Connect with us

Σχέσεις

Όποιος θέλει προσπαθεί. Όποιος δεν θέλει, εφευρίσκει δικαιολογίες

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

tumblr_nz7m42oQRR1ugwlago1_1280

Λυπάμαι, αλλά ατάκες του τύπου «Όλα για κάποιο λόγο γίνονται» παρενοχλούσαν πάντα χυδαία το μυαλό μου. Ποτέ και τίποτα δεν έχει λόγο να συμβαίνει. Απλά να, εγώ ό,τι γουστάρω το χρειάζομαι ολόκληρο. Να βουτάω σε αυτό. Να το βιώνω παθιασμένα, να το ξεκοκαλίζω. Δε μου κάνεις σε δόσεις. Ούτε σε διαλείμματα. Οι δόσεις είναι για τις πρέζες κι οι παύσεις για τους δειλούς. Οπότε απλά σου προτείνω ν’ αντικρούσεις πρύμνη.

Στην τελική ξέρεις κάτι; Αν για όλα που μας συμβαίνουν υπάρχει αιτία, τότε αυτή η αιτία μόνο μπάσταρδη θα μπορούσε να ‘ναι. Γι’ αυτό ξερνάω με κάθε τέτοια εκδήλωση. Φτηνά λόγια, για ν’ αποφύγουμε καταστάσεις. Δικαιολογία, για να την κάνουμε «μ’ ελαφρά» όποτε δε μας βολεύει. Τέρμα πια στην ηλιθιότητα που μας δέρνει. Κι εμείς τα όρνια πάμε τρέχοντας και πιστεύουμε όποιον το παίζει ξεκάθαρος κι ειλικρινής.

Όταν η επιθυμία δεν καίει τα στήθια, δε σιγοκαίει, απλά ξεφουρνίζουμε πως οι συγκυρίες δεν είναι ιδανικές. Ναι, όσο κι αν προσπαθείς να με πείσεις ότι με ποθείς. Στυγνά στη μάπα του άλλου φουμάρεις ψέματα προσπαθώντας να πιστέψεις πως είναι αλήθειες. Απλά, επειδή το γουστάρισμα δεν ήταν ξεσηκωτικό, πάμε για το σουτάρισμα. Δεν είναι ντροπή να το ξεστομίσεις. Γιατί φοβάσαι την αλήθεια; Τα ψέματα είναι τα κολοβά.

Ποτέ δεν είπα ότι ήταν εύκολο μεταξύ μας μα ήταν παθιασμένο. Κι αυτή η γαμημένη ζωή το ζητάει το πάθος. Την επιθυμεί την ακρότητα. Τα «ίσως» και τα «μπορεί» ευχαρίστως τα διαολοστέλνω. Κι αν σου φανώ αφελής, εγώ το πίστεψα, μωρό μου. Πίστεψα στη ματιά μας που ούρλιαζε «σε θέλω». Στα παραληρήματα σου που τόσο λάτρευα ν’ απολαμβάνω. Στις διαφωνίες που μετατρέπονταν σε φιλί. Γι’ αυτό σου λέω, αν τρελαινόσουν κι αν δε φοβόσουν, εμείς θα τα καταφέρναμε. Εγώ θα τα έδινα όλα.

Αν με ρωτήσεις, δεν ξέρω να σου πω γιατί πληγώθηκα τόσο που δε μας βγήκε. Κι όσο κι αν προσπάθησα να καταλάβω, τρελαμένη μέσα σε καπνούς, ξενύχτια κι αλκοόλ, καμία απάντηση δε με έπεισε. Δε σε ερωτεύτηκα. Αλλά είχες όλα τα φόντα να την πάθω τη ζημιά. Μου το στέρησες κι αυτό.

Να δεις, θα στήριξα τις ελπίδες μου πάνω σου. Είχα μάθει να ζω εν λευκώ τις σχέσεις μου κι ήρθες να ταρακουνήσεις λίγο το αραλίκι μου. Κι ύστερα οπισθοχώρησες άτακτα. Αποχώρησα αξιοπρεπώς κι εγώ, όμως. Κράτησα τα «γιατί» μου κι επέτρεψα στη φάση να κυλήσει.

Αλλά όχι, ρε φιλαράκι! Χίλιες φορές με ειλικρίνεια να μου αποκρινόσουν ότι δε γούσταρες πολύ, παρά να τα ρίχνεις στην τύχη. Για να σε τακτοποιούσα κι εγώ με την ησυχία μου στα «ακάθαρτα» με βούλα και τιμή. Μα τώρα, δεν είσαι δα και τίποτα αθέμιτο. Δεν επέδειξες κανένα δείγμα αναξιότητας για να σ’ αποστραφώ στην τελική. Είναι αυτό το «γαμώτο» που με ρημάζει.

Λύσε όσες εξισώσεις σου καβλώσει για ν’ ανακαλύψεις τελικά πώς σχετίζονται τα γεγονότα. Θέσε εξαρτημένη μεταβλητή την έλξη μας κι ανεξάρτητη τις αντίθετες ζωές μας και λύσε ως προς τον άγνωστο Χ. Μόλις είσαι έτοιμος, έλα με μαθηματική και φυσική ακρίβεια να μου αποδείξεις ότι εμείς οι δύο δεν είμαστε μαζί επειδή πράγματι συνωμότησε το σύμπαν, κι όχι επειδή το πράγμα σου ‘κατσε τελικά λίγο «κλάιν μάιν». Φρόντισε μόνο να μην καταλήξουμε σε άτοπο.

Όσο για ‘σένα λοιπόν, όταν αποφασίζουμε να ενοχλήσουμε την ησυχία και τους ρυθμούς του άλλου, έχουμε γυμνό λόγο. Πήδημα θα ‘ναι, έρωτας, παιχνίδι, δεν ξέρω. Ό,τι κι αν επιλέξουμε, το καταθέτουμε στην τράπεζα της καρδιάς του άλλου για να ξέρει τι του γίνεται. Και πάνω απ’ όλα δεν την κάνουμε κυνηγημένοι επειδή φοβηθήκαμε τα συναισθήματά του.

Οι άνθρωποι μόνο με συναισθήματα λειτουργούν. Αυτά είναι το καύσιμο. Κανένα μυαλό δε συμμετέχει σ’ όλο αυτό. Οπότε μάθε έστω, την επόμενη φορά, να βρεις τα σωστά λόγια να ξεφουρνίσεις, κι άσε τις δηθενιές του τύπου «οι καταστάσεις φταίνε». Σεβάσου, τουλάχιστον, τα αισθήματα του άλλου, γαμώτο σου. Όποιος θέλει πραγματικά, μένει εδώ και προσπαθεί. Δε σου το έμαθαν αυτό;

Όσο για ‘μένα, που επιλέγω μονάχα ν’ ακολουθώ ενδόμυχα ένστικτα και συναισθήματα κι επέτρεψα στον εαυτό μου να αισθανθεί κάτι και για ‘σένα, αποσύρομαι απ’ τη σκηνή. Έτσι, για λίγο ν’ ανασυντάξω τις δυνάμεις μου.

Γιατί τελικά θέλουμε, δε θέλουμε, όταν ανακατευόμαστε σ’ ερωτικές περιπέτειες, αφήνουμε κομμάτια μας πίσω, όπως κάνουν οι ιχνηλάτες για να σημαδέψουν από πού έχουν περάσει. Κι η ανάρρωση μοιάζει κάπως με τις μεταμοσχεύσεις μετά. Θέλει λίγο χρόνο για να συνηθίσεις και να είσαι σίγουρος ότι ο οργανισμός σου δέχτηκε το μόσχευμα. Αφού προστέθηκε κάτι ακόμα για να ζεις μ’ αυτό μέσα σου.

