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Πως φταίμε γιατί ενώ μεγαλώσαμε, έχουμε μείνει στην παραμυθένια διαφήμιση του Βιτάμ, όπου η οικογένεια, μέσα στην ευτυχία, παίρνει το πρωινό της. Που ο άντρας αγαπάει τη γυναίκα του, ακόμη και μετά από αρκετά χρόνια, που τη φιλάει όταν ξυπνάει ή όταν μπαίνει στο σπίτι, που αγκαλιάζει με αγάπη τα παιδιά του και που όλα είναι ονειρικά πλασμένα.

Και εμείς ρωτάμε: Γιατί όχι;

Γιατί είναι τόσο κακό να παραμείνουμε σε εκείνες τις εποχές;
Γιατί είναι τόσο κακό να αγαπάμε και να σκεφτόμαστε όπως τότε;
Τότε που το πριγκιπόπουλο, με μόνο στοιχείο ένα γυάλινο γοβάκι, γύριζε όλο το χωριό για να βρει την αγαπημένη της καρδιάς του και να την παντρευτεί;

Τότε που ο μπαμπάς μου, προχωρούσε είκοσι χιλιόμετρα για να δει τη μητέρα μου, που πήγαινε στη μοδίστρα, και ο θείος μου έκλεψε εν νυκτί τη θεία μου, γιατί η μητέρα της δεν τον ήθελε για γαμπρό;

Τα πράγματα πλέον είναι τόσο ψυχρά και χωρίς αγάπη και σίγουρα δεν τα φτιάξαμε έτσι, μόνες!

Δεν είναι ότι θέλουμε κάποιον ψηλό, όμορφο, με στιβαρά μπράτσα και γυμνασμένο κορμί. Δεν είναι ότι ψάχνουμε τον κύριο «Τέλειο» γιατί ακριβώς, ούτε εμείς είμαστε τέλειες.

Ψάχνουμε, όμως, εκείνον ο οποίος θα βγει μπροστά.

Εκείνον που θα αψηφήσει όλα τα εμπόδια, δράκους, κακούς βασιλιάδες, στριμμένες πεθερές και λόγια τρίτων για τα μάτια εκείνης που κάνει την καρδιά του να χτυπά, και τον ίδιο να γίνεται μικρό αγόρι στην αγκαλιά της.

Κάποιον που απλά θα είναι και θα παραμένει δίπλα μας θα μας αγαπάει γι᾽ αυτό που είμαστε, και αυτό και μόνο θα τον κάνει ευτυχισμένο, κάνοντας και εμάς τις ίδιες ευτυχισμένες και περήφανες για τον άντρα που έχουμε στο πλάι μας.

Κάπως έτσι, πρέπει να είναι η πραγματική αγάπη.
«Εγώ για σένα και εσύ για μένα» πρώτα, και μετά όλοι οι υπόλοιποι.
Να μπορείτε να κοιτάζετε μέσα μας, βλέποντας τις βαθύτερες ανάγκες μας και το ίδιο να κάνουμε και εμείς για εσάς.

Έχουμε ανάγκη, να μας κάνετε να γελάμε όταν περνάμε δύσκολα. Να μας αγκαλιάζετε και να μας λέτε «θα περάσει» όταν τα βλέπουμε όλα βουνό. Δε θέλουμε να μας τα λύσετε. Δε θέλουμε να τα κάνετε εσείς για εμάς. Θέλουμε απλώς να είστε εκεί, να μας πάρετε μια αγκαλιά και να μας πείτε πως όλα θα πάνε καλά.

Η ζωή είναι δύσκολη, το γνωρίζουμε όλοι.

Φταίει η ρουτίνα; Οι υποχρεώσεις που μεγάλωσαν, ο κόσμος που αποξενώθηκε, οι φιλίες που χάθηκαν στο πέρασμα του χρόνου, κρυμμένες πίσω από ανούσιες δικαιολογίες και καθημερινό τρέξιμο; Φταίνε οι πόνοι της περιόδου, η ευαισθησία και η εναλλαγή της διάθεσης μας, όταν ο καιρός είναι μουντός και μας μελαγχολεί;

Μπορεί να φταίει και η βαφή που δεν πέτυχε, το ότι νιώθουμε πως μεγαλώνουμε, τα παραπανίσια κιλά που πήραμε ή εκείνα που μας άφησε η τελευταία εγκυμοσύνη.
Χίλια δυο καθημερινά πράγματα που στριφογυρίζουν συνέχεια στο ακούραστο από σκέψεις μυαλό μας και μας φέρνουν θλίψη.

