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Έτσι είμαστε εμείς οι άνθρωποι, εγωιστές. Ποτέ δεν παραδεχόμαστε τα λάθη μας. Έχουμε μάθει μία ζωή να ρίχνουμε ευθύνες χωρίς εμείς να αναλάβουμε καμία. Έχουμε συνηθίσει στο να κρίνουμε μόνο τους άλλους, χωρίς να κοιτάμε και λίγο τον εαυτό μας. Όμως η κάθε διαφορά και η κάθε διαφωνία μας που προκύπτει, καθώς υπάρχουν δύο όψεις οι οποίες αντιπαραβάλλονται, μπορεί να λυθεί και να ξεπεραστεί. Αυτό όμως που δεν λύνεται είναι ο ίδιος ο άνθρωπος.

Ο άνθρωπος έχει μάθει μία ζωή να κατηγορεί, να ζητά ευθύνες χωρίς να δίνει. Έχει μάθει να είναι το επίκεντρο του κόσμου και δεν τον νοιάζει για το αν θα πληγώσει, αρκεί να μην πληγωθεί ο ίδιος. Έχει μάθει να παίρνει αλλά όταν έρχεται η ώρα να δώσει εκείνος πάντα βρίσκει λόγους για να αναχωρεί. Και κάπως έτσι σφάλμα στο σφάλμα​ όλες οι σχέσεις που έχει διαλύονται και μένει παρέα με το “φύγε” του. Αυτό που δεν το ξεστομίζει στην ουσία αλλά το δείχνει με τις πράξεις τους.

Αυτό όμως που είναι αδύνατον να συλλογιστεί κανείς είναι ότι τα πιο μεγάλα “φύγε” λέγονται σε ανθρώπους που αγαπάμε, σε ανθρώπους που είναι τόσο σημαντικοί για μας. Δεν έχει μέτρο πια αυτός ο εγωισμός; Μα τίποτα δεν λογαριάζει;  Σαν βγαίνει από την καρδιά που είναι πληγωμένη παίρνει σβάρνα όλους, προκειμένου να δικαιωθούν τα τραύματά του.

Ο πόνος όμως μεταμορφώνει τον άνθρωπο, τον αλλάζει. Τον κάνει να υποφέρει τόσο που φτάνει σε σημείο να μην αισθάνεται τίποτα. Κι έτσι προκειμένου να λυτρωθεί και να σωθεί οδηγείται σε αντιδράσεις και ξεσπάσματα που όμως κοστίζουν. Κι αυτό το καταλαβαίνει μετά, αφού στέκεται μόνος του και αναρωτιέται στο τι τον οδήγησε να φερθεί έτσι όπως φέρθηκε και μάλιστα σε κάποιον που ίσως να σήμαινε τόσο πολλά για εκείνον.

Τότε είναι που καταλαβαίνει κανείς πως κανένας πόνος και καμιά προδοσία δεν πονάει τόσο όσο πονούν οι σκέψεις. Οι σκέψεις είναι αυτές που πονάνε και φθείρουν το μέσα μας. Οι σκέψεις για αυτά που πράξαμε, γι’ αυτά που είπαμε εν βρασμό ψυχής, γι αυτά που πιστέψαμε. Οι σκέψεις, για τις αλήθειες που έπρεπε να πούμε και δεν είπαμε, οι σκέψεις για τα λάθη που εμείς κάναμε​ αλλά κατηγορήσαμε άλλους. Οι σκέψεις για τα όσα δεν κάναμε ενώ πεθαίναμε την ίδια στιγμή να τα κάνουμε. Οι σκέψεις ότι διώξαμε και πληγώσαμε έναν άνθρωπο που αγαπούσαμε τόσο, την ίδια στιγμή ενώ μπορούσαμε να το διορθώσουμε και να τα αλλάξουμε όλα.

Αλλά έχουμε μάθει πλέον να λέμε “φύγε”. Είναι πιο εύκολο για μας από το να ρίξουμε τα μούτρα μας και να αποδεχτούμε και τα δικά μας σφάλματα. Είναι πιο εύκολο να  απομακρύνουμε τον άλλον, οποίος μπορεί να σημαίνει οικογένεια, φίλος, αγάπη για μας. Και να μην υπολογίζουμε τίποτα πέρα από το εγώ μας.