Όσο για μας, αγάπη μου, αξιοπρέπεια και χαμόγελο πολύ από δω και πέρα. Να, βλέπεις, είναι που δεν μπορώ να σου κρατήσω κακία. Γιατί μπορεί να ήσουν δειλός, αλλά έχω πίστη στο «μέσα» σου. Κι αυτό ήταν εντυπωσιακότατο.

“Veni, vidi, vici”, όπως θα λέγαμε γελώντας. Α, και καλή καρδιά! Ε, εντάξει δεν ήταν και τίποτα!

Πηγή

What’s your Reaction?
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Advertisement
218 Comments

218 Comments

  1. betflix

    9 January 2022 at 3:02 am

    26534 173372The Twitter application page will open. This is very good if youve got several thousand followers, but as you get more and more the usefulness of this tool is downgraded. 262591

  2. 강남셔츠룸

    17 March 2022 at 10:23 am

    963472 193747An fascinating discussion may possibly be valued at comment. I do believe which you just write read much more about this subject, it may not often be a taboo subject but normally persons are too few to dicuss on such topics. To a higher. Cheers 128320

  3. hillapple

    13 October 2022 at 1:07 pm

    548094 89420Perfectly written topic material , thanks for selective details . 245339

  4. Good ? I should definitely pronounce, impressed with your website. I had no trouble navigating through all tabs as well as related info ended up being truly easy to do to access. I recently found what I hoped for before you know it at all. Reasonably unusual. Is likely to appreciate it for those who add forums or something, web site theme . a tones way for your client to communicate. Nice task..

  5. Champion league

    3 March 2023 at 5:54 pm

    Wow, wonderful weblog layout! How long have you ever been running a blog for? you made blogging glance easy. The whole glance of your website is great, as smartly as the content!

  6. Hi there, I found your site via Google while searching for a related topic, your web site came up, it looks good. I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.

  7. Antika

    6 March 2023 at 2:53 pm

    I was very pleased to seek out this internet-site.I wished to thanks to your time for this wonderful read!! I undoubtedly having fun with every little bit of it and I have you bookmarked to check out new stuff you blog post.

  8. massive anal dildos

    8 March 2023 at 3:31 am

    Thanks for the write-up. My spouse and i have constantly observed that many people are desirous to lose weight when they wish to look slim as well as attractive. However, they do not often realize that there are more benefits to losing weight also. Doctors say that obese people suffer from a variety of ailments that can be instantly attributed to their excess weight. The great thing is that people who are overweight along with suffering from various diseases can reduce the severity of their own illnesses through losing weight. You possibly can see a slow but noted improvement in health when even a slight amount of weight reduction is obtained.

  9. Beneficios del aceite de semilla negra

    8 March 2023 at 2:04 pm

    I think this is among the most significant info for me. And i am glad reading your article. But want to remark on few general things, The site style is great, the articles is really nice : D. Good job, cheers

  10. https://patf.org/토지노뉴스/

    12 March 2023 at 12:20 am

    Via my research, shopping for consumer electronics online can for sure be expensive, although there are some guidelines that you can use to acquire the best things. There are always ways to obtain discount discounts that could make one to have the best gadgets products at the smallest prices. Great blog post.

  11. 토토사이트추천

    14 March 2023 at 12:43 pm

    This actually answered my drawback, thank you!

  12. Magnificent goods from you, man. I have understand your stuff previous to and you are just too great. I really like what you’ve acquired here, certainly like what you are stating and the way in which you say it. You make it entertaining and you still take care of to keep it sensible. I cant wait to read far more from you. This is actually a terrific site. Dr Vi PDO Thread Lift Melbourne 602A Bourke Street Melbourne Victoria Australia 3000

  13. Red Boost

    15 March 2023 at 10:32 pm

    Heya i?m for the primary time here. I came across this board and I in finding It truly helpful & it helped me out much. I hope to give one thing back and help others such as you helped me.

  14. Daily News

    16 March 2023 at 6:07 pm

    Thanks for your article on the traveling industry. I would also like to include that if your senior contemplating traveling, it’s absolutely vital that you buy traveling insurance for senior citizens. When traveling, retirees are at biggest risk of having a professional medical emergency. Obtaining the right insurance coverage package for the age group can safeguard your health and provide you with peace of mind.

  15. porn

    17 March 2023 at 5:28 am

    This really answered my drawback, thanks!

  16. trending fashion

    17 March 2023 at 12:57 pm

    Thanks for your article. It is very unfortunate that over the last years, the travel industry has had to handle terrorism, SARS, tsunamis, bird flu virus, swine flu, along with the first ever true global recession. Through everthing the industry has proven to be sturdy, resilient and also dynamic, discovering new ways to deal with hardship. There are continually fresh challenges and the opportunity to which the marketplace must all over again adapt and behave.

  17. porn

    18 March 2023 at 3:20 am

    I’ve been absent for some time, but now I remember why I used to love this site. Thank you, I will try and check back more frequently. How frequently you update your website?

  18. bokep indo terbaru

    18 March 2023 at 10:15 pm

    What?s Happening i am new to this, I stumbled upon this I’ve found It absolutely useful and it has helped me out loads. I hope to contribute & assist other users like its aided me. Good job.

  19. Metabo Flex

    19 March 2023 at 8:31 pm

    excellent post, very informative. I wonder why the other experts of this sector don’t notice this. You must continue your writing. I’m sure, you have a huge readers’ base already!

  20. Bokep ABG

    20 March 2023 at 9:56 pm

    Oh my goodness! an incredible article dude. Thanks Nevertheless I’m experiencing subject with ur rss . Don?t know why Unable to subscribe to it. Is there anybody getting similar rss problem? Anybody who is aware of kindly respond. Thnkx

  21. Edmonton Masonry

    22 March 2023 at 1:11 pm

    Hey very nice site!! Man .. Beautiful .. Amazing .. I’ll bookmark your blog and take the feeds also?I am happy to find numerous useful info here in the post, we need develop more strategies in this regard, thanks for sharing. . . . . .

  22. I would like to thank you for the efforts you have put in writing this website. I am hoping the same high-grade blog post from you in the upcoming also. In fact your creative writing abilities has encouraged me to get my own site now. Really the blogging is spreading its wings rapidly. Your write up is a great example of it.

  23. bitcoin gambling sites

    24 March 2023 at 8:09 pm

    Thanks for the tips on credit repair on all of this web-site. Things i would tell people will be to give up the particular mentality they can buy today and pay later. Like a society all of us tend to repeat this for many factors. This includes trips, furniture, plus items we wish. However, it is advisable to separate the wants out of the needs. While you’re working to raise your credit ranking score actually you need some sacrifices. For example it is possible to shop online to economize or you can visit second hand shops instead of pricey department stores with regard to clothing.

  24. Excellent blog here! Also your website loads up fast! What web host are you using? Can I get your affiliate link to your host? I wish my site loaded up as quickly as yours lolJJ’s Ducted Gas Heating Repairs and Installation 162 Mitchell Rd, Lilydale VIC 3140 0412 531 821

  25. manual water pump for 5 gallon bottle

    30 March 2023 at 4:23 am

    I have been surfing on-line greater than three hours lately, yet I by no means found any fascinating article like yours. It?s lovely price enough for me. Personally, if all webmasters and bloggers made just right content material as you did, the net might be a lot more useful than ever before.

  26. facturación electrónica guatemala

    30 March 2023 at 7:48 pm

    Another important aspect is that if you are a mature person, travel insurance for pensioners is something you ought to really contemplate. The more mature you are, the more at risk you will be for having something awful happen to you while overseas. If you are not necessarily covered by many comprehensive insurance policies, you could have several serious difficulties. Thanks for expressing your hints on this blog.

  27. saliva testing

    31 March 2023 at 3:02 am

    Thanks for the posting. I have often observed that almost all people are wanting to lose weight since they wish to appear slim as well as attractive. Nevertheless, they do not continually realize that there are more benefits just for losing weight as well. Doctors claim that over weight people come across a variety of diseases that can be instantly attributed to the excess weight. The great news is that people who’re overweight and also suffering from diverse diseases can reduce the severity of the illnesses by means of losing weight. You’ll be able to see a slow but notable improvement in health as soon as even a bit of a amount of losing weight is realized.