Έτσι είμαστε οι γυναίκες. Αυτή είναι η ψυχολογία μας. Ευαίσθητη, περίεργη, ιδιότροπη.

Και μην νομίζετε! Το καταλαβαίνουμε πως σας κουράζουμε και πως είστε και εσείς άνθρωποι και έχετε τις δικές σας έννοιες και τα δικά σας προβλήματα.

Ξέρουμε πως ο ρόλος που έχετε αναλάβει σας πέφτει βαρύς και πως και εσείς αγχώνεστε για τα πάντα. Από το αν θα βγάλετε λεφτά σήμερα, αν θα έχετε δουλειά αύριο, μέχρι το αν θα πάρει πρωτάθλημα ο Ολυμπιακός ή αν θα κερδίσετε στο στοίχημα.

Όμως, είμαστε το ευαίσθητο φύλλο και θέλουμε να παραμείνουμε.

Μπορεί να έχουμε βγει για δουλειά, μπορεί να έχουμε αναλάβει ευθύνες, πρωτοβουλίες και να συμπεριφερόμαστε πολλές φορές όπως εσείς αλλά δεν είναι αυτό που θέλουμε.

Εκείνο που πραγματικά επιθυμούμε, είναι να είμαστε γυναίκες. Να νιώθουμε επιθυμητές, όμορφες και ποθητές και να φροντιζόμαστε ως ευαίσθητο φύλλο όπως θα φροντίσουμε και εμείς ανάλογα τον άνθρωπό μας.

Χρειάζεται όταν μπείτε στο σπίτι να μας αγκαλιάσετε και να μας φιλήσετε. Μερικές φορές, ίσως να μας φέρετε και μια σοκολάτα γιατί το μικρό κοριτσάκι μέσα μας, δεν παύει ποτέ να αναζητά πράξεις αγάπης.

Και τότε εμείς θα σας βάλουμε φαγητό και ίσως ανάμεσα στη δουλειά του γραφείου και τις υποχρεώσεις του σπιτιού, να έχουμε φτιάξει και ένα γλυκό για εσάς. Έτσι, γιατί σας αγαπάμε και μας αρέσει να σας φροντίζουμε.

Χρειάζεται να έρθετε να μας πάρετε από το σπίτι μας, για να βγούμε έξω. Και τότε εμείς, θα αφεθούμε στην κρίση σας για το πού θα πάμε. Θα αφεθούμε να σας εμπιστευθούμε.

Χρειάζεται να μας δείχνετε σεβασμό όταν είμαστε δίπλα σας και μπροστά σε άλλους και τότε εμείς, θα σας αφήσουμε χώρο για να δείτε το ποδόσφαιρο και ίσως σας βοηθήσουμε και να βρείτε ρούχα, για να βγείτε έξω και να ξενυχτήσετε με τους φίλους σας, χωρίς να γκρινιάζουμε.

Εν κατακλείδι, όταν ένας άντρας μας γουστάρει, θέλουμε να κάνει ό,τι ξέραμε από πάντα, πως κάνουν οι άντρες. Θέλουμε να μας διεκδικήσει. Θέλουμε να έρθει με θάρρος και να μας αρπάξει. Θέλουμε όλα εκείνα που σταματήσατε να κάνετε!

Θέλουμε να έχετε το θάρρος, να εκφράσετε τη γνώμη σας, τα αισθήματα και τις απόψεις σας. Θέλουμε να μας λέτε τις σας ενοχλεί αντί να το πνίγετε και να μένετε βουβοί, και να μας διεκδικείτε με κάθε τρόπο, όταν μας επιθυμείτε.

Βαρεθήκαμε να παίρνουμε εμείς όλους τους ρόλους και μετά να μας φωνάζετε πως είμαστε αντράκια. Χρειάζεται να πάρετε πίσω τον ρόλο σας, ώστε να πάρουμε επιτέλους και εμείς τον δικό μας.

Και σας υποσχόμαστε, αν γίνει αυτό, μπορούμε και εμείς να αφεθούμε να είμαστε γυναίκες, γατούλες και ότι άλλο περιλαμβάνει η φύση μας.