Αλλά η ζωή κάθε μέρα μας διδάσκει πως τα λάθη είναι για να γίνονται. Κι άνθρωποι είμαστε για να τα φτιάχνουμε όλα από την αρχή και να τα διορθώνουμε. Πως να διώξεις άλλωστε κάποιον που τον νοιάζεσαι τόσο επειδή ένας εγωισμός βρέθηκε ανάμεσά σας; Πως να σβήσεις όλα όσα νιώθεις και να μην θυμάσαι;

Αφού δεν μπορούμε να ξεχάσουμε τότε το μόνο που μας μένει είναι να αλλάζουμε τα δεδομένα. Το μόνο που μας μένει είναι να συγχωρούμε και παρασυρόμενοι από συναισθήματα μία στιγμής να μην χαλάμε σχέσεις μιας ζωής.

Γι’ αυτό εσείς που είπατε το “φύγε” και δεν ήταν οριστικό, τότε φροντίστε να το διορθώσετε, υπάρχει καιρός. Ενώ εσείς που σκέφτεστε να το πείτε, πριν το κάνετε θυμηθείτε ότι θα πονέσετε τον εαυτό σας και μόνο. Μπορεί να πιστεύεται ότι έτσι ίσως θα δικαιωθείτε, αλλά πιστέψτε με ότι η εκδίκηση θα πονέσει πρώτον και κύριο εσάς.

Κάντε τα “φύγε” της ζωής σας, αγκαλιές και συγγνώμες. Αντί να διώχνετε όσους αγαπάτε, ίσα ίσα κρατήστε τους και βοηθήστε τους να δουν τα λάθη τους, μέσα από τα οποία θα καταλάβετε κι εσείς τα δικά σας.

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Γραμμές ευθείες με άτακτες σειρές, γραμμές γεμάτες λέξεις που ηχούν σαν μια ξέφρενη μελωδία, χρωματίζουν όλο μου τον κόσμο. Περπατώ πάνω σε αυτήν την γραμμή και με την βοήθεια μιας πένας ξεπερνώ τα εμπόδια που μου κλείνουν τον δρόμο. Για μένα κάθε μέρα είναι και μια μικρή ζωή, κι ακριβώς επειδή είναι μικρή προσπαθώ με κάθε τρόπο να την κάνω να μοιάζει με μια ίσια και στρωμένη γραμμή, μια γραμμή που συνεχίζει και δεν έχει τέλος. Θα τελειώσει μόνο όταν εγώ σταματήσω να γράφω και βάλω την τελευταία τελεία. Θα τελειώσει μόνο όταν πάψω να αισθάνομαι και να σκέφτομαι. Ως τότε όμως έχω πολλές ευθείες να βαδίσω ακόμα και να ανακαλύψω τον κόσμο σε κάθε στροφή που θα συναντώ.

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«Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».
Πόσο εύκολα έχουν ειπωθεί αυτές οι λέξεις. Πόσο μελάνι δεν χύθηκε, πόσες συζητήσεις έμειναν στη μέση μόνο και μόνο γιατί το συμπέρασμα ήταν το εξής ένα. «Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».

Συμφωνώ, υπάρχουν πολλών ειδών «μαλάκες». Αν, όμως, εσύ δεν μπορείς να ξεχωρίσεις το αγόρι απʾ τον άντρα, και τον άντρα απʾ το αρσενικό δε σου φταίει κανένας, είναι δικό σου θέμα και καθόλου δεν με ενδιαφέρει.

Κρύβεσαι πίσω από δύο αποσιωπητικά, βουτηγμένη μέσα στο δήθεν φεμινισμό σου και δεν καταλαβαίνεις πως ουσιαστικά κάνεις ζημιά μόνο σε εσένα.

Το αγόρι, ο άντρας ή το αρσενικό (αν και τα δυο τελευταία έχουν λίγο μπερδεμένο νόημα) υπάρχει πιθανότητα να μην πάψει ποτέ να έχει αυτή του την ιδιότητα μέχρι τέλους.