  28. urine warmer

    1 April 2023 at 7:16 am

    The core of your writing whilst appearing agreeable initially, did not work properly with me after some time. Somewhere throughout the sentences you actually managed to make me a believer unfortunately just for a while. I nevertheless have got a problem with your leaps in logic and one might do well to fill in all those breaks. In the event you can accomplish that, I would undoubtedly end up being impressed.

  29. hair testing

    1 April 2023 at 7:21 am

    Something more important is that while looking for a good on the net electronics retail outlet, look for web shops that are continually updated, maintaining up-to-date with the most current products, the best deals, and helpful information on services. This will make sure that you are dealing with a shop that really stays over the competition and give you what you need to make intelligent, well-informed electronics expenditures. Thanks for the vital tips I’ve learned through the blog.

  30. Aussie John's Ducted Gas Heating Repairs

    1 April 2023 at 10:54 am

    I have been surfing online more than three hours today, yet I never found any interesting article like yours. It is pretty worth enough for me. Personally, if all website owners and bloggers made good content as you did, the net will be a lot more useful than ever before. Aussie John’s Ducted Gas Heating Repairs and Installation 706 Bourke St, Docklands VIC 3008

  31. saliva testing

    1 April 2023 at 12:07 pm

    Would you be fascinated about exchanging hyperlinks?

  32. Remington 870

    1 April 2023 at 8:41 pm

    Valuable information. Lucky me I found your website by accident, and I’m shocked why this accident didn’t happened earlier! I bookmarked it.

  33. Push carts vape

    1 April 2023 at 9:15 pm

    Good ? I should definitely pronounce, impressed with your web site. I had no trouble navigating through all tabs and related information ended up being truly simple to do to access. I recently found what I hoped for before you know it in the least. Reasonably unusual. Is likely to appreciate it for those who add forums or something, web site theme . a tones way for your client to communicate. Excellent task..

  34. Big chief carts

    2 April 2023 at 3:18 am

    Excellent site. Lots of useful info here. I?m sending it to a few friends ans also sharing in delicious. And naturally, thanks for your sweat!

  35. hosting mining rig

    2 April 2023 at 6:25 pm

    Thanks for your article on this blog. From my personal experience, occasionally softening upwards a photograph might provide the photography with an amount of an inventive flare. Many times however, this soft clouds isn’t just what you had in your mind and can usually spoil an otherwise good image, especially if you anticipate enlarging that.

  36. wowgoldlife

    3 April 2023 at 4:13 pm

    Thank you for sharing excellent informations. Your site is so cool. I’m impressed by the details that you?ve on this blog. It reveals how nicely you perceive this subject. Bookmarked this web page, will come back for extra articles. You, my friend, ROCK! I found simply the info I already searched everywhere and simply could not come across. What an ideal web site.

  37. Another issue is that video gaming became one of the all-time most important forms of fun for people of all ages. Kids have fun with video games, plus adults do, too. The XBox 360 is amongst the favorite games systems for many who love to have a huge variety of activities available to them, along with who like to experiment with live with other folks all over the world. Thanks for sharing your opinions.

  38. click aqui

    9 April 2023 at 4:50 am

    I am not sure where you’re getting your information, but great topic. I needs to spend some time learning much more or understanding more. Thanks for excellent information I was looking for this information for my mission.

  39. forma de financiación por importe

    9 April 2023 at 9:51 am

    It is best to participate in a contest for among the finest blogs on the web. I will suggest this site!

  40. حسين الحثيلي

    10 April 2023 at 5:51 am

    It is perfect time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy. I’ve read this post and if I could I wish to suggest you few interesting things or suggestions. Perhaps you can write next articles referring to this article. I desire to read even more things about it!

  41. وكيل قاطرات مان

    10 April 2023 at 1:00 pm

    I like the valuable info you provide in your articles. I?ll bookmark your blog and check again here frequently. I am quite sure I?ll learn many new stuff right here! Good luck for the next!

  42. best pos system for nail salon

    11 April 2023 at 3:16 am

    excellent put up, very informative. I wonder why the other specialists of this sector don’t realize this. You should continue your writing. I’m confident, you’ve a great readers’ base already!

  43. point of sale systems spa

    11 April 2023 at 9:45 am

    I believe that avoiding ready-made foods may be the first step to lose weight. They will often taste beneficial, but packaged foods have very little vitamins and minerals, making you take more just to have enough strength to get throughout the day. For anyone who is constantly taking in these foods, converting to whole grains and other complex carbohydrates will assist you to have more electricity while eating less. Good blog post.

  44. 에볼루션사이트

    12 April 2023 at 5:07 am

    Generally I do not read post on blogs, however I wish to say that this write-up very pressured me to take a look at and do it! Your writing style has been surprised me. Thank you, quite great post.

  45. 에볼루션사이트

    12 April 2023 at 10:48 am

    Good write-up, I?m normal visitor of one?s site, maintain up the nice operate, and It is going to be a regular visitor for a lengthy time.

  46. Hi, Neat post. There’s a problem with your website in internet explorer, would test this? IE still is the market leader and a huge portion of people will miss your great writing due to this problem.

  47. White label merchant services

    13 May 2023 at 8:00 am

    I?ve learn some good stuff here. Definitely price bookmarking for revisiting. I surprise how a lot effort you place to create one of these wonderful informative web site.

  48. white label payment solutions

    13 May 2023 at 8:48 am

    I acquired more new things on this weight reduction issue. One particular issue is a good nutrition is very vital any time dieting. A tremendous reduction in fast foods, sugary food, fried foods, sweet foods, red meat, and white colored flour products might be necessary. Retaining wastes harmful bacteria, and contaminants may prevent objectives for losing fat. While a number of drugs temporarily solve the issue, the bad side effects are not worth it, plus they never offer more than a momentary solution. This can be a known idea that 95 of fad diets fail. Thanks for sharing your notions on this weblog.

  49. payment processing sales jobs

    15 May 2023 at 10:07 pm

    Thanks for every other great article. Where else may just anyone get that kind of info in such a perfect approach of writing? I’ve a presentation next week, and I’m on the search for such info.

  50. حسين احمد الحثيلي

    25 May 2023 at 5:38 am

    “Your blog is a true source of inspiration. You’re not afraid to tackle difficult topics or challenge conventional wisdom, and that’s what makes your writing so compelling.”

  51. رجل اعمال يمني

    25 May 2023 at 8:36 am

    Your blog is a great resource for anyone looking to learn more about this topic.

  52. مؤسسة كرة القدم

    28 May 2023 at 12:58 am

    I admire the dedication and consistency you bring to your blog.

  53. Solo travel

    6 June 2023 at 4:07 am

    Hmm it looks like your site ate my first comment (it was extremely long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up what I submitted and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog. I as well am an aspiring blog writer but I’m still new to everything. Do you have any tips and hints for rookie blog writers? I’d genuinely appreciate it.

  54. bokep indo

    1 July 2023 at 12:28 am

    I?ll right away take hold of your rss feed as I can’t find your email subscription hyperlink or e-newsletter service. Do you’ve any? Please allow me know so that I could subscribe. Thanks.

  55. vind prednisone zonder voorschrift in Peru

    10 August 2023 at 1:18 am

    I enjoy what you guys tend to be up too. This sort of clever work and coverage!
    Keep up the very good works guys I’ve added you guys to our blogroll.

  56. Kann ich zyrtec ohne Rezept in Brüssel

    10 August 2023 at 11:09 am

    Excellent web site you have here.. It’s difficult to find quality writing like yours
    nowadays. I honestly appreciate individuals like
    you! Take care!!

