, την γνωριμία με άλλους πολιτισμούς, ιδέες και σκέψεις. Αθεράπευτα ονειροπόλα και ρομαντική. Δεν επαναπαύομαι ποτέ. Προσπαθώ να γεμίζω τον ελεύθερό μου χρόνο με πράγματα που μου αρέσουν και με κάνουν να νιώθω πλήρης, διοχετεύοντας εκεί όλη μου την ενέργεια και κάνοντάς με να νιώθω δημιουργική! Έχω πάθος με τη λογοτεχνία, γιατί πιστεύω πως τα ομορφότερα ταξίδια γίνονται μέσα από το νου. Τα βιβλία μπορούν να σε ταξιδέψουν σε κόσμους που δεν φανταζόσουν ποτέ ότι θα μπορούσες να πας! Αγαπώ τους ανθρώπους που φοράνε την ψυχή τους στο πρόσωπό τους και που χαμογελάνε αληθινά! Θεωρώ πως το χαμόγελο είναι το πιο όμορφο και πολυτιμότερο στολίδι του ανθρώπου. Το προσφέρεις απλόχερα, δεν κοστίζει τίποτα, είναι ανεκτίμητης, όμως, αξίας και με αυτό μπορείς να κάνεις τους γύρω σου να νιώθουν όμορφα, μα πάνω απ' όλα τον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό!

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«Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».
Πόσο εύκολα έχουν ειπωθεί αυτές οι λέξεις. Πόσο μελάνι δεν χύθηκε, πόσες συζητήσεις έμειναν στη μέση μόνο και μόνο γιατί το συμπέρασμα ήταν το εξής ένα. «Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».

Συμφωνώ, υπάρχουν πολλών ειδών «μαλάκες». Αν, όμως, εσύ δεν μπορείς να ξεχωρίσεις το αγόρι απʾ τον άντρα, και τον άντρα απʾ το αρσενικό δε σου φταίει κανένας, είναι δικό σου θέμα και καθόλου δεν με ενδιαφέρει.

Κρύβεσαι πίσω από δύο αποσιωπητικά, βουτηγμένη μέσα στο δήθεν φεμινισμό σου και δεν καταλαβαίνεις πως ουσιαστικά κάνεις ζημιά μόνο σε εσένα.

Το αγόρι, ο άντρας ή το αρσενικό (αν και τα δυο τελευταία έχουν λίγο μπερδεμένο νόημα) υπάρχει πιθανότητα να μην πάψει ποτέ να έχει αυτή του την ιδιότητα μέχρι τέλους.

Υπάρχει, όμως, καλή μου, μια κατηγορία αγοριών τα οποία «μυρίζουν» από μακριά πως όταν τα μαλλιά τους ασπρίσουν, θα έχουν αποδείξει ότι είναι αρσενικά (κρατώντας το «αρσενικά» ως τον υπέρτατο χαρακτηρισμό σʾ έναν άντρα).
Θα ωριμάσει μέσα από τον αυτοσαρκασμό του και θα βάλει την εκτίμηση που έχει στη γυναίκα δίπλα του πάνω απʾ όλα.

Είναι αυτός ο άντρας που θα ήθελες να δεις δίπλα στην κόρη σου, εκείνος στον οποίο θα ήθελες να μοιάσει ο γιος σου.

Είναι αυτός που θα καταφέρει να σʾ ανεβάσει ψηλά χωρίς να έχει μπράτσα και κοιλιακούς. Ξέρει να ξεχωρίσει το γυναικάκι απʾ την γυναίκα και θα διυλίσει την κάθε σου ματιά.

Ξέρει τι θα πει ευγένεια, εκτίμηση και θα στη δείξει ακόμα και στον τρόπο που περπατάει δίπλα σου ή στον τρόπο που μιλάει για εσένα στους φίλους του.

Δεν πιστεύω να νομίζετε πως ακόμα κι αυτός ο τύπος άντρα δε θα κοιτάξει άλλη γυναίκα.
Φυσικά και θα κοιτάξει, μα το νόημα δεν είναι τι θα κοιτάξει, αλλά πού θα καταλήξει τελικά το βλέμμα του, γιατί πολύ απλά εκείνο ανήκει μόνο σʾ εσένα.

Τα υπόλοιπα απλά τα προσπερνά σαν την πρώτη ματιά που ρίχνει μπαίνοντας σʾ ένα bar προσπαθώντας να βρει ένα κενό τραπέζι να κάτσετε.
Αυτό είσαι για εκείνον, η ξεχωριστή, μοναδική γωνιά, το μοναδικό τραπέζι που ψάχνει να βρει για νʾ αράξει.

Για τον πραγματικό άντρα, το «σʾ ευχαριστώ» και το «συγγνώμη» είναι ένα σύνολο γραμμάτων τα οποία με μεγάλη ευκολία θα τα συντάξει στη σωστή σειρά, για να τους αποδώσει τις τιμές που τους αναλογούν και μαζί μʾ αυτά και σε εσένα.