Υπάρχει, όμως, καλή μου, μια κατηγορία αγοριών τα οποία «μυρίζουν» από μακριά πως όταν τα μαλλιά τους ασπρίσουν, θα έχουν αποδείξει ότι είναι αρσενικά (κρατώντας το «αρσενικά» ως τον υπέρτατο χαρακτηρισμό σʾ έναν άντρα).
Θα ωριμάσει μέσα από τον αυτοσαρκασμό του και θα βάλει την εκτίμηση που έχει στη γυναίκα δίπλα του πάνω απʾ όλα.

Είναι αυτός ο άντρας που θα ήθελες να δεις δίπλα στην κόρη σου, εκείνος στον οποίο θα ήθελες να μοιάσει ο γιος σου.

Είναι αυτός που θα καταφέρει να σʾ ανεβάσει ψηλά χωρίς να έχει μπράτσα και κοιλιακούς. Ξέρει να ξεχωρίσει το γυναικάκι απʾ την γυναίκα και θα διυλίσει την κάθε σου ματιά.

Ξέρει τι θα πει ευγένεια, εκτίμηση και θα στη δείξει ακόμα και στον τρόπο που περπατάει δίπλα σου ή στον τρόπο που μιλάει για εσένα στους φίλους του.

Δεν πιστεύω να νομίζετε πως ακόμα κι αυτός ο τύπος άντρα δε θα κοιτάξει άλλη γυναίκα.
Φυσικά και θα κοιτάξει, μα το νόημα δεν είναι τι θα κοιτάξει, αλλά πού θα καταλήξει τελικά το βλέμμα του, γιατί πολύ απλά εκείνο ανήκει μόνο σʾ εσένα.

Τα υπόλοιπα απλά τα προσπερνά σαν την πρώτη ματιά που ρίχνει μπαίνοντας σʾ ένα bar προσπαθώντας να βρει ένα κενό τραπέζι να κάτσετε.
Αυτό είσαι για εκείνον, η ξεχωριστή, μοναδική γωνιά, το μοναδικό τραπέζι που ψάχνει να βρει για νʾ αράξει.

Για τον πραγματικό άντρα, το «σʾ ευχαριστώ» και το «συγγνώμη» είναι ένα σύνολο γραμμάτων τα οποία με μεγάλη ευκολία θα τα συντάξει στη σωστή σειρά, για να τους αποδώσει τις τιμές που τους αναλογούν και μαζί μʾ αυτά και σε εσένα.

Την αποδοχή σου την έχει γραμμένη στα παλαιότερα των υποδημάτων του, μιας κι αυτό που αναζητά είναι η εκτίμηση κι ο σεβασμός σου.
Θα αποζητήσει σʾ εσένα τη γνώμη σου, την άποψή σου κι όχι ένα κοριτσάκι που θα του ψελλίζει συνεχόμενα, φοβισμένα «ναι».

Απλώνει το χέρι του να σε κρατήσει, έτσι απλά, επειδή είναι ικανός να κάνει το απλό, σημαντικό.

Είσαι η ιδανική για εκείνον, όχι επειδή συμμορφώνεσαι με κάποια πρότυπα, αλλά επειδή δεν τον ενδιαφέρει το ιδανικό και δεν το ψάχνει. Ξέρει τον τρόπο να σε κάνει να νιώσεις ιδανική για εκείνον κι αυτό του αρκεί.

Είναι ο άντρας που δεν είναι όμορφος, αλλά θα σου αποδεικνύει καθημερινά πως μοναδικός σκοπός του είναι το να νιώθει όμορφος στα μάτια σου.

Ξέρει να ηγηθεί, και μέσα απʾ την ηγετική του υπόσταση θα καλύψει όλες σου τις ανασφάλειες, την ίδια στιγμή που στα μάτια σου θα αναζητά εκείνη που θα μείνει στα δύσκολα χωρίς πολλές φαμφάρες.