  57. herplex 800 mg ohne Rezept in Berlin

    13 August 2023 at 8:21 pm

    Hi, I want to subscribe for this website to get most up-to-date updates, therefore where can i do it please help out.

  58. stripper dallas

    15 August 2023 at 11:32 pm

    Hello, i think that i noticed you visited my site so i came to ?go back the want?.I am trying to find things to improve my web site!I guess its good enough to use some of your ideas!!

  59. strippers tampa

    16 August 2023 at 5:20 am

    This is without a doubt one of the finest articles I’ve read on this topic! The author’s comprehensive knowledge and zeal for the subject shine through in every paragraph. I’m so grateful for stumbling upon this piece as it has deepened my understanding and sparked my curiosity even further. Thank you, author, for taking the time to create such a remarkable article!

  60. prix du sildenafil 50 mg au Maroc

    17 August 2023 at 8:00 pm

    Hurrah, that’s what I was seeking for, what a material!
    present here at this webpage, thanks admin of this site.

  61. flavoxate 100 pedido en Buenos Aires

    18 August 2023 at 11:40 am

    Thanks for every other wonderful article. Where else may anybody get that
    type of info in such an ideal manner of writing?
    I have a presentation next week, and I am on the look for such info.

  62. prix du amarel sans ordonnance

    19 August 2023 at 12:35 am

    Attractive part of content. I just stumbled upon your blog and in accession capital to claim that I get in fact enjoyed account your blog posts.

    Any way I will be subscribing to your feeds or even I
    success you get admission to consistently quickly.

  63. Jerrold

    28 August 2023 at 11:10 pm

    Hello there, You have done a fantastic job. I will certainly digg it and personally recommend to my
    friends. I am confident they’ll be benefited from this website.

  64. 출장마사지

    15 September 2023 at 11:32 pm

    I can’t express how much I admire the effort the author has put into writing this remarkable piece of content. The clarity of the writing, the depth of analysis, and the plethora of information presented are simply astonishing. His zeal for the subject is obvious, and it has undoubtedly struck a chord with me. Thank you, author, for offering your wisdom and enlightening our lives with this incredible article!

  65. telegram怎么扫描二维码加好友

    16 September 2023 at 4:19 am

    Thanks for this article. I would also like to convey that it can become hard if you find yourself in school and starting out to create a long credit rating. There are many individuals who are simply trying to live and have a lengthy or positive credit history can be a difficult factor to have.

  66. telegram账号链接

    16 September 2023 at 5:44 am

    I like what you guys are usually up too. This sort of clever work and coverage! Keep up the excellent works guys I’ve incorporated you guys to my blogroll.

  67. white label payment processing

    16 September 2023 at 10:54 pm

    Wonderful blog! I found it while surfing around on Yahoo News. Do you have any suggestions on how to get listed in Yahoo News? I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there! Appreciate it

  68. https://terraroof.kz/

    17 September 2023 at 1:50 am

    Thanks for these pointers. One thing I also believe is credit cards providing a 0 rate often bait consumers together with zero monthly interest, instant acceptance and easy over-the-internet balance transfers, nonetheless beware of the main factor that is going to void that 0 easy neighborhood annual percentage rate and to throw anybody out into the terrible house quickly.

  69. casino utan licens

    17 September 2023 at 12:30 pm

    Hi! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any problems with hackers? My last blog (wordpress) was hacked and I ended up losing a few months of hard work due to no back up. Do you have any solutions to stop hackers?

  70. start a credit card processing company

    17 September 2023 at 4:14 pm

    Helpful information. Lucky me I discovered your website unintentionally, and I’m stunned why this accident didn’t came about earlier! I bookmarked it.

  71. Hey there I am so delighted I found your site, I really found you by error, while I was looking on Askjeeve for something else, Nonetheless I am here now and would just like to say cheers for a incredible post and a all round exciting blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have time to browse it all at the minute but I have book-marked it and also included your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read a great deal more, Please do keep up the fantastic job.

  72. first data ISO Program

    19 September 2023 at 4:51 am

    You must participate in a contest for top-of-the-line blogs on the web. I will recommend this site!

  73. residual income from digital payments

    19 September 2023 at 6:12 am

    You made some first rate points there. I seemed on the internet for the issue and located most individuals will associate with along with your website.

  74. how do I start a credit card processing iso

    20 September 2023 at 9:19 pm

    Thanks for your helpful post. As time passes, I have come to be able to understand that the actual symptoms of mesothelioma are caused by this build up connected fluid involving the lining of the lung and the breasts cavity. The illness may start in the chest location and propagate to other limbs. Other symptoms of pleural mesothelioma include weight loss, severe deep breathing trouble, throwing up, difficulty swallowing, and inflammation of the neck and face areas. It really should be noted that some people existing with the disease never experience any serious signs and symptoms at all.

  75. lipbalm

    21 September 2023 at 3:35 am

    Thanks for enabling me to obtain new tips about computers. I also hold the belief that one of the best ways to keep your mobile computer in perfect condition is a hard plastic material case, or maybe shell, that will fit over the top of one’s computer. A majority of these protective gear are usually model distinct since they are made to fit perfectly across the natural housing. You can buy all of them directly from the owner, or via third party sources if they are for your laptop computer, however only a few laptop could have a spend on the market. Again, thanks for your suggestions.

  76. mini gun lcd infrared massager

    21 September 2023 at 6:16 am

    With havin so much content and articles do you ever run into any problems of plagorism or copyright violation? My blog has a lot of completely unique content I’ve either written myself or outsourced but it appears a lot of it is popping it up all over the internet without my permission. Do you know any solutions to help stop content from being ripped off? I’d definitely appreciate it.

  77. how to start a merchant processing company

    21 September 2023 at 11:28 am

    Have you ever thought about including a little bit more than just your articles? I mean, what you say is important and all. However imagine if you added some great visuals or video clips to give your posts more, “pop”! Your content is excellent but with images and clips, this website could undeniably be one of the greatest in its field. Terrific blog!

  78. start a payment gateway business

    21 September 2023 at 1:22 pm

    I have viewed that smart real estate agents all around you are Advertising. They are acknowledging that it’s more than merely placing a sign post in the front yard. It’s really with regards to building human relationships with these suppliers who someday will become customers. So, when you give your time and energy to helping these sellers go it alone — the “Law involving Reciprocity” kicks in. Great blog post.

  79. IDC connectors

    23 September 2023 at 6:38 pm

    Yet another thing I would like to say is that as an alternative to trying to fit all your online degree training on days of the week that you complete work (because most people are drained when they get home), try to receive most of your instructional classes on the week-ends and only one or two courses on weekdays, even if it means taking some time away from your saturday and sunday. This is fantastic because on the saturdays and sundays, you will be far more rested and also concentrated in school work. Thanks for the different suggestions I have realized from your site.

  80. 代开深圳医院证明

    24 September 2023 at 12:27 pm

    I have discovered some points through your blog post post. One other subject I would like to express is that there are lots of games out there designed mainly for preschool age kids. They involve pattern acceptance, colors, family pets, and forms. These typically focus on familiarization in lieu of memorization. This keeps children engaged without experiencing like they are learning. Thanks

  81. 출장마사지

    24 September 2023 at 2:07 pm

    This article is a true game-changer! Your practical tips and well-thought-out suggestions hold incredible value. I’m eagerly anticipating implementing them. Thank you not only for sharing your expertise but also for making it accessible and easy to apply.

  82. Fortnite cheats

    24 September 2023 at 4:40 pm

    I do agree with all the ideas you have presented in your post. They are really convincing and will certainly work. Still, the posts are very short for starters. Could you please extend them a bit from next time? Thanks for the post.

