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Με ένα ανθολόγιο λογοτεχνικών άρθρων και διηγημάτων η συγγραφέας Ιωάννα Γκανέτσα καλεί τον αναγνώστη να τολμήσει, ζήσει τον έρωτα, να δώσει και να πάρει, να βασανιστεί, να παθιαστεί, όλα στο απόλυτο. Γιατί ο έρωτας είναι το απόλυτο της ζωής.

Εμείς διαλέξαμε 10 αγαπημένα αποσπάσματα κειμένων της τα οποία περιλαμβάνονται στο βιβλίο της και σας προτρέπουμε να το διαβάσετε ολόκληρο. Είναι βέβαιο πως θα ταυτιστείτε με πολλά σημεία του.

 1 Κάθε ιστορία έρωτα έχει το φινάλε που της αξίζει
[…]Όταν διαλέγεις έναν έρωτα, διαλέγεις και το τέλος του. Η συμπεριφορά σου βρίσκει πάντα ένα τρόπο να έρχεται πίσω γι’ αυτό το καλύτερο που έχεις να κάνεις είναι να φέρεσαι στον έρωτα όμορφα. Αν μη τι άλλο, οι όμορφοι έρωτες, όμορφα καίγονται[…]

2. Ο έρωτας είναι παιχνίδι της ζωής
[…]Ο έρωτας δεν είναι για εκείνους που λένε πως θέλουν να δοκιμάσουν τη δύναμή του αλλά μένουν αμέτοχοι. Είναι για εκείνους που τολμούν. Για εκείνους που ξέρουν πως είτε πέσουν στη μάχη είτε βγουν νικητές, θα μετρούν πάντα πληγές, αγάπες και στιγμές[…]

 3. Όταν το περασμένο γίνεται αξεπέραστο
[…]Ο πόθος δεν ελέγχεται με την λογική. Κυκλοφορεί σε άλλη περιοχή του είναι. Αυτό το ξέρεις καλά. Το έμαθες μετά τις τόσες φορές που προσπάθησες να τον καταλαγιάσεις, να τον ηρεμήσεις, να τον εξαφανίσεις. Δεν παλεύεται ο πόθος.
Είναι αγρίμι, κυκλοφορεί ελεύθερος. Εμφανίζεται όποτε γουστάρει. Κι εσένα σε γουστάρει[…]

 4. Ανεκπλήρωτος έρωτας
[…]Ο πόνος στον έρωτα δεν είναι πιθανότητα, είναι εγγύηση. Δεν υπάρχει έρωτας που να μην περιέχει πόνο. Πρέπει να μάθεις να βιώνεις τον πόνο, να μη μένεις προσκολλημένος στην επιθυμία, να προχωράς, να απαγκιστρώνεσαι. Πρέπει να αδειάσεις για να ξαναγεμίσεις. Να αφήσεις για να ξαναπάρεις. Μερικές φορές το να παρατάς αυτό που κάποτε θέλησες χωρίς μέτρο είναι ελευθερία[…]

 5. Ο απόλυτος μηδενισμός του εγώ
[…]Κατά βάθος όλοι το ξέρουμε. Ας το παραδεχτούμε λοιπόν: δεν υπάρχει τίποτα πιο ανόητο και αφελές από το να παραδίνεσαι ψυχή και σώμα σε κάτι που με τον ένα ή τον άλλο τρόπο ο καιρός θα σβήσει, θα πνίξει, θα σκοτώσει. Κι όμως αλήθεια. Υπάρχει τίποτα πιο σημαντικό από το να αγαπάς και να σ’ αγαπούν;[…]

 6. Νύχτες Ερωμένες
[…]Ίσως τελικά μια σκέψη από μια πράξη να απέχει ελάχιστα. Ίσως να χρειάζεται απλά η παραδοχή πως η σκέψη είναι εκεί και δε θα φύγει μέχρι να γίνει και να τερματίσει. Πρέπει να ταξιδέψει από το νου στο άγγιγμα για να τελειώσει τον κύκλο της. Ούτε οι σκέψεις αρέσκονται στο να μένουν μισές, ανολοκλήρωτες, ασυνόδευτες από πράξεις. […]

 7. Όταν η γραμματική συναντά το συναίσθημα
[…]Δεν έχει αποδειχτεί ποτέ πως όποιος εκφράζει αυτό που αισθάνεται καταλήγει στην κόλαση των ηλιθίων που προέταξαν την καρδιά, έφαγαν το βέλος του Έρωτα και κατέληξαν αιμόφυρτοι στο νοσοκομείου το πόνου. Μεταξύ μας, εγώ το βρίσκω και λυτρωτικό. Το λες και ξαλαφρώνεις. Δεν καταπιέζεσαι. Και πού ξέρεις; Μπορεί να βγει και σε καλό. Πόσοι έρωτες πήγαν άραγε χαμένοι γιατί κανείς δεν βρήκε το θάρρος να πει αυτό που αισθάνεται;[…]

8. Μαθήματα έρωτα
[…]Όσο κι αν αναβάλεις το ραντεβού σου με τον έρωτα, εκείνος θα σου χτυπά την πόρτα μέχρι να του ανοίξεις. Αν δεν είναι τώρα, θα είναι αύριο, τον άλλο μήνα, τον άλλο χρόνο, μπορεί και χρόνια, όμως, οτιδήποτε προκαλεί έντονα συναισθήματα δεν ξεθυμαίνει έτσι απλά. Δεν φεύγει όταν δεν του δίνεις σημασία, όταν κάνεις πως δεν υπάρχει. […]

 9. Δεν είναι όλοι οι έρωτες γεννημένοι να γίνουν μύθοι
[…]Καμιά φορά στην προσπάθεια να διαψεύσεις το ένστικτό σου, μπαίνεις στην διαδικασία να δίνεις ευκαιρία σε καταστάσεις και έρωτες που δεν αξίζουν. Προσπαθείς να εκβιάσεις συναισθήματα τα οποία ο άλλος δεν είναι έτοιμος ή δε θέλει να δώσει. Μέσα σου, όμως, ξέρεις πάντα την αλήθεια: Δεν είναι όλοι οι έρωτες γεννημένοι για να γίνουν μύθοι. Είναι απλά μεσοδιαστήματα στο δρόμο για τον μύθο[…]

 10. Χαμένοι στη μετάφραση
[…]Ο χρόνος, η αναμονή, είναι δίκοπο μαχαίρι. Η κατάλληλη ευκαιρία που περιμένεις μπορεί να μην έρθει ποτέ. Μη φοβάσαι να αφήνεσαι. Κάποια συναισθήματα τα συναντάς μια φορά. Είναι καλύτερα να μετανιώνεις για όσα έζησες, παρά για όσα περίμενες να ζήσεις. Στον έρωτα δεν χωρά η λογική. Είναι το πρώτο πράγμα που σου κλέβει. Αλλιώς, δεν μιλάμε για έρωτα[…]

 Το βιβλίο της Ιωάννας Γκανέτσα “Ο Έρωτας δε θέλει τίτλο” είναι διαθέσιμο σε όλα τα βιβλιοπωλεία καθώς και στο site του εκδοτικού bookstars.gr

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Όταν σκεφτόμαστε συνεχώς πράγματα από το παρελθόν μας, είτε αναπολώντας τα, είτε αναθεωρώντας τα, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε μία παγίδα που μας κρατάει πίσω. Δεν δίνουμε αξία στο παρόν μας και έτσι δεν μπορούμε να χαρούμε τις εμπειρίες που βιώνουμε καθημερινά.

Η ζωή δεν είναι ένα ημερολόγιο γεγονότων που χρειάζεται ξεφύλλισμα από έναν παθητικό αναγνώστη, αλλά μία αρένα δραστηριοτήτων που πάντα έχει κάτι να μας τραβήξει το ενδιαφέρον. Το βέλος της ζωής δεν δείχνει ποτέ προς τα πίσω, δείχνει πάντα μπροστά.Έτσι, είναι ανώφελο κάποιος να κολλάει τη σκέψη του στο παρελθόν ή στο μέλλον σα να μην υπάρχει το “εδώ” και το “τώρα”.

Φυσικά, οι αναμνήσεις είναι εγγενές μέρος της ζωής και συχνά αναπόφευκτες. Είναι ένας τρόπος να μένουμε κοντά στα πρόσωπα που αγαπάμε και σε όσα είμαστε παθιασμένοι. Είναι το συστατικό της προσωπικής μας ταυτότητας και του χαρακτήρα μας. Είναι οι ρίζες βαθιά μέσα στον πυρήνα του εαυτού μας.

“Τό χθες δεν είναι τίποτα περισσότερο από την ανάμνηση του σήμερα, και τo αύριο, τo όνειρο του σήμερα”

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Οι μνήμες είναι συχνά κάτι το απατηλό μιας και είναι φτιατσιδωμένες από τα γεγονότα του παρόντος και έτσι πέφτουν στη φάκα του νου. Η διαφορά ανάμεσα στις ψεύτικες και τις γνήσιες αναμνήσεις μοιάζει με τον τρόπο που ξεχωρίζουν τα φο-μπιζού από τα πραγματικά κοσμήματα, τα φο-μπιζού μοιάζουν αληθινά επειδή αστράφτουν πιο έντονα.

Η μνήμη μοιάζει με ένα όχι τόσο έξυπνο σκύλο που όταν του πετάξεις ένα ραβδί θα σου φέρει ένα διαφορετικό που βρίσκεται πιο δίπλα.

“Να ζείτε την κάθε μέρα της ζωής σας”

Η ζωή θα ήταν αδύνατη αν θυμόμασταν όλα όσα μας έχουν συμβεί

Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

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Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

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Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

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Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

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Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

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Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

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