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Κάποτε ρώτησαν έναν σοφό να τους πει τι είναι αυτό που κάνει τους ανθρώπους δυστυχισμένους. Τους είπε λοιπόν το εξής:

Ένας ναυαγός που ξυπνάει στην παραλία ενός ερημικού νησιού στη μέση του ωκεανού, έχει δυο επιλογές. Να ατενίζει την θάλασσα και να την καταριέται για όσα έχασε κι όσα του πήρε ή να της γυρίσει την πλάτη και να δημιουργήσει καινούργια.

Βλέπετε, συνέχισε, η θάλασσα πάντα θα είναι εκεί να του θυμίζει. Να του θυμίζει όλα αυτά που έχασε, αλλά και να του δείχνει όλα αυτά που βρήκε.

Κάθε κύμα της, και μια ανάμνηση.

Οι άνθρωποι διαλέγουν να κοιτάνε την ομορφιά της θάλασσας για να θυμηθούν. Όλοι την ατενίζουν, με νοσταλγία.

Είναι όμορφη και ξελογιάστρα. Πλάθουν ιστορίες στα κύματά της.

Το μυαλό τους ταξιδεύει στους χιλιάδες κρυμμένους και μυστηριώδεις προορισμούς.

Σαν τα μυστήρια του παρελθόντος, που κρύφτηκαν σε κάτι που δεν έγινε.

Στον ορίζοντα της αναπολούν κι αναρωτιούνται:

«Τι θα συνέβαινε αν…»

Ο ναυαγός ξυπνάει εκεί ακριβώς που σκάει το κύμα. Το σώμα του είναι η γέφυρα που ενώνει τα κύματα του παρελθόντος με το ασταθές έδαφος της αμμουδιάς του μέλλοντος. Η αμμουδιά από μόνη της, το μόνο που προσφέρει είναι η θέα της θάλασσας. Κι οι περισσότεροι διαλέγουν να την χαζεύουν. Να θυμούνται. Λίγοι είναι αυτοί που περπατούν στην άμμο, βυθίζοντας τα πόδια τους στο αβέβαιο πάτημα του καινούργιου, γυρίζοντας τις πλάτες τους στο παρελθόν.

Κι έτσι κάθονται να κοιτούν, όσα έχασαν. Κι αγνοούν όσα βρήκαν.

Και ζουν δυστυχισμένοι.

Κι οι αναμνήσεις τους τρώνε την ψυχή, όπως η αλμύρα τρώει τον βράχο. Σιγά σιγά. Γλυκά γλυκά. Σαν νανούρισμα. Σαν το τραγούδι των Σειρήνων.

Το παρελθόν είναι απέραντο σαν την θάλασσα.

Είναι σαν αλμύρα. Μας τρώει σιγά σιγά την ψυχή. Την σαπίζει.

Οι εικόνες, οι αναμνήσεις, τα συναισθήματα, ο πόνος, οι απορίες, οι ερωτήσεις που δεν απαντήθηκαν, οι λέξεις που δεν ειπώθηκαν την κατάλληλη στιγμή, το «γιατί» που γεννήθηκε μέσα στην ομίχλη της  ζωής μας, μας την σκουριάζουν. Μας την τρώνε.

Η ζωή, όμως, προχωράει.

Το παρελθόν δεν αλλάζει. Έγινε.

Ό,τι έμεινε θολό, δεν θα ξεκαθαρίσει. Κι ούτε θα καταλαβείς το γιατί ήταν θολό. Θα παραμείνει θολό. Σε πλήγωσαν γιατί, πολύ απλά, το ήθελαν να σε πληγώσουν. Ξεπέρασέ το.

Όλα ζουν μέσα στο μυαλό σου, και σε τρώνε. Κι η ειρωνεία είναι πως ενώ αυτά σε τρώνε, τόσο εσύ τα ταϊζεις. Αυτά σου σκουριάζουν την ψυχή, όπως το αλάτι της θάλασσας το μέταλλο. Σιγά και βασανιστικά.

Γίνονται καρκίνοι. Και σε τρώνε.

Μέρα με την μέρα.

Κι ενώ το μυαλό σου θέλει να θυμάται, η ψυχή σου θέλει να ξεχάσει.

Αναπολούμε το παρελθόν μας.