  83. fortnite aimbot

    24 September 2023 at 8:46 pm

    I really like your blog.. very nice colors & theme. Did you design this website yourself or did you hire someone to do it for you? Plz reply as I’m looking to design my own blog and would like to find out where u got this from. appreciate it

  84. 출장안마

    25 September 2023 at 4:44 pm

    Your storytelling prowess is nothing short of extraordinary. Reading this article felt like embarking on an adventure of its own. The vivid descriptions and engaging narrative transported me, and I eagerly await to see where your next story takes us. Thank you for sharing your experiences in such a captivating manner.

  85. 출장마사지

    25 September 2023 at 5:17 pm

    I am continually impressed by your ability to delve into subjects with grace and clarity. Your articles are both informative and enjoyable to read, a rare combination. Your blog is a valuable resource, and I am sincerely grateful for it.

  86. 출장안마

    25 September 2023 at 7:03 pm

    This article resonated with me on a personal level. Your ability to emotionally connect with your audience is truly commendable. Your words are not only informative but also heartwarming. Thank you for sharing your insights.

  87. starting a payment processing company

    25 September 2023 at 10:19 pm

    Excellent blog! Do you have any helpful hints for aspiring writers? I’m hoping to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything. Would you suggest starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many choices out there that I’m completely confused .. Any suggestions? Kudos!

  88. best white label payment gateway

    26 September 2023 at 1:41 am

    I am not sure where you’re getting your info, but good topic. I needs to spend some time learning more or understanding more. Thanks for fantastic information I was looking for this information for my mission.

  89. White label merchant services

    26 September 2023 at 2:42 am

    Along with everything that appears to be developing within this specific subject matter, a significant percentage of opinions are generally somewhat radical. However, I beg your pardon, because I can not subscribe to your entire strategy, all be it exciting none the less. It looks to me that your comments are not completely justified and in reality you are yourself not totally convinced of your argument. In any event I did appreciate reading it.

  90. 출장안마

    26 September 2023 at 4:14 am

    Your enthusiasm for the subject matter shines through every word of this article; it’s infectious! Your commitment to delivering valuable insights is greatly valued, and I eagerly anticipate more of your captivating content. Keep up the exceptional work!

  91. link bokep

    27 September 2023 at 4:48 am

    There are certainly lots of details like that to take into consideration. That could be a nice level to carry up. I supply the ideas above as normal inspiration however clearly there are questions just like the one you deliver up where the most important thing will be working in trustworthy good faith. I don?t know if greatest practices have emerged around issues like that, however I’m sure that your job is clearly recognized as a fair game. Both girls and boys really feel the influence of just a second?s pleasure, for the rest of their lives.

  92. situs porno

    27 September 2023 at 1:36 pm

    Woah! I’m really loving the template/theme of this website. It’s simple, yet effective. A lot of times it’s difficult to get that “perfect balance” between user friendliness and appearance. I must say that you’ve done a superb job with this. In addition, the blog loads super fast for me on Internet explorer. Outstanding Blog!

  93. 출장안마

    28 September 2023 at 6:16 am

    Your passion and dedication to your craft radiate through every article. Your positive energy is infectious, and it’s evident that you genuinely care about your readers’ experience. Your blog brightens my day!

  94. Marlon Chapman

    28 September 2023 at 7:03 pm

    Your ability to present complex information in an easy-to-understand way is truly remarkable. Thank you!

  95. kontol kuda

    28 September 2023 at 11:17 pm

    This will be a terrific blog, could you be involved in doing an interview about just how you developed it? If so e-mail me!

  96. 출장안마

    29 September 2023 at 3:41 am

    In a world where trustworthy information is more crucial than ever, your dedication to research and the provision of reliable content is truly commendable. Your commitment to accuracy and transparency shines through in every post. Thank you for being a beacon of reliability in the online realm.

  97. situs porno

    29 September 2023 at 4:21 am

    You actually make it appear so easy with your presentation however I in finding this matter to be actually something that I feel I might by no means understand. It sort of feels too complex and extremely huge for me. I am looking forward for your next publish, I?ll attempt to get the dangle of it!

  98. start a merchant services company

    30 September 2023 at 8:15 am

    Thank you a bunch for sharing this with all of us you actually recognise what you are speaking approximately! Bookmarked. Please also seek advice from my site =). We could have a hyperlink alternate contract between us!

  99. nick difrancesco

    1 October 2023 at 10:02 am

    Thanks for the concepts you have contributed here. Additionally, I believe usually there are some factors which will keep your auto insurance premium lower. One is, to think about buying automobiles that are inside good directory of car insurance corporations. Cars which are expensive will be more at risk of being robbed. Aside from that insurance coverage is also in accordance with the value of your vehicle, so the more pricey it is, then higher a premium you only pay.

  100. nick difrancesco

    1 October 2023 at 1:50 pm

    Fantastic site. Lots of helpful info here. I am sending it to several friends ans additionally sharing in delicious. And obviously, thank you for your sweat!

  101. strippers miami

    1 October 2023 at 3:33 pm

    I would like to thank you for the efforts you’ve put in writing this website. I am hoping the same high-grade site post from you in the upcoming also. In fact your creative writing abilities has inspired me to get my own web site now. Actually the blogging is spreading its wings quickly. Your write up is a good example of it.

  102. Broderick Ruiz

    3 October 2023 at 2:04 am

    The nuances you cover are always spot on. Kudos!

  103. starting a credit card processing company

    3 October 2023 at 9:20 am

    I really appreciate this post. I have been looking all over for this! Thank goodness I found it on Bing. You have made my day! Thx again

  104. start a merchant services company

    3 October 2023 at 10:23 am

    Thanks for your publiction. Another item is that just being a photographer involves not only issues in taking award-winning photographs but hardships in establishing the best video camera suited to your needs and most especially hardships in maintaining the standard of your camera. This really is very accurate and evident for those photography lovers that are in to capturing the particular nature’s captivating scenes — the mountains, the forests, the wild or perhaps the seas. Visiting these exciting places certainly requires a digital camera that can surpass the wild’s severe surroundings.

  105. Greetings from Florida! I’m bored to death at work so I decided to check out your website on my iphone during lunch break. I enjoy the info you present here and can’t wait to take a look when I get home. I’m surprised at how fast your blog loaded on my cell phone .. I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyways, awesome site!

  106. 창원출장마사지

    5 October 2023 at 8:57 am

    Your blog is a true gem in the vast expanse of the online world. Your consistent delivery of high-quality content is truly commendable. Thank you for consistently going above and beyond in providing valuable insights. Keep up the fantastic work!

  107. credit card processing business start-up

    5 October 2023 at 11:03 am

    I am curious to find out what blog platform you’re working with? I’m having some minor security problems with my latest website and I would like to find something more secure. Do you have any suggestions?

  108. merchant services business model

    5 October 2023 at 10:57 pm

    of course like your web-site but you need to take a look at the spelling on quite a few of your posts. A number of them are rife with spelling problems and I to find it very troublesome to inform the reality nevertheless I?ll definitely come back again.

  109. modern art prints

    6 October 2023 at 2:32 am

    http://www.bestartdeals.com.au is Australia’s Trusted Online Print Art Gallery. We offer 100 high quality budget canvas prints wall prints online since 2009, Take 30-70 OFF store wide sale, Prints starts $20, FREE Delivery Australia, NZ, USA. We do Worldwide Shipping across 50+ Countries.

  110. Aiyana Petty

    7 October 2023 at 5:26 am

    This is a well-written piece! The author’s skillful writing shines through, making it an enjoyable read.

  111. 출장마사지

    7 October 2023 at 5:41 pm

    Your dedication to sharing knowledge is unmistakable, and your writing style is captivating. Your articles are a pleasure to read, and I consistently come away feeling enriched. Thank you for being a dependable source of inspiration and information.

  112. situs togel online

    8 October 2023 at 3:39 am

    Hey there, You’ve performed an excellent job. I will definitely digg it and in my view suggest to my friends. I’m confident they’ll be benefited from this web site.