Να ξέρεις πως τα λόγια του είναι οι πράξεις του, αλλά ακόμα κι όταν τα χρησιμοποιεί, το κάνει για να μην ξεχνιέσαι, γιατί ξεχνιέστε, αγαπητή μου.

Είναι εκείνος που στο άκουσμά του θα ριγήσεις από πόθο, θα σε κάνει να τον ποθήσεις παίζοντας με το μυαλό σου κι όχι με το κορμί σου.

Στο τέλος της ημέρας, στο κρεβάτι σου, θα είναι αυτός που, κλείνοντας τα μάτια σου δίπλα του, θα σε κάνει να χαμογελάσεις με την εικόνα ενός γέρου γκριζομάλλη που σε πλησιάζει από πίσω κουτσαίνοντας, και σε παίρνει αγκαλιά, την ίδια στιγμή που φιλά τον ρυτιδιασμένο σου λαιμό.

Αυτός ο ίδιος που το πρωί δε θα ξεχάσεις ποτέ να τον αποχαιρετήσεις με μια καλημέρα και ένα φιλί.

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Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους.

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Της Ανθής Κατερίνη.

Αποκτάς μεγαλύτερη αγάπη για τους άλλους όταν αρχίζεις να φροντίζεις τον εαυτό σου. Εάν θέλεις να τους αγαπήσεις και δεν μπορείς να το εκφράσεις, η ίδια αυτή δυσκολία υπάρχει στην σχέση σου με τον εαυτό σου. Και αν σήμερα θέλεις να τους πεις πόσο όμορφοι είναι, είναι γιατί τα λόγια και οι πράξεις σου δεν κατευθύνονται εχθρικά προς τον εαυτό σου όπως χθες. Από τις σωστές για σένα επιλογές απορρέει από μέσα σου η επιθυμία να σου πεις μπράβο και έτσι καταλήγεις να επιβραβεύεις την ύπαρξη των άλλων που υπάρχουν εκεί και στέκουν τόσο όμορφοι. Με ιδιαίτερη ομορφιά, με την φιλικότητα και τον αυθορμητισμό τους, με την επιμονή και την εργατικότητά τους, με το άγχος τους, με την ντροπαλότητά τους. Όλοι βλέπεις σου αρέσουν τέτοιες μέρες που έχεις φροντίσει τον εαυτό σου και όλους τους αγαπάς ακόμη και αν είναι τόσο διαφορετικοί μεταξύ τους. Αποτελούν πλευρές του εαυτού σου και τις αποδέχεσαι. Μα εάν κάποια έχεις αποκλείσει από την ταυτότητά σου και δεν την θεωρείς δική σου πλευρά καταβάθος την ζηλεύεις και την αποστρέφεσαι σαν ατελής άνθρωπος που είσαι, που δεν του αρέσει να τον βαραίνει μία αίσθηση κατωτερότητας. Γι’ αυτό δεν πρέπει να φοβάσαι να γίνεις όλα αυτά που έχεις αποκλείσει πως μπορείς να είσαι. Αυτό ήταν μέχρι χτες. Σήμερα μπορείς να επιλέξεις από την αρχή. Μια επιλογή σε κρατά και η ιδέα πως δεν ήταν τέτοια όμορφα πράγματα στο πεδίο των επιλογών σου.
Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους. Όσο πιο όμορφο σε βρίσκεις τόσο θα βλέπεις ομορφιά στους άλλους.
Σταμάτα τις πράξεις που σε οδηγούνε σε φαύλους κύκλους αρνητικών συναισθημάτων. Αν σε τρέφει αυτή η ρόδα που πάνω της τσουλάς και ταυτόχρονα στην άσφαλτο πατιέσαι, μάθε να μην φοβάσαι να μείνεις εκτεθειμένος με τον πόνο σου, αντί να τον καλύπτεις με σκουπίδια. Μάθε πως όταν σταματήσεις τα εφήμερα παυσίπονα τότε θα σε διδάξει ο πόνος σου. Πρέπει να τον κοιτάξεις και μια φορά στα μάτια. Να μην τον πνίγεις με μία κουβέρτα για να εξαφανιστεί. Αντιθέτως, να καλύψεις εσένα με την κουβέρτα αυτή, να ζεσταθείς και ό, τι άσχημο ,θα δεις, που θα φύγει σαν μικρόβιο που δεν μπόρεσε να επιζήσει μέσα σε έναν οργανισμό που οι στρατιώτες του πολέμησαν με τόλμη και δύναμη για την προστασία του παλατιού τους. Γύμνασε τους πολεμιστές της ψυχής σου και θα γίνεις ο καλύτερος προστάτης του εαυτού σου. Γιατί όσο και να μην θέλουμε να το παραδεχτούμε εάν κατηγορούμε κάποιον για το κακό που μας έκανε, στην πραγματικότητα κατηγορούμε εμάς που μας φερθήκαμε με τέτοια αναισθησία και δεν μας προστατέψαμε όπως μας άξιζε. Και τέτοια ντροπή πώς να την ξεχάσεις; Με το να κάνεις τον εαυτό σου να σε εμπιστευτεί ξανά. Να πιστέψει πως εάν αφεθεί χαλαρός στα χέρια σου δεν θα βρεθεί ξανά στο πάτωμα, αλλά θα είσαι εκεί να τον αφήσεις να πέσει απαλά μέσα στην τρυφερή σου χούφτα.

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Ανθή Κατερίνη

Κάθε φορά που χάνομαι ανάμεσα στον ρεαλισμό και τον ρομαντισμό, στην αισιοδοξία και την απαισιοδοξία παίζω με τις λέξεις για να με ανακαλύψω. Οι σκέψεις μου χορεύουν στάζοντας μελάνι και δεν ξέρεις ποτέ τι θα σχηματίσουν τα βήματά τους. Η αδυναμία μου είναι οι όμορφες ψυχές. Μυρωδιές, μουσικές, εικόνες χρωματίζουν την καθημερινότητα μου. Στόχος μου είναι η αυτοβελτίωση γι’ αυτό συχνά αλλάζω αφήνοντας πίσω ότι στέκεται εμπόδιο ανάμεσα σε μένα και τον εαυτό μου.

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Η Ελλάδα πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.

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Της Δικαίας Μαραβέλια.

Αγαπητέ μου Έλληνα, ξέρεις από τότε που η Ελλαδίτσα μας θυμάται τον εαυτό της, πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.
Τραβάς εσύ από την μια, τραβούν οι υπόλοιποι από την άλλη και τώρα είναι η ώρα που χρειάζεται την καλύτερη περίθαλψη γιατί αιμορραγεί στο κέντρο της.
Οι αξίες μας, ο πολιτισμός μας, η ψυχή μας, εμείς οι ίδιοι αφήσαμε να μας τα πάρουν… και τώρα απαιτείς να στα επιστρέψουν. 
Φοβάσαι να πεις δημόσια, ότι φοβάσαι για τα παιδιά σου;
Ξέρεις φοβάμαι, που φοβάσαι. Φοβάμαι που νομίζεις ότι τα θέματα που απασχολούν ολόκληρο τον πλανήτη δεν σε απασχολούν.
Ναι ζούμε στην πιο ευλογημένη χώρα στο κόσμο, στην χώρα της δημοκρατίας, στην χώρα που κάνουμε ποστ μόνο, τις σοφίες των σοφών μας, χωρίς να γνωρίζουμε το βαθύτερο νόημα τους.
Φοβάμαι… αλλά είμαι αισιόδοξη. Για τα παιδιά ρε, για τα παιδιά μας!

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Δικαία Μαραβέλια

Η Δικαία Μαραβέλια ζει μόνιμα στη Σύμη.
Μεγαλωμένη και κανακεμένη, στα γόνατα του παπά Τάσου, με ιερή στιγμή αυτή που την τάϊζε γλυκό σταφύλι με τόση ευλάβεια, σαν να ήταν κοινωνία.
Τον έβλεπε πάντα να γράφει όταν δεν λειτουργούσε.
Τώρα έφτασε η ώρα να ακολουθήσει τα χνάρια του, συντροφιά με τους αγγέλους της.

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