Μετράμε τις πληγές μας.

Δεν υπάρχει άνθρωπος χωρίς πληγές. Δεν υπάρχει άνθρωπος χωρίς παρελθόν. Δεν υπάρχει κανείς που να μην έκανε λάθη.

Το παρελθόν θα είναι πάντα γνωστό.

Το μέλλον θα είναι πάντα άγνωστο.

Το παρόν θα είναι πάντα εσύ.

Να τους ακούτε τους σοφούς. Μερικές φορές λένε σοφά πράγματα.

αναπνοές

Νίκος Θεοφιλόπουλος

Γεννιόμαστε πραγματικά όταν καταλάβουμε τον σκοπό για τον οποίο ήρθαμε στη ζωή. Μέσα στην διαδρομή της ζωής μου, δούλεψα, κέρδισα, έχασα, πόνεσα, χάρηκα, «φυλακίστηκα», «δραπέτευσα», παρατήρησα, μα πάνω από όλα άκουσα.
Ένα πράγμα δεν είχα κάνει. Δεν έγραφα. Ήρθε ο καιρός.
Αυτός είναι ο σκοπός μου.

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Είναι αυτός ο άντρας που θα ήθελες να δεις δίπλα στην κόρη σου, εκείνος στον οποίο θα ήθελες να μοιάσει ο γιος σου.

Είναι αυτός που θα καταφέρει να σʾ ανεβάσει ψηλά χωρίς να έχει μπράτσα και κοιλιακούς. Ξέρει να ξεχωρίσει το γυναικάκι απʾ την γυναίκα και θα διυλίσει την κάθε σου ματιά.

Ξέρει τι θα πει ευγένεια, εκτίμηση και θα στη δείξει ακόμα και στον τρόπο που περπατάει δίπλα σου ή στον τρόπο που μιλάει για εσένα στους φίλους του.

Δεν πιστεύω να νομίζετε πως ακόμα κι αυτός ο τύπος άντρα δε θα κοιτάξει άλλη γυναίκα.
Φυσικά και θα κοιτάξει, μα το νόημα δεν είναι τι θα κοιτάξει, αλλά πού θα καταλήξει τελικά το βλέμμα του, γιατί πολύ απλά εκείνο ανήκει μόνο σʾ εσένα.

Τα υπόλοιπα απλά τα προσπερνά σαν την πρώτη ματιά που ρίχνει μπαίνοντας σʾ ένα bar προσπαθώντας να βρει ένα κενό τραπέζι να κάτσετε.
Αυτό είσαι για εκείνον, η ξεχωριστή, μοναδική γωνιά, το μοναδικό τραπέζι που ψάχνει να βρει για νʾ αράξει.

Για τον πραγματικό άντρα, το «σʾ ευχαριστώ» και το «συγγνώμη» είναι ένα σύνολο γραμμάτων τα οποία με μεγάλη ευκολία θα τα συντάξει στη σωστή σειρά, για να τους αποδώσει τις τιμές που τους αναλογούν και μαζί μʾ αυτά και σε εσένα.

Την αποδοχή σου την έχει γραμμένη στα παλαιότερα των υποδημάτων του, μιας κι αυτό που αναζητά είναι η εκτίμηση κι ο σεβασμός σου.
Θα αποζητήσει σʾ εσένα τη γνώμη σου, την άποψή σου κι όχι ένα κοριτσάκι που θα του ψελλίζει συνεχόμενα, φοβισμένα «ναι».

Απλώνει το χέρι του να σε κρατήσει, έτσι απλά, επειδή είναι ικανός να κάνει το απλό, σημαντικό.

Είσαι η ιδανική για εκείνον, όχι επειδή συμμορφώνεσαι με κάποια πρότυπα, αλλά επειδή δεν τον ενδιαφέρει το ιδανικό και δεν το ψάχνει. Ξέρει τον τρόπο να σε κάνει να νιώσεις ιδανική για εκείνον κι αυτό του αρκεί.

Είναι ο άντρας που δεν είναι όμορφος, αλλά θα σου αποδεικνύει καθημερινά πως μοναδικός σκοπός του είναι το να νιώθει όμορφος στα μάτια σου.

Ξέρει να ηγηθεί, και μέσα απʾ την ηγετική του υπόσταση θα καλύψει όλες σου τις ανασφάλειες, την ίδια στιγμή που στα μάτια σου θα αναζητά εκείνη που θα μείνει στα δύσκολα χωρίς πολλές φαμφάρες.

Να ξέρεις πως τα λόγια του είναι οι πράξεις του, αλλά ακόμα κι όταν τα χρησιμοποιεί, το κάνει για να μην ξεχνιέσαι, γιατί ξεχνιέστε, αγαπητή μου.

Είναι εκείνος που στο άκουσμά του θα ριγήσεις από πόθο, θα σε κάνει να τον ποθήσεις παίζοντας με το μυαλό σου κι όχι με το κορμί σου.

Στο τέλος της ημέρας, στο κρεβάτι σου, θα είναι αυτός που, κλείνοντας τα μάτια σου δίπλα του, θα σε κάνει να χαμογελάσεις με την εικόνα ενός γέρου γκριζομάλλη που σε πλησιάζει από πίσω κουτσαίνοντας, και σε παίρνει αγκαλιά, την ίδια στιγμή που φιλά τον ρυτιδιασμένο σου λαιμό.

Αυτός ο ίδιος που το πρωί δε θα ξεχάσεις ποτέ να τον αποχαιρετήσεις με μια καλημέρα και ένα φιλί.

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Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους.

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Της Ανθής Κατερίνη.

Αποκτάς μεγαλύτερη αγάπη για τους άλλους όταν αρχίζεις να φροντίζεις τον εαυτό σου. Εάν θέλεις να τους αγαπήσεις και δεν μπορείς να το εκφράσεις, η ίδια αυτή δυσκολία υπάρχει στην σχέση σου με τον εαυτό σου. Και αν σήμερα θέλεις να τους πεις πόσο όμορφοι είναι, είναι γιατί τα λόγια και οι πράξεις σου δεν κατευθύνονται εχθρικά προς τον εαυτό σου όπως χθες. Από τις σωστές για σένα επιλογές απορρέει από μέσα σου η επιθυμία να σου πεις μπράβο και έτσι καταλήγεις να επιβραβεύεις την ύπαρξη των άλλων που υπάρχουν εκεί και στέκουν τόσο όμορφοι. Με ιδιαίτερη ομορφιά, με την φιλικότητα και τον αυθορμητισμό τους, με την επιμονή και την εργατικότητά τους, με το άγχος τους, με την ντροπαλότητά τους. Όλοι βλέπεις σου αρέσουν τέτοιες μέρες που έχεις φροντίσει τον εαυτό σου και όλους τους αγαπάς ακόμη και αν είναι τόσο διαφορετικοί μεταξύ τους. Αποτελούν πλευρές του εαυτού σου και τις αποδέχεσαι. Μα εάν κάποια έχεις αποκλείσει από την ταυτότητά σου και δεν την θεωρείς δική σου πλευρά καταβάθος την ζηλεύεις και την αποστρέφεσαι σαν ατελής άνθρωπος που είσαι, που δεν του αρέσει να τον βαραίνει μία αίσθηση κατωτερότητας. Γι’ αυτό δεν πρέπει να φοβάσαι να γίνεις όλα αυτά που έχεις αποκλείσει πως μπορείς να είσαι. Αυτό ήταν μέχρι χτες. Σήμερα μπορείς να επιλέξεις από την αρχή. Μια επιλογή σε κρατά και η ιδέα πως δεν ήταν τέτοια όμορφα πράγματα στο πεδίο των επιλογών σου.
Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους. Όσο πιο όμορφο σε βρίσκεις τόσο θα βλέπεις ομορφιά στους άλλους.
Σταμάτα τις πράξεις που σε οδηγούνε σε φαύλους κύκλους αρνητικών συναισθημάτων. Αν σε τρέφει αυτή η ρόδα που πάνω της τσουλάς και ταυτόχρονα στην άσφαλτο πατιέσαι, μάθε να μην φοβάσαι να μείνεις εκτεθειμένος με τον πόνο σου, αντί να τον καλύπτεις με σκουπίδια. Μάθε πως όταν σταματήσεις τα εφήμερα παυσίπονα τότε θα σε διδάξει ο πόνος σου. Πρέπει να τον κοιτάξεις και μια φορά στα μάτια. Να μην τον πνίγεις με μία κουβέρτα για να εξαφανιστεί. Αντιθέτως, να καλύψεις εσένα με την κουβέρτα αυτή, να ζεσταθείς και ό, τι άσχημο ,θα δεις, που θα φύγει σαν μικρόβιο που δεν μπόρεσε να επιζήσει μέσα σε έναν οργανισμό που οι στρατιώτες του πολέμησαν με τόλμη και δύναμη για την προστασία του παλατιού τους. Γύμνασε τους πολεμιστές της ψυχής σου και θα γίνεις ο καλύτερος προστάτης του εαυτού σου. Γιατί όσο και να μην θέλουμε να το παραδεχτούμε εάν κατηγορούμε κάποιον για το κακό που μας έκανε, στην πραγματικότητα κατηγορούμε εμάς που μας φερθήκαμε με τέτοια αναισθησία και δεν μας προστατέψαμε όπως μας άξιζε. Και τέτοια ντροπή πώς να την ξεχάσεις; Με το να κάνεις τον εαυτό σου να σε εμπιστευτεί ξανά. Να πιστέψει πως εάν αφεθεί χαλαρός στα χέρια σου δεν θα βρεθεί ξανά στο πάτωμα, αλλά θα είσαι εκεί να τον αφήσεις να πέσει απαλά μέσα στην τρυφερή σου χούφτα.

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Ανθή Κατερίνη

Κάθε φορά που χάνομαι ανάμεσα στον ρεαλισμό και τον ρομαντισμό, στην αισιοδοξία και την απαισιοδοξία παίζω με τις λέξεις για να με ανακαλύψω. Οι σκέψεις μου χορεύουν στάζοντας μελάνι και δεν ξέρεις ποτέ τι θα σχηματίσουν τα βήματά τους. Η αδυναμία μου είναι οι όμορφες ψυχές. Μυρωδιές, μουσικές, εικόνες χρωματίζουν την καθημερινότητα μου. Στόχος μου είναι η αυτοβελτίωση γι’ αυτό συχνά αλλάζω αφήνοντας πίσω ότι στέκεται εμπόδιο ανάμεσα σε μένα και τον εαυτό μου.

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Η Ελλάδα πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.

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Της Δικαίας Μαραβέλια.

Αγαπητέ μου Έλληνα, ξέρεις από τότε που η Ελλαδίτσα μας θυμάται τον εαυτό της, πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.
Τραβάς εσύ από την μια, τραβούν οι υπόλοιποι από την άλλη και τώρα είναι η ώρα που χρειάζεται την καλύτερη περίθαλψη γιατί αιμορραγεί στο κέντρο της.
Οι αξίες μας, ο πολιτισμός μας, η ψυχή μας, εμείς οι ίδιοι αφήσαμε να μας τα πάρουν… και τώρα απαιτείς να στα επιστρέψουν. 
Φοβάσαι να πεις δημόσια, ότι φοβάσαι για τα παιδιά σου;
Ξέρεις φοβάμαι, που φοβάσαι. Φοβάμαι που νομίζεις ότι τα θέματα που απασχολούν ολόκληρο τον πλανήτη δεν σε απασχολούν.
Ναι ζούμε στην πιο ευλογημένη χώρα στο κόσμο, στην χώρα της δημοκρατίας, στην χώρα που κάνουμε ποστ μόνο, τις σοφίες των σοφών μας, χωρίς να γνωρίζουμε το βαθύτερο νόημα τους.
Φοβάμαι… αλλά είμαι αισιόδοξη. Για τα παιδιά ρε, για τα παιδιά μας!

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Δικαία Μαραβέλια

Η Δικαία Μαραβέλια ζει μόνιμα στη Σύμη.
Μεγαλωμένη και κανακεμένη, στα γόνατα του παπά Τάσου, με ιερή στιγμή αυτή που την τάϊζε γλυκό σταφύλι με τόση ευλάβεια, σαν να ήταν κοινωνία.
Τον έβλεπε πάντα να γράφει όταν δεν λειτουργούσε.
Τώρα έφτασε η ώρα να ακολουθήσει τα χνάρια του, συντροφιά με τους αγγέλους της.

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