  113. how to be a payment processor

    8 October 2023 at 12:20 pm

    Awesome blog! Do you have any suggestions for aspiring writers? I’m planning to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything. Would you advise starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many choices out there that I’m completely overwhelmed .. Any tips? Kudos!

  114. how to start a merchant services business

    9 October 2023 at 1:06 am

    You can definitely see your expertise in the work you write. The world hopes for more passionate writers like you who are not afraid to say how they believe. Always go after your heart.

  115. situs pasti bayar

    9 October 2023 at 4:43 pm

    My brother suggested I might like this web site. He was entirely right. This post actually made my day. You can not imagine simply how much time I had spent for this information! Thanks!

  116. Karli Pineda

    11 October 2023 at 8:22 am

    I must commend you for your in-depth research and insightful writing.

  117. 서귀포출장마사지

    11 October 2023 at 8:00 pm

    Your storytelling prowess is nothing short of extraordinary. Reading this article felt like embarking on an adventure of its own. The vivid descriptions and engaging narrative transported me, and I eagerly await to see where your next story takes us. Thank you for sharing your experiences in such a captivating manner.

  118. mbncard iso agent program

    12 October 2023 at 6:15 pm

    I really like what you guys are up too. Such clever work and coverage! Keep up the terrific works guys I’ve you guys to our blogroll.

  119. Nixie

    14 October 2023 at 9:46 pm

    I’m in awe of the author’s talent to make complicated concepts approachable to readers of all backgrounds. This article is a testament to her expertise and commitment to providing helpful insights. Thank you, author, for creating such an compelling and enlightening piece. It has been an absolute pleasure to read!

  120. Hello! Do you know if they make any plugins to assist with Search Engine Optimization? I’m trying to get my blog to rank for some targeted keywords but I’m not seeing very good results. If you know of any please share. Thanks!

  121. Mummy makeover Perth clinic

    16 October 2023 at 7:01 am

    Yesterday, while I was at work, my cousin stole my apple ipad and tested to see if it can survive a forty foot drop, just so she can be a youtube sensation. My apple ipad is now broken and she has 83 views. I know this is totally off topic but I had to share it with someone!

  122. บาคาร่าทดลอง

    17 October 2023 at 12:45 am

    Thanks , I have recently been searching for information approximately this subject for a while and yours is the greatest I have found out till now. However, what concerning the bottom line? Are you positive in regards to the supply?

  123. purwell cbd

    17 October 2023 at 2:07 pm

    purwell cbd

  124. btyr

    18 October 2023 at 4:59 am

    Thank you for this article. I might also like to mention that it can always be hard when you find yourself in school and starting out to create a long credit score. There are many pupils who are simply trying to live and have a long or positive credit history are often a difficult element to have.

  125. btyr

    18 October 2023 at 6:21 am

    I like what you guys are up too. Such intelligent work and reporting! Carry on the excellent works guys I have incorporated you guys to my blogroll. I think it will improve the value of my site 🙂

  126. Tattoo Removal Uxbridge

    18 October 2023 at 11:58 am

    I just couldn’t depart your site before suggesting that I actually enjoyed the standard information a person provide for your visitors? Is gonna be back often to check up on new posts

  127. btyr

    18 October 2023 at 6:57 pm

    Hello, i believe that i noticed you visited my website thus i got here to ?return the want?.I’m trying to to find things to improve my site!I assume its good enough to make use of a few of your ideas!!

  128. 제주출장마사지

    18 October 2023 at 11:13 pm

    In a world where trustworthy information is more crucial than ever, your dedication to research and the provision of reliable content is truly commendable. Your commitment to accuracy and transparency shines through in every post. Thank you for being a beacon of reliability in the online realm.

  129. 창원출장마사지

    18 October 2023 at 11:18 pm

    Your passion and dedication to your craft radiate through every article. Your positive energy is infectious, and it’s evident that you genuinely care about your readers’ experience. Your blog brightens my day!

  130. 제주출장마사지

    19 October 2023 at 7:57 pm

    I am continually impressed by your ability to delve into subjects with grace and clarity. Your articles are both informative and enjoyable to read, a rare combination. Your blog is a valuable resource, and I am sincerely grateful for it.

  131. 창원출장마사지

    19 October 2023 at 8:09 pm

    This article resonated with me on a personal level. Your ability to emotionally connect with your audience is truly commendable. Your words are not only informative but also heartwarming. Thank you for sharing your insights.

  132. medyum

    19 October 2023 at 10:47 pm

    Merhaba Ben Haluk Hoca, Aslen Irak Asıllı Arap Hüseyin Efendinin Torunuyum. Yaklaşık İse 40 Yıldır Havas Ve Hüddam İlmi Üzerinde Sizlere 100 Sonuç Veren Garantili Çalışmalar Hazırlamaktayım, 1964 Yılında Irak’ın Basra Şehrinde Doğdum, Dedem Arap Hüseyin Efendiden El Aldım Ve Sizlere 1990 lı Yıllardan Bu Yana Medyum Hocalık Konularında Hizmet Veriyorum, 100 Sonuç Vermiş Olduğum Çalışmalar İse, Giden Eşleri Sevgilileri Geri Getirme, Aşk Bağlama, Aşık Etme, Kısmet Açma, Büyü Bozma Konularında Garantili Sonuçlar Veriyorum, Başta Almanya Fransa Hollanda Olmak Üzere Dünyanın Neresinde Olursanız Olun Hiç Çekinmeden Benimle İletişim Kurabilirsiniz.

  133. Almanya medyum arıyorum

    20 October 2023 at 12:43 pm

    Almanya’nın en iyi güvenilir medyumunun tüm sosyal medya hesaplarını sizlere paylaşıyoruz, güvenin ve kalitelin tek adresi olan medyum haluk hoca 40 yıllık uzmanlığı ile sizlerle.

  134. canvas photo prints

    20 October 2023 at 2:39 pm

    http://www.thebudgetart.com is trusted worldwide canvas wall art prints & handmade canvas paintings online store. Thebudgetart.com offers budget price & high quality artwork, up-to 50 OFF, FREE Shipping USA, AUS, NZ & Worldwide Delivery.

  135. rakyat4d

    20 October 2023 at 9:21 pm

    Thank you a bunch for sharing this with all people you really recognise what you are speaking about! Bookmarked. Kindly additionally visit my site =). We could have a link alternate contract between us!

  136. Almanya medyum

    21 October 2023 at 12:53 am

    Almanya’nın en iyi güvenilir medyumunun tüm sosyal medya hesaplarını sizlere paylaşıyoruz, güvenin ve kalitelin tek adresi olan medyum haluk hoca 40 yıllık uzmanlığı ile sizlerle.

  137. 인천출장마사지

    21 October 2023 at 5:33 pm

    This is the precise blog for anyone who wants to search out out about this topic. You understand a lot its almost onerous to argue with you (not that I truly would want?HaHa). You positively put a new spin on a subject thats been written about for years. Nice stuff, just great!

  138. contemporary art prints

    21 October 2023 at 6:15 pm

    http://www.thebudgetart.com is trusted worldwide canvas wall art prints & handmade canvas paintings online store. Thebudgetart.com offers budget price & high quality artwork, up-to 50 OFF, FREE Shipping USA, AUS, NZ & Worldwide Delivery.

  139. winmacsofts

    22 October 2023 at 1:15 pm

    I have noticed that online degree is getting well-liked because getting your college degree online has changed into a popular method for many people. Numerous people have definitely not had a possibility to attend a normal college or university nevertheless seek the elevated earning potential and career advancement that a Bachelor Degree affords. Still other individuals might have a diploma in one training but would want to pursue something they now have an interest in.

  140. kudapoker

    22 October 2023 at 4:15 pm

    This design is wicked! You obviously know how to keep a reader amused. Between your wit and your videos, I was almost moved to start my own blog (well, almost…HaHa!) Fantastic job. I really loved what you had to say, and more than that, how you presented it. Too cool!