Μπορούμε να γίνουμε πιο γλυκές και λιγότερο αυταρχικές. Μπορούμε να σταματήσουμε να σας κοιτάζουμε με εκείνο το ύφος των χιλίων καρδιναλίων, που σας απωθεί και που το χρησιμοποιούμε όταν νιώθουμε ανώτερες.
Για να γίνει όμως αυτό, για να πάψουμε να κοιτάζουμε «κάπως» χρειάζεται να κοιτάξετε εσείς «straight».

Για να κατέβουμε εμείς, χρειάζεται να ανεβείτε εσείς. Κάντε την αρχή λοιπόν!

Βαρέθηκα να βλέπω σε μπαράκια, άντρες να κοιτάζουν για ώρες γυναίκες αλλά να μην τολμούν ποτέ να πάνε πιο κοντά τους. Να επηρεάζονται τόσο πολύ από το φόβο της απόρριψης.

Βαρέθηκα να βλέπω γυναίκες κυνηγούς και άντρες θηράματα. Να πρέπει πάντα εγώ να κάνω το πρώτο βήμα αλλά μετά να μη δέχονται τον τσαμπουκά που προέρχεται από τις κινήσεις μου.

Βαρέθηκα να βλέπω, άντρες, κρυμμένους πίσω από τη φούστα της μαμάς τους, να κλαίνε που δεν μπορούν να είναι με την γυναίκα που επιθυμούν γιατί εκείνη δεν την εγκρίνει.

Βρείτε το θάρρος, να μας τραβήξετε από το χέρι και με την σιγουριά που βγάζει το βλέμμα σας, να μας οδηγήσετε δίχως να μας δώσετε επιλογή, σε εκείνο το μονοπάτι που οδήγησε το πριγκιπόπουλο την πριγκίπισσα.

Εκεί όπου εκείνος ήταν ο άντρας και εκείνη η γυναίκα.

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Όταν σκεφτόμαστε συνεχώς πράγματα από το παρελθόν μας, είτε αναπολώντας τα, είτε αναθεωρώντας τα, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε μία παγίδα που μας κρατάει πίσω. Δεν δίνουμε αξία στο παρόν μας και έτσι δεν μπορούμε να χαρούμε τις εμπειρίες που βιώνουμε καθημερινά.

Η ζωή δεν είναι ένα ημερολόγιο γεγονότων που χρειάζεται ξεφύλλισμα από έναν παθητικό αναγνώστη, αλλά μία αρένα δραστηριοτήτων που πάντα έχει κάτι να μας τραβήξει το ενδιαφέρον. Το βέλος της ζωής δεν δείχνει ποτέ προς τα πίσω, δείχνει πάντα μπροστά.Έτσι, είναι ανώφελο κάποιος να κολλάει τη σκέψη του στο παρελθόν ή στο μέλλον σα να μην υπάρχει το “εδώ” και το “τώρα”.

Φυσικά, οι αναμνήσεις είναι εγγενές μέρος της ζωής και συχνά αναπόφευκτες. Είναι ένας τρόπος να μένουμε κοντά στα πρόσωπα που αγαπάμε και σε όσα είμαστε παθιασμένοι. Είναι το συστατικό της προσωπικής μας ταυτότητας και του χαρακτήρα μας. Είναι οι ρίζες βαθιά μέσα στον πυρήνα του εαυτού μας.

“Τό χθες δεν είναι τίποτα περισσότερο από την ανάμνηση του σήμερα, και τo αύριο, τo όνειρο του σήμερα”

-Kahlil Gibran-

Οι μνήμες είναι συχνά κάτι το απατηλό μιας και είναι φτιατσιδωμένες από τα γεγονότα του παρόντος και έτσι πέφτουν στη φάκα του νου. Η διαφορά ανάμεσα στις ψεύτικες και τις γνήσιες αναμνήσεις μοιάζει με τον τρόπο που ξεχωρίζουν τα φο-μπιζού από τα πραγματικά κοσμήματα, τα φο-μπιζού μοιάζουν αληθινά επειδή αστράφτουν πιο έντονα.

Η μνήμη μοιάζει με ένα όχι τόσο έξυπνο σκύλο που όταν του πετάξεις ένα ραβδί θα σου φέρει ένα διαφορετικό που βρίσκεται πιο δίπλα.

“Να ζείτε την κάθε μέρα της ζωής σας”

Η ζωή θα ήταν αδύνατη αν θυμόμασταν όλα όσα μας έχουν συμβεί

Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

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Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

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Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

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Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

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