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Πώς μαθαίνεις να κολυμπάς; Κάνεις λάθη, έτσι δεν είναι; Και τι συμβαίνει; Κάνεις κι άλλα λάθη. Κι έχεις κάνει όλα τα λάθη που θα μπορούσες να κάνεις χωρίς να πνιγείς. Και κάποια από αυτά τα λάθη τα έχεις επαναλάβει πολλές φορές – και τι διαπιστώνεις; Ότι μπορείς να κολυμπήσεις. Η ζωή είναι το ίδιο όπως όταν μαθαίνεις να κολυμπάς! Μη φοβάσαι να κάνεις λάθη, γιατί δεν υπάρχει άλλος τρόπος για να μάθεις να ζεις!»
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Ουδείς τέλειος, άρα ουδείς αλάθητος. Τα λάθη είναι μέρος της ζωής μας και, όσο και αν προσπαθούμε να τα αποφύγουμε, πάντα κάποιο θα μας ξεφεύγει. Στην καλύτερη περίπτωση μας εφοδιάζουν με εμπειρίες που μας κάνουν σοφότερους. Στη χειρότερη μας παγιδεύουν, μας κάνουν δυστυχισμένους και δεν μας αφήνουν να προχωρήσουμε μπροστά.
Η ψυχολόγος Μαρία Μεραμβελιωτάκη-Simon προτείνει πέντε τρόπους να τα αφήσουμε πίσω μας και να βαδίσουμε στο μέλλον με πιο ήρεμη συνείδηση.

«Ίσως υπάρχουν φορές που σκέφτεσαι το παρελθόν σου και εύχεσαι να μπορούσες να αλλάξεις γεγονότα ή εμπειρίες σου. Ίσως στο μυαλό σου τριγυρνάει η σκέψη πως εάν μπορούσες να γυρίσεις πίσω και να κάνεις κάποια πράγματα διαφορετικά π.χ να χειριστείς διαφορετικά μία σχέση σου, να προσπαθήσεις περισσότερο στη δουλειά σου ή να μην πάρεις κάποιες λάθος αποφάσεις, τότε πιθανόν το παρόν σου να ήταν καλύτερο. Εάν σκέφτεσαι διαρκώς τα λάθη του παρελθόντος με τρόπο επικριτικό, εάν βιώνεις συναισθήματα απογοήτευσης και νοσταλγίας γι΄ αυτό που «θα μπορούσε να είχε συμβεί» και μετανιώνεις για πράγματα που έκανες ή δεν έκανες, κινδυνεύεις να χάσεις όχι μόνο το παρόν αλλά και την όρεξη που απαιτείται για να προσπαθήσεις για ένα καλύτερο μέλλον. Βέβαια, σ΄έναν μεγάλο βαθμό, η μετάνοια για το παρελθόν μπορεί να μας βοηθήσει:
α) Να κατανοήσουμε τα πράγματα που μας συνέβησαν
β) Να αποκτήσουμε αυτεπίγνωση και να καταλάβουμε τα κίνητρα και τις αντιδράσεις μας και
γ) Ν΄ ανακαλύψουμε νέους δρόμους προς την προσωπική μας βελτίωση. Το να αισθανόμαστε λοιπόν μετανιωμένοι έχει σημαντική λειτουργικότητα στη ζωή μας.
Η μετάνοια όμως και η έντονη αποδοκιμασία των παρελθοντικών πράξεων μας, εάν βιώνονται σε υπερβολικό βαθμό, μπορούν να μας οδηγήσουν σε μια διαδρομή πολύ διαφορετική από την προσωπική βελτίωση. Συχνά μπορεί να φέρουν συναισθήματα θλίψης, αναξιότητας και να προκαλέσουν στατικότητα αντί για δημιουργική δράση.

Τα βήματα που οδηγούν στη συμφιλίωση

Κατανόησε ότι τα λάθη είναι μέρος της ανθρώπινης φύσης μας. Κάποια λάθη έχουν σίγουρα σημαντικότερες επιπτώσεις από κάποια άλλα. Όμως όλοι ανεξαιρέτως κάνουν λάθη. Λάθος πράξεις, λάθος επιλογές. Δεν μπορείς να το αποφύγεις, γιατί είναι ένας από τους καλύτερους τρόπους για να μάθεις.