  141. tariffa di lactulose

    17 November 2023 at 2:20 am

    Hi there, everything is going nicely here and ofcourse
    every one is sharing facts, that’s in fact good, keep up writing.

  142. Jeannette

    19 November 2023 at 9:03 am

    Hey! I know this is kind of off topic but I was wondering if you knew where
    I could find a captcha plugin for my comment form?
    I’m using the same blog platform as yours and I’m having difficulty finding one?

    Thanks a lot!

  143. Preise für digox in Marokko

    19 November 2023 at 5:10 pm

    Awesome blog! Is your theme custom made or did you download it from somewhere?

    A design like yours with a few simple tweeks would really
    make my blog shine. Please let me know where you got your design. Thank you

  144. scam company

    26 November 2023 at 6:52 pm

  145. scam company

    1 December 2023 at 9:27 am

  146. scam website

    2 December 2023 at 4:15 pm

  147. white power

    4 December 2023 at 8:51 am

  148. acyclovir 400 sin receta en Luxemburgo

    26 December 2023 at 9:00 pm

    Hi colleagues, how is everything, and what you wish for to say concerning this piece of writing, in my view its truly remarkable in support of me.

  149. Österreich

    27 December 2023 at 9:48 am

    Definitely consider that that you stated. Your favourite reason seemed to be on the internet the simplest factor to take into account of.
    I say to you, I certainly get irked whilst other folks
    think about issues that they just don’t know about.

    You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also outlined out the whole thing without having side-effects , folks can take a
    signal. Will probably be again to get more. Thanks

  150. 서울출장안마

    29 December 2023 at 8:58 pm

    I couldn’t agree more with the insightful points you’ve made in this article. Your depth of knowledge on the subject is evident, and your unique perspective adds an invaluable layer to the discussion. This is a must-read for anyone interested in this topic.

  151. 출장샵

    29 December 2023 at 9:08 pm

    Your positivity and enthusiasm are undeniably contagious! This article brightened my day and left me feeling inspired. Thank you for sharing your uplifting message and spreading positivity among your readers.

  152. 인천출장샵

    29 December 2023 at 9:17 pm

    I must commend your talent for simplifying complex topics. Your ability to convey intricate ideas in such a relatable way is admirable. You’ve made learning enjoyable and accessible for many, and I appreciate that.

  153. 인천출장샵

    30 December 2023 at 7:47 am

    I couldn’t agree more with the insightful points you’ve articulated in this article. Your profound knowledge on the subject is evident, and your unique perspective adds an invaluable dimension to the discourse. This is a must-read for anyone interested in this topic.

  154. 인천출장안마

    30 December 2023 at 8:00 am

    Your blog is a true gem in the vast online world. Your consistent delivery of high-quality content is admirable. Thank you for always going above and beyond in providing valuable insights. Keep up the fantastic work!

  155. 출장안마

    30 December 2023 at 8:01 am

    This article is a true game-changer! Your practical tips and well-thought-out suggestions hold incredible value. I’m eagerly anticipating implementing them. Thank you not only for sharing your expertise but also for making it accessible and easy to apply.

  156. 서울출장안마

    30 December 2023 at 8:16 am

    Your writing style effortlessly draws me in, and I find it difficult to stop reading until I reach the end of your articles. Your ability to make complex subjects engaging is a true gift. Thank you for sharing your expertise!

  157. 출장안마

    30 December 2023 at 2:44 pm

    I’ve discovered a treasure trove of knowledge in your blog. Your unwavering dedication to offering trustworthy information is truly commendable. Each visit leaves me more enlightened, and I deeply appreciate your consistent reliability.

  158. 서울출장마사지

    31 December 2023 at 1:24 pm

    I can’t help but be impressed by the way you break down complex concepts into easy-to-digest information. Your writing style is not only informative but also engaging, which makes the learning experience enjoyable and memorable. It’s evident that you have a passion for sharing your knowledge, and I’m grateful for that.

  159. fantastic put up, very informative. I ponder why the opposite experts of this sector do not understand this.
    You must proceed your writing. I’m sure, you have
    a great readers’ base already!

  160. 출장마사지

    1 January 2024 at 10:58 am

    Your passion and dedication to your craft radiate through every article. Your positive energy is infectious, and it’s evident that you genuinely care about your readers’ experience. Your blog brightens my day!

  161. 인천출장안마

    1 January 2024 at 3:45 pm

    Your dedication to sharing knowledge is unmistakable, and your writing style is captivating. Your articles are a pleasure to read, and I consistently come away feeling enriched. Thank you for being a dependable source of inspiration and information.

  162. 서울출장안마

    2 January 2024 at 11:49 pm

    Your blog is a true gem in the vast expanse of the online world. Your consistent delivery of high-quality content is truly commendable. Thank you for consistently going above and beyond in providing valuable insights. Keep up the fantastic work!

  163. 출장안마

    2 January 2024 at 11:56 pm

    Your unique approach to addressing challenging subjects is like a breath of fresh air. Your articles stand out with their clarity and grace, making them a pure joy to read. Your blog has now become my go-to source for insightful content.

  164. 인천출장샵

    3 January 2024 at 1:12 am

    I must applaud your talent for simplifying complex topics. Your ability to convey intricate ideas in such a relatable manner is admirable. You’ve made learning enjoyable and accessible for many, and I deeply appreciate that.

  165. 출장마사지

    3 January 2024 at 10:03 am

    Your passion and dedication to your craft radiate through every article. Your positive energy is infectious, and it’s evident that you genuinely care about your readers’ experience. Your blog brightens my day!

  166. 서울출장마사지

    4 January 2024 at 6:33 am

    Your storytelling abilities are nothing short of incredible. Reading this article felt like embarking on an adventure of its own. The vivid descriptions and engaging narrative transported me, and I can’t wait to see where your next story takes us. Thank you for sharing your experiences in such a captivating way.

  167. 출장마사지

    4 January 2024 at 7:01 am

    I simply wanted to convey how much I’ve gleaned from this article. Your meticulous research and clear explanations make the information accessible to all readers. It’s abundantly clear that you’re committed to providing valuable content.

  168. 인천출장샵

    4 January 2024 at 5:23 pm

    I’m genuinely impressed by how effortlessly you distill intricate concepts into easily digestible information. Your writing style not only imparts knowledge but also engages the reader, making the learning experience both enjoyable and memorable. Your passion for sharing your expertise is unmistakable, and for that, I am deeply appreciative.

  169. 인천출장안마

    4 January 2024 at 5:48 pm

    This article resonated with me on a personal level. Your ability to emotionally connect with your audience is truly commendable. Your words are not only informative but also heartwarming. Thank you for sharing your insights.

  170. 출장안마

    6 January 2024 at 3:55 am

    I must commend your talent for simplifying complex topics. Your ability to convey intricate ideas in such a relatable way is admirable. You’ve made learning enjoyable and accessible for many, and I appreciate that.

  171. 서울출장마사지

    6 January 2024 at 8:50 pm

    Your positivity and enthusiasm are undeniably contagious! This article brightened my day and left me feeling inspired. Thank you for sharing your uplifting message and spreading positivity among your readers.

  172. 출장안마

    6 January 2024 at 9:52 pm

    Your writing style effortlessly draws me in, and I find it nearly impossible to stop reading until I’ve reached the end of your articles. Your ability to make complex subjects engaging is indeed a rare gift. Thank you for sharing your expertise!

  173. 출장안마

    7 January 2024 at 7:08 am

    I wish to express my deep gratitude for this enlightening article. Your distinct perspective and meticulously researched content bring fresh depth to the subject matter. It’s evident that you’ve invested a significant amount of thought into this, and your ability to convey complex ideas in such a clear and understandable manner is truly praiseworthy. Thank you for generously sharing your knowledge and making the learning process so enjoyable.