Την αποδοχή σου την έχει γραμμένη στα παλαιότερα των υποδημάτων του, μιας κι αυτό που αναζητά είναι η εκτίμηση κι ο σεβασμός σου.
Θα αποζητήσει σʾ εσένα τη γνώμη σου, την άποψή σου κι όχι ένα κοριτσάκι που θα του ψελλίζει συνεχόμενα, φοβισμένα «ναι».

Απλώνει το χέρι του να σε κρατήσει, έτσι απλά, επειδή είναι ικανός να κάνει το απλό, σημαντικό.

Είσαι η ιδανική για εκείνον, όχι επειδή συμμορφώνεσαι με κάποια πρότυπα, αλλά επειδή δεν τον ενδιαφέρει το ιδανικό και δεν το ψάχνει. Ξέρει τον τρόπο να σε κάνει να νιώσεις ιδανική για εκείνον κι αυτό του αρκεί.

Είναι ο άντρας που δεν είναι όμορφος, αλλά θα σου αποδεικνύει καθημερινά πως μοναδικός σκοπός του είναι το να νιώθει όμορφος στα μάτια σου.

Ξέρει να ηγηθεί, και μέσα απʾ την ηγετική του υπόσταση θα καλύψει όλες σου τις ανασφάλειες, την ίδια στιγμή που στα μάτια σου θα αναζητά εκείνη που θα μείνει στα δύσκολα χωρίς πολλές φαμφάρες.

Να ξέρεις πως τα λόγια του είναι οι πράξεις του, αλλά ακόμα κι όταν τα χρησιμοποιεί, το κάνει για να μην ξεχνιέσαι, γιατί ξεχνιέστε, αγαπητή μου.

Είναι εκείνος που στο άκουσμά του θα ριγήσεις από πόθο, θα σε κάνει να τον ποθήσεις παίζοντας με το μυαλό σου κι όχι με το κορμί σου.

Στο τέλος της ημέρας, στο κρεβάτι σου, θα είναι αυτός που, κλείνοντας τα μάτια σου δίπλα του, θα σε κάνει να χαμογελάσεις με την εικόνα ενός γέρου γκριζομάλλη που σε πλησιάζει από πίσω κουτσαίνοντας, και σε παίρνει αγκαλιά, την ίδια στιγμή που φιλά τον ρυτιδιασμένο σου λαιμό.

Αυτός ο ίδιος που το πρωί δε θα ξεχάσεις ποτέ να τον αποχαιρετήσεις με μια καλημέρα και ένα φιλί.

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Αποκτάς μεγαλύτερη αγάπη για τους άλλους όταν αρχίζεις να φροντίζεις τον εαυτό σου. Εάν θέλεις να τους αγαπήσεις και δεν μπορείς να το εκφράσεις, η ίδια αυτή δυσκολία υπάρχει στην σχέση σου με τον εαυτό σου. Και αν σήμερα θέλεις να τους πεις πόσο όμορφοι είναι, είναι γιατί τα λόγια και οι πράξεις σου δεν κατευθύνονται εχθρικά προς τον εαυτό σου όπως χθες. Από τις σωστές για σένα επιλογές απορρέει από μέσα σου η επιθυμία να σου πεις μπράβο και έτσι καταλήγεις να επιβραβεύεις την ύπαρξη των άλλων που υπάρχουν εκεί και στέκουν τόσο όμορφοι. Με ιδιαίτερη ομορφιά, με την φιλικότητα και τον αυθορμητισμό τους, με την επιμονή και την εργατικότητά τους, με το άγχος τους, με την ντροπαλότητά τους. Όλοι βλέπεις σου αρέσουν τέτοιες μέρες που έχεις φροντίσει τον εαυτό σου και όλους τους αγαπάς ακόμη και αν είναι τόσο διαφορετικοί μεταξύ τους. Αποτελούν πλευρές του εαυτού σου και τις αποδέχεσαι. Μα εάν κάποια έχεις αποκλείσει από την ταυτότητά σου και δεν την θεωρείς δική σου πλευρά καταβάθος την ζηλεύεις και την αποστρέφεσαι σαν ατελής άνθρωπος που είσαι, που δεν του αρέσει να τον βαραίνει μία αίσθηση κατωτερότητας. Γι’ αυτό δεν πρέπει να φοβάσαι να γίνεις όλα αυτά που έχεις αποκλείσει πως μπορείς να είσαι. Αυτό ήταν μέχρι χτες. Σήμερα μπορείς να επιλέξεις από την αρχή. Μια επιλογή σε κρατά και η ιδέα πως δεν ήταν τέτοια όμορφα πράγματα στο πεδίο των επιλογών σου.
Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους. Όσο πιο όμορφο σε βρίσκεις τόσο θα βλέπεις ομορφιά στους άλλους.
Σταμάτα τις πράξεις που σε οδηγούνε σε φαύλους κύκλους αρνητικών συναισθημάτων. Αν σε τρέφει αυτή η ρόδα που πάνω της τσουλάς και ταυτόχρονα στην άσφαλτο πατιέσαι, μάθε να μην φοβάσαι να μείνεις εκτεθειμένος με τον πόνο σου, αντί να τον καλύπτεις με σκουπίδια. Μάθε πως όταν σταματήσεις τα εφήμερα παυσίπονα τότε θα σε διδάξει ο πόνος σου. Πρέπει να τον κοιτάξεις και μια φορά στα μάτια. Να μην τον πνίγεις με μία κουβέρτα για να εξαφανιστεί. Αντιθέτως, να καλύψεις εσένα με την κουβέρτα αυτή, να ζεσταθείς και ό, τι άσχημο ,θα δεις, που θα φύγει σαν μικρόβιο που δεν μπόρεσε να επιζήσει μέσα σε έναν οργανισμό που οι στρατιώτες του πολέμησαν με τόλμη και δύναμη για την προστασία του παλατιού τους. Γύμνασε τους πολεμιστές της ψυχής σου και θα γίνεις ο καλύτερος προστάτης του εαυτού σου. Γιατί όσο και να μην θέλουμε να το παραδεχτούμε εάν κατηγορούμε κάποιον για το κακό που μας έκανε, στην πραγματικότητα κατηγορούμε εμάς που μας φερθήκαμε με τέτοια αναισθησία και δεν μας προστατέψαμε όπως μας άξιζε. Και τέτοια ντροπή πώς να την ξεχάσεις; Με το να κάνεις τον εαυτό σου να σε εμπιστευτεί ξανά. Να πιστέψει πως εάν αφεθεί χαλαρός στα χέρια σου δεν θα βρεθεί ξανά στο πάτωμα, αλλά θα είσαι εκεί να τον αφήσεις να πέσει απαλά μέσα στην τρυφερή σου χούφτα.

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Ανθή Κατερίνη

Κάθε φορά που χάνομαι ανάμεσα στον ρεαλισμό και τον ρομαντισμό, στην αισιοδοξία και την απαισιοδοξία παίζω με τις λέξεις για να με ανακαλύψω. Οι σκέψεις μου χορεύουν στάζοντας μελάνι και δεν ξέρεις ποτέ τι θα σχηματίσουν τα βήματά τους. Η αδυναμία μου είναι οι όμορφες ψυχές. Μυρωδιές, μουσικές, εικόνες χρωματίζουν την καθημερινότητα μου. Στόχος μου είναι η αυτοβελτίωση γι’ αυτό συχνά αλλάζω αφήνοντας πίσω ότι στέκεται εμπόδιο ανάμεσα σε μένα και τον εαυτό μου.

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Της Δικαίας Μαραβέλια.

Αγαπητέ μου Έλληνα, ξέρεις από τότε που η Ελλαδίτσα μας θυμάται τον εαυτό της, πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.
Τραβάς εσύ από την μια, τραβούν οι υπόλοιποι από την άλλη και τώρα είναι η ώρα που χρειάζεται την καλύτερη περίθαλψη γιατί αιμορραγεί στο κέντρο της.
Οι αξίες μας, ο πολιτισμός μας, η ψυχή μας, εμείς οι ίδιοι αφήσαμε να μας τα πάρουν… και τώρα απαιτείς να στα επιστρέψουν. 
Φοβάσαι να πεις δημόσια, ότι φοβάσαι για τα παιδιά σου;
Ξέρεις φοβάμαι, που φοβάσαι. Φοβάμαι που νομίζεις ότι τα θέματα που απασχολούν ολόκληρο τον πλανήτη δεν σε απασχολούν.
Ναι ζούμε στην πιο ευλογημένη χώρα στο κόσμο, στην χώρα της δημοκρατίας, στην χώρα που κάνουμε ποστ μόνο, τις σοφίες των σοφών μας, χωρίς να γνωρίζουμε το βαθύτερο νόημα τους.
Φοβάμαι… αλλά είμαι αισιόδοξη. Για τα παιδιά ρε, για τα παιδιά μας!

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Δικαία Μαραβέλια

Η Δικαία Μαραβέλια ζει μόνιμα στη Σύμη.
Μεγαλωμένη και κανακεμένη, στα γόνατα του παπά Τάσου, με ιερή στιγμή αυτή που την τάϊζε γλυκό σταφύλι με τόση ευλάβεια, σαν να ήταν κοινωνία.
Τον έβλεπε πάντα να γράφει όταν δεν λειτουργούσε.
Τώρα έφτασε η ώρα να ακολουθήσει τα χνάρια του, συντροφιά με τους αγγέλους της.

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