Η μετάνοια δεν θα έπρεπε να είναι μια ψυχολογική τιμωρία για τα παραπτώματά μας. Αντί να τιμωρείς τον εαυτό σου αποδοκιμάζοντας και απορρίπτοντάς τον για τα λάθη του, προσπάθησε να δεις αυτό που σου λέει το συναίσθημα της μετάνοιας: ότι κάτι πρέπει ν΄ αλλάξεις στον τρόπο σκέψης, τις συνήθειες ή τη συμπεριφορά σου. Κοίταξε μέσα σου και δες τη μετάνοια σαν μία φίλη που προσπαθεί να σε βοηθήσει να καταλάβεις καλύτερα τον εαυτό σου και να βελτιώσεις ό,τι χρειάζεται βελτίωση. Εάν θεωρείς ότι το λάθος σου ήταν πολύ σοβαρό και δεν μπορείς να πάψεις να αυτοκατηγορείσαι, είναι σημαντικό να δώσεις στον εαυτό σου την ευκαιρία για συγχώρεση, όπως ίσως θα την έδινες και σε ένα αγαπημένο σου πρόσωπο. Κάνε ειρήνη με τον εαυτό σου και δες πώς μπορείς ν΄ αλλάξεις τη ζωή σου από εδώ και πέρα.

Εάν μετανιώνεις για το παρελθόν, μην αφήσεις το συναίσθημα αυτό να σε καταβάλει. Μέσα από την αναγνώριση των λαθών σου προσφέρεις στον εαυτό σου τη δυνατότητα να γίνει καλύτερος. Όταν η μετάνοια γίνεται ευκαιρία για αλλαγή, έχει τη δύναμη να σε ανυψώσει, να σε κάνει να ξεκαθαρίσεις τους στόχους και τις αξίες σου. Εάν όμως παραδοθείς στην αρνητική της διάσταση, ίσως βυθιστείς σε περισσότερη απογοήτευση.

Όσο και να μετανιώνεις για τα λάθη του παρελθόντος, το παρελθόν δεν αλλάζει. Αντί να σπαταλάς την ενέργειά σου σκεπτόμενος/η με απογοήτευση πόσο καλύτερα θα μπορούσαν να είναι τα πράγματα εάν είχες κάνει διαφορετικές επιλογές, επικεντρώσου στο πώς μπορείς να καλυτερέψεις τα πράγματα τώρα. Η αλήθεια είναι ότι ακόμα κι αν είχες κάνει διαφορετικές επιλογές, ποτέ δεν ξέρεις εάν τα πράγματα θα ήταν όντως καλύτερα. Κάθε απόφαση συνεπάγεται ένα «ναι» κι ένα «όχι», γι΄ αυτό θα ήταν καλό να είμαστε προετοιμασμένοι ν΄ αποδεχτούμε το γεγονός ότι, όταν αποφασίζουμε για κάτι, διαλέγουμε ένα πράγμα κι αφήνουμε ένα άλλο πίσω μας.

Κάνε την κάθε σου μέρα σημαντική. Απόλαυσε το παρόν σου και ζήσε με τρόπο συμβατό με τις αξίες σου. Εάν π.χ μετανιώνεις για τον λιγοστό χρόνο που περνούσες με την οικογένεια σου στο παρελθόν, προσπάθησε να αφιερώσεις τον χρόνο που νομίζεις ότι θα σε ικανοποιούσε και θα προλάβαινε συναισθήματα μετάνοιας στο μέλλον. Εάν μετανιώνεις για επιλογές στην καριέρα σου, αναλογίσου τι είναι σημαντικό για σένα και κάθε μέρα κάνε ένα βήμα προς την κατεύθυνση που θα ήθελες να φτάσεις. Μην ξεχνάς να απολαμβάνεις την παρούσα στιγμή και την χαρά που σου δίνουν τα «σωστά» σου, γιατί σίγουρα (εκτός από λάθη για τα οποία μετανιώνεις) έχεις πράγματα στη ζωή σου τα οποία αποτελούν επιλογές για τις οποίες δε μετανιώνεις και έχεις τη σιγουριά ότι ήταν οι σωστές».

* Μαρία Μεραμβελιωτάκη – Simon: Συμβουλευτική ψυχολόγος – NLP Practitioner

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Η μουσική είναι παντού. Υπάρχουν λίγες καταστάσεις και στιγμές στην καθημερινότητά μας στις οποίες η μουσική δεν παίζει σημαντικό ρόλο. Είτε αθλείστε, οδηγείτε, περπατάτε ή ψωνίζετε – αν δεν χρησιμοποιούμε τα ακουστικά μας μόνοι μας, η μουσική υπόκρουση παίζει εξωτερικά. Η μουσική είναι ο παλμός κάθε πάρτι, όπου η επιλογή της λίστας αναπαραγωγής μπορεί να δώσει τον τόνο για ολόκληρη την εκδήλωση. Από έξω, η μουσική βιομηχανία μπορεί να φαίνεται διαφορετική, με αστέρια όπως ο Drake, η Lady Gaga ή οι Coldplay να γίνονται πρωτοσέλιδα κάθε μέρα. Και όμως, μια πιο προσεκτική ματιά δείχνει ότι αυτό δεν συνέβαινε πάντα και ότι η ποικιλομορφία στον κόσμο της μουσικής μπόρεσε πραγματικά να καθιερωθεί μόνο τα τελευταία χρόνια. Χάρη στο Spotify and Co., η μουσική είναι πάντα κοντά μας και προσβάσιμη από οπουδήποτε. Γιατί όμως μας αρέσει ακριβώς η ποικιλόμορφη πλευρά της μουσικής και γιατί είναι τόσο σημαντική η διαφοροποίηση;

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Η μουσική δεν είναι μόνο διασκεδαστική, έχει επίσης πολλά οφέλη και μας βοηθά να αναπτυχθούμε και να αναπτυχθούμε. Η μουσική παίζει ιδιαίτερο ρόλο, ειδικά όσον αφορά τα συναισθήματα και τις διαθέσεις. Μέσα από τη διαφοροποίηση της μουσικής, τελειώνει η περιχαράκωση. Διαφορετικά συναισθήματα και συναισθήματα μπορούν να μεταδοθούν μέσω της μουσικής. Η μουσική είναι φτιαγμένη για όλους και δεν σκέφτεται σε ομάδες. Αλλά ακόμη και αυτή η εξέλιξη συνεχίζεται, επειδή οι παραγωγοί εξακολουθούν να αναφέρουν ότι αποκλείονται από ορισμένους τομείς της μουσικής βιομηχανίας λόγω υποθέσεων με βάση την εθνικότητά τους.

Η μουσική είναι μια παγκόσμια γλώσσα που όλοι μπορούν να καταλάβουν. Συνδέει ηπείρους και ξεπερνά αποστάσεις και πολιτισμούς. Φτάνει στα βάθη των ανθρώπων μοιράζοντας ένα συναίσθημα, μια εμπειρία, μια ιδέα που πυροδοτεί μια εσωτερική κίνηση. Και αυτός ακριβώς είναι ο στόχος, η διαφοροποίηση της μουσικής.

Μουσική που σπάει με τη φόρμα

Μια συνταγή επιτυχίας στον κόσμο της μουσικής είναι να ρισκάρεις τη μουσική. Οι ερμηνευτές και οι καλλιτέχνες που είναι διαφορετικοί φαίνονται όλο και πιο επιτυχημένοι. Όσοι τολμούν να επανεφεύρουν τον εαυτό τους και τον κόσμο της μουσικής γίνονται όλο και πιο δημοφιλείς.

Μια ποικιλόμορφη κοινωνία

Η σημασία της διαφοροποίησης της μουσικής φαίνεται και από την εξέλιξη της κοινωνίας τα τελευταία χρόνια. Θέματα που γίνονται όλο και πιο παρόντα βρίσκονται επίσης όλο και περισσότερο στον κόσμο της μουσικής. Αστέρια όπως η Demi Lovato βγαίνουν ως μη δυαδικά και η Billie Eilish ενσαρκώνει επίσης τα φωτεινά χρώματα της κοινωνίας. Και με επιτυχία: χάρη σε αυτή τη μουσική , οι άνθρωποι αισθάνονται κατανοητοί και με αυτόν τον τρόπο δημιουργείται ένα μέρος όπου ο καθένας μπορεί να είναι όπως θέλει.

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Το πόσο διαδεδομένη είναι η μουσική δείχνει το ερώτημα: Πού δεν είναι η μουσική; Σχεδόν κανένας τομέας της ζωής μας δεν μπορεί να φανταστεί κανείς χωρίς μουσική. Ακόμη και στον κόσμο των βίντεο κουλοχέρηδων  αμέτρητων βιβλιοθηκών τυχερών παιχνιδιών, η μουσική είναι ένα ουσιαστικό συστατικό. Ενώ υπάρχουν κουλοχέρηδες με θέμα τη μουσική, όπως το Music Stage, σε άλλα παιχνίδια η μουσική είναι ένα σημαντικό υπόβαθρο και παρέχει ενθουσιασμό και επιπλέον αδρεναλίνη. Η μουσική παρέχει επίσης τη σωστή αίσθηση στις ζωντανές στοές.

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Έτσι, στο τέλος είναι απαραίτητο μόνο να ευχαριστήσουμε τη μουσική. Για τα συναισθήματα που νιώθουμε χάρη σε εκείνη και τις καταστάσεις που την κάνουν πολύ πιο έντονη. Τι θα ήμασταν χωρίς τη μουσική;

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Δεν μπορείς να ακούς μα ούτε και να εξηγήσεις πως ο πιο σημαντικός άνθρωπος στην ζωή σου, η ίδια σου η μάνα, που σε ‘φερε στην ζωή, που θυσιάστηκε και θυσιάζεται για να ‘σαι συ καλά, που έκανε στην άκρη όλη της τη ζωή να μπει η δική σου μπροστά, πως εκείνη; πως μπορεί εκείνη να ναι η πηγή της δυστυχία σου. Δεν το χωρά ο νους σου και ούτε να το ακούς δεν θες….

Μα αυτή η αυταπάρνηση της μανούλας σου θα κάνει με τόση μαεστρία την δική σου την ψυχούλα να γεμίζει τύψεις και ενοχές κάθε που θα σηκώσεις κεφάλι από τα πρώτα σου χρόνια… γιατί η μαμά επειδή σε αγαπάει τα κάνει όλα δεν την λυπάσαι;  Κάνε αυτό που σου λέει αμέσως… Κοίτα, κοιτά πόσο την ταλαιπωρείς, κοιτά αναίσθητο παιδί που δεν καταλαβαίνεις πως όλα για σένα γίνονται.

Και έτσι εσύ καημένο μου παιδάκι και εγωκεντρικό γίνεσαι και υποτακτικό σε πάσα μορφή εξουσίας. Και στην αγάπη αρχίζεις να αισθάνεσαι υπόχρεος γιατί κάποιος κόβει κάτι από κείνον για να το δώσει σε σένα, δεν υπάρχει εκεί μονό για σένα και αναρωτιέσαι, άραγε την αξίζεις αυτή την αγάπη, άραγε υπάρχει πραγματικά κάτι μονό για μένα;;

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Να βρει το νόημα της δικής της ζωής να μην το γυρέψει μέσα από την δική σου την ζωή γιατί αλίμονο σου…

Δεν θα μάθεις ποτέ ποιος πραγματικά είσαι αφού θα μεγαλώνεις με τέτοιο τρόπο ώστε να ικανοποιήσεις αυτό που θα θελε να ναι η ίδια σου η μανούλα, θα σε φτιάξει έτσι ώστε να γίνεις αυτό που ‘θελε εκείνη και θα το δουλέψει πολύ από τότε που θα πας στα πρώτα σου σχολεία και αν εσύ αντισταθείς γιατί κάτι μέσα σου κλωτσήσει και δεν σου κάνει ετούτο το κουστούμι θα ακούσεις πως όλα γίνονται για το καλό σου και πως αυτό πρέπει να γίνει γιατί η μαμά κάνει αγώνα μεγάλο για να σου παρέχει όλα αυτά που εσύ πετάς και λες πως δεν τα θες κακομαθημένο!

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Κοίτα με πόση δεξιοτεχνία, πόσο ύπουλα και χωρίς να το καταλάβεις, εσύ είσαι το πρόβλημα, εσύ έχεις τα προβλήματα που δεν καταλαβαίνεις τι είναι όλο αυτό που στήθηκε για σένα χωρίς εσένα;;

Γιατί ποιος είσαι εσύ άλλωστε…. Ποτέ σου δεν θα μάθεις..  Μόνο αν κάποια στιγμή τα καταθλιπτικά συμπτώματα ή το άγχος σε οδηγήσουν στον ψυχαναλυτή!

Και πάλι θα σου πάρει λίγο χρόνο πουλάκι μου μα την στιγμή που θα ανακαλύψεις ποιος είσαι θα ναι σαν σου κόλλησαν δυο φτερά στην πλάτη σαν αυτά που χουν οι άγγελοι και θα σαι ελεύθερος πια να πετάς.. θα είσαι εσύ ο γνήσιος και μοναδικός εαυτός σου και θα μπορείς να πετάς, να ανάπνεες και να απολαμβάνεις !

Την ζωή που σου ανήκει και που εσύ θα δημιουργήσεις.

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Όσα δώσεις στο παιδί σου μέχρι τα 6, καθορίζουν την υπόλοιπη ζωή του!

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Έρευνες, μελέτες και σιγά σιγά η εμπειρία των προηγούμενων γενεών πιστοποιούν πια πως τα 6 πρώτα χρόνια ζωής ενός παιδιού προδιαγράφουν το μέλλον του.

Η υγιεινή διατροφή, τα πλούσια ερεθίσματα αλλά κυρίως η αγάπη των γονιών, ειδικά σε αυτά τα σημαντικά 6 χρόνια της ζωής, είναι ικανά ακόμα και να απενεργοποιήσουν τα γονίδια εκείνα που σχετίζονται με κάθε είδους ασθένεια, σωματική ή ψυχική. Τα νέα στοιχεία, κάνουν σκόνη την θεωρία που θέλει τα γονίδιά μας να είναι αυτά που κάνουν καθολικό κουμάντο. Τώρα ξέρουμε πως το περιβάλλον και ο τρόπος που μεγαλώνουμε είναι αυτά που μπορούν να επηρεάσουν τη ζωή μας. Αυτό δεν σημαίνει πως τα γονίδια δεν παίζουν το ρόλο τους, δεν ορίζουν όμως μόνο αυτά τη εξέλιξη της προσωπικότητάς μας.

Όπως και να έχει, το βασικό είναι πως επιβεβαιώνεται αυτό που όλοι υποψιαζόμασταν: πως η προσοχή, η αγάπη και η φροντίδα που δίνουμε σε ένα παιδί από τα πρώτα χρόνια της ζωής του καθορίζει σε τεράστιο βαθμό τη ζωή τους και ουσιαστικά αποτελεί ένα σημαντικό κληροδότημά μας προς εκείνα.

Στα πρώτα χρόνια της ζωής του το παιδί είναι όπως το μαλακό κερί, όπως το μαργαριτάρι, όπως η ζωγραφική, όπως η κατασκευή των αγαλμάτων. Κατ’ επέκτασιν, οι γονείς γίνονται ζωγράφοι, καλλιτέχνες, αγαλματοποιοί και κατασκευάζουν αυριανούς ανθρώπους.

Παλαιότερα τα παιδιά αντιμετωπίζονταν ή αδιάφορα ή στην καλύτερη περίπτωση ως μικρογραφία ενήλικα. Στην πορεία, άρχισε να αντιμετωπίζεται με μεγάλη προσοχή, γιατί το σημερινό παιδί είναι ο πρόδρομος του αυριανού ενήλικα. Το ψυχικά υγιές παιδί έχει πολύ περισσότερες πιθανότητες να είναι αύριο ένας υγιής ενήλικας. Αντίστοιχα, το κακοποιημένο και τραυματισμένο παιδί έχει μεγάλες πιθανότητες να είναι αύριο ένας προβληματικός, αντικοινωνικός και παραβατικός ενήλικας. Η ανατροφή και η διαπαιδαγώγηση του παιδιού από τα πρώτα χρόνια της ζωής του είναι μια υπερβολικά υπεύθυνη, επίπονη, χρονοβόρα και δύσκολη διαδικασία η οποία απαιτεί την ευαισθητοποίηση των γονέων, την αυταπάρνησή τους και την υπομονή τους. Πέρα από το ότι ολοκληρώνει τη μητέρα και τον πατέρα ως άτομα, προδιαγράφει τις σχέσεις των ανθρώπων του αύριο.

Ανατρέφω ένα παιδί, θα πει στην πράξη ότι το μορφώνω όπως γράφει η σύμβουλος σχολικού εκπαιδευτικού προσανατολισμού Β. Παππά. Η μητέρα είναι εκείνη που το εκπαιδεύει πως να πίνει νερό από το ποτήρι, πως να τρώει με το κουτάλι και το πηρούνι, πως να ντύνεται μόνο του, να πηγαίνει στην τουαλέτα. Επίσης, εκείνη το μαθαίνει να τακτοποιεί τα παιχνίδια του, να τα μοιράζεται με τα άλλα παιδιά και να σέβεται τα δικαιώματα του άλλου. Η μητέρα διδάσκει το παιδί της με διάφορους τρόπους. Χρησιμοποιεί το λόγο, την επίδειξη, του παραστέκεται με τη σωματική της δύναμη. Αν θέλει, όμως, να πετύχει στο έργο της, επιβάλλεται να προσαρμόζει τις προσδοκίες της σ’ αυτά που σωματικά, ψυχολογικά και διανοητικά, μπορεί το παιδί να μάθει. Είναι σημαντικό για τη μητέρα να γνωρίζει το ίδιο της το παιδί. Να ξέρει σε ποιο σημείο ανάπτυξης βρίσκεται κι αν είναι έτοιμο να μάθει, αυτό που προσπαθεί να του διδάξει.

Ο πιο εκδηλωτικός τρόπος να μεταδώσουμε την αγάπη μας στο παιδί είναι η σωματική επικοινωνία. Κι όταν λέμε σωματική επικοινωνία, εννοούμε ένα χάιδεμα, ένα αγκάλιασμα, το ενθαρρυντικό χτύπημα στην πλάτη ή και ένα απλό άγγιγμα του παιδιού. Το παιδί που μεγαλώνει σε ένα σπίτι όπου οι γονείς χρησιμοποιούν την οπτική και σωματική επικοινωνία, αισθάνεται άνετα με τον εαυτό του και με τους άλλους, και συνεπώς, θα είναι αγαπητό και θα έχει αυτοσεβασμό. Κατ’ αυτό τον τρόπο το παιδί μπορεί να γεμίσει το συναισθηματικό του δοχείο. Επίσης, η συμμετοχή του πατέρα στη φροντίδα του παιδιού και η συναισθηματική στήριξη στη σύζυγό του ενισχύει σημαντικά τη συζυγική και οικογενειακή αρμονία, ενισχύοντας τους δεσμούς τόσο με το παιδί όσο και με τη σύντροφό του.

“Ιδανικοί” γονείς θεωρούνται, όσοι συνδυάζουν την έκδηλη στοργή και την ενθάρρυνση για αυτονομία. «Το πολύ μικρό παιδί μπορεί να έχει ανάγκη από τη συνεχή φροντίδα, όσο μεγαλώνει όμως, ο γονιός οφείλει να το απελευθερώνει σιγά – σιγά, χωρίς να διακόπτεται η αμοιβαία αγάπη και να το οδηγεί στη συναισθηματική και πνευματική ανεξαρτησία. Η γονεϊκή αγάπη που πνίγει τα παιδιά, τη στιγμή που αυτά έχουν ανάγκη να βγουν εξω από την οικογενειακή “φωλιά”, μοιάζει με τα δέντρα που φυτεύουμε, για να προστατεύσουμε το σπίτι από τον ήλιο και που, τελικά, μεγαλώνουν τόσο πολύ και ευδοκιμούν τόσο, ώστε πρέπει να τα κλαδέψουμε, αν δεν θέλουμε να πεθάνουμε από ασφυξία».

Όσα κάνουμε, όσα λέμε, από ένα απλό νανούρισμα, μέχρι ένα χαδί, από ένα «μη» μέχρι ένα «μπράβο» στο πρώτο δειλό βήμα, καταγράφονται στο μυαλό και την ψυχή του παιδιού. Και παρόλο που ως ενήλικες αδυνατούμε να χρησιμοποιήσουμε σε συνειδητό επίπεδο όλες τις πληροφορίες εκείνες που συλλέξαμε στην πρώιμη παιδική ηλικία, αυτές οι μνήμες είναι υπαρκτές και ασκούν πάνω μας επιρροή σε ασυνείδητο επίπεδο.

Γι’ αυτό οφείλουμε σαν γονείς να γεμίσουμε τον κόσμο του τόσο μικρού αυτού ανθρώπου με όμορφες εικόνες και τρυφερά συναισθήματα, ώστε όταν έρθει ο καιρός να «ανασύρει» όλο αυτό του υλικό για να προχωρήσει, να «βρει» στοιχεία που θα τον κάνουν έναν μαχητή της ζωής και όχι ένα φερέφωνο των γονεικών προσδοκιών.

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