  174. 출장샵

    7 January 2024 at 8:10 am

    I’m genuinely impressed by how effortlessly you distill intricate concepts into easily digestible information. Your writing style not only imparts knowledge but also engages the reader, making the learning experience both enjoyable and memorable. Your passion for sharing your expertise shines through, and for that, I’m deeply grateful.

  175. 출장샵

    7 January 2024 at 8:33 am

    Your storytelling prowess is nothing short of extraordinary. Reading this article felt like embarking on an adventure of its own. The vivid descriptions and engaging narrative transported me, and I eagerly await to see where your next story takes us. Thank you for sharing your experiences in such a captivating manner.

  176. 인천출장안마

    8 January 2024 at 1:51 am

    Your unique approach to addressing challenging subjects is like a breath of fresh air. Your articles stand out with their clarity and grace, making them a pure joy to read. Your blog has now become my go-to source for insightful content.

  177. 인천출장샵

    8 January 2024 at 12:42 pm

    I’ve discovered a treasure trove of knowledge in your blog. Your unwavering dedication to offering trustworthy information is truly commendable. Each visit leaves me more enlightened, and I deeply appreciate your consistent reliability.

  178. 인천출장샵

    9 January 2024 at 4:06 am

    I’m truly impressed by the way you effortlessly distill intricate concepts into easily digestible information. Your writing style not only imparts knowledge but also engages the reader, making the learning experience both enjoyable and memorable. Your passion for sharing your expertise is unmistakable, and for that, I am deeply grateful.

  179. 서울출장안마

    9 January 2024 at 6:33 am

    Your storytelling abilities are nothing short of incredible. Reading this article felt like embarking on an adventure of its own. The vivid descriptions and engaging narrative transported me, and I can’t wait to see where your next story takes us. Thank you for sharing your experiences in such a captivating way.

  180. Kurt

    13 January 2024 at 11:04 am

    Cool blog! Is your theme custom made or did you download it
    from somewhere? A theme like yours with a few simple tweeks would really make my blog shine.
    Please let me know where you got your theme. Cheers

  181. My developer is trying to persuade me to move to .net from PHP.
    I have always disliked the idea because of the expenses. But he’s tryiong none
    the less. I’ve been using WordPress on numerous websites for about a
    year and am nervous about switching to another
    platform. I have heard very good things about blogengine.net.
    Is there a way I can import all my wordpress posts into it?
    Any help would be greatly appreciated!

  182. Hello would you mind letting me know which hosting company you’re using?
    I’ve loaded your blog in 3 different browsers and I must say this blog loads
    a lot quicker then most. Can you suggest a good internet hosting provider at a reasonable price?
    Thanks, I appreciate it!

  183. I needed to thank you for this wonderful read!! I absolutely enjoyed every little
    bit of it. I have got you book marked to check out new stuff you post…

  184. acheter Terbital livraison rapide

    26 January 2024 at 11:23 pm

    I enjoy what you guys are up too. Such clever work and coverage!
    Keep up the very good works guys I’ve you guys to blogroll.

  185. 출장샵

    1 February 2024 at 4:05 pm

    Your unique approach to addressing challenging subjects is like a breath of fresh air. Your articles stand out with their clarity and grace, making them a pure joy to read. Your blog has now become my go-to source for insightful content.

  186. 서울출장샵

    1 February 2024 at 4:49 pm

    Your unique approach to tackling challenging subjects is a breath of fresh air. Your articles stand out with their clarity and grace, making them a joy to read. Your blog is now my go-to for insightful content.

  187. 서울출장안마

    2 February 2024 at 2:14 am

    I must commend your talent for simplifying complex topics. Your ability to convey intricate ideas in such a relatable way is admirable. You’ve made learning enjoyable and accessible for many, and I appreciate that.

  188. 인천출장샵

    2 February 2024 at 2:42 am

    I’ve discovered a treasure trove of knowledge in your blog. Your unwavering dedication to offering trustworthy information is truly commendable. Each visit leaves me more enlightened, and I deeply appreciate your consistent reliability.

  189. 출장마사지

    2 February 2024 at 3:28 am

    I am continually impressed by your ability to delve into subjects with grace and clarity. Your articles are both informative and enjoyable to read, a rare combination. Your blog is a valuable resource, and I am sincerely grateful for it.

  190. acheter sinepin à Montréal

    6 February 2024 at 4:28 am

    Hi there are using WordPress for your blog platform?

    I’m new to the blog world but I’m trying to get started and create my own. Do you need any html coding expertise
    to make your own blog? Any help would be greatly
    appreciated!

  191. Go To See

    18 February 2024 at 10:37 pm

    Individuals may have biases that influence their value comments. Being aware of personal biases and considering alternative viewpoints can lead to more balanced discussions

  192. 인천출장샵

    24 February 2024 at 2:15 am

    I simply wanted to convey how much I’ve gleaned from this article. Your meticulous research and clear explanations make the information accessible to all readers. It’s abundantly clear that you’re committed to providing valuable content.

  193. Your style is so unique in comparison to other people I have read stuff from.

    Thank you for posting when you’ve got the opportunity, Guess I will just book mark this web site.

  194. Harley

    4 March 2024 at 3:35 pm

    Hello everyone, it’s my first pay a quick visit at this web site,
    and piece of writing is really fruitful in support of me, keep up posting these articles or reviews.

  195. 출장샵

    13 March 2024 at 4:57 pm

    Your blog is a true gem in the vast online world. Your consistent delivery of high-quality content is admirable. Thank you for always going above and beyond in providing valuable insights. Keep up the fantastic work!

  196. 서울출장안마

    14 March 2024 at 1:18 am

    In a world where trustworthy information is more crucial than ever, your dedication to research and the provision of reliable content is truly commendable. Your commitment to accuracy and transparency shines through in every post. Thank you for being a beacon of reliability in the online realm.

  197. 출장안마

    14 March 2024 at 3:14 am

    Your writing style effortlessly draws me in, and I find it nearly impossible to stop reading until I’ve reached the end of your articles. Your ability to make complex subjects engaging is indeed a rare gift. Thank you for sharing your expertise!

  198. 인천출장마사지

    14 March 2024 at 3:55 am

    This article resonated with me on a personal level. Your ability to connect with your audience emotionally is commendable. Your words are not only informative but also heartwarming. Thank you for sharing your insights.

  199. 서울출장마사지

    15 March 2024 at 1:43 am

    Your dedication to sharing knowledge is unmistakable, and your writing style is captivating. Your articles are a pleasure to read, and I consistently come away feeling enriched. Thank you for being a dependable source of inspiration and information.

  200. 인천출장마사지

    15 March 2024 at 4:16 am

    Your dedication to sharing knowledge is unmistakable, and your writing style is captivating. Your articles are a pleasure to read, and I consistently come away feeling enriched. Thank you for being a dependable source of inspiration and information.

  201. 출장샵

    15 March 2024 at 5:01 am

    I wish to express my deep gratitude for this enlightening article. Your distinct perspective and meticulously researched content bring fresh depth to the subject matter. It’s evident that you’ve invested a significant amount of thought into this, and your ability to convey complex ideas in such a clear and understandable manner is truly praiseworthy. Thank you for generously sharing your knowledge and making the learning process so enjoyable.

  202. 출장샵

    15 March 2024 at 4:17 pm

    This article resonated with me on a personal level. Your ability to connect with your audience emotionally is commendable. Your words are not only informative but also heartwarming. Thank you for sharing your insights.

  203. ранферон для детей

    28 March 2024 at 1:36 am

    I needed to thank you for this great read!! I absolutely loved every little bit of it.
    I have got you book-marked to check out new things you post…

  204. raloxifene bestellen

    28 March 2024 at 12:03 pm

    Terrific article! That is the type of information that are supposed to
    be shared around the net. Disgrace on Google for no longer positioning
    this publish upper! Come on over and consult with my
    website . Thank you =)

  205. ¿dónde comprar adapalene en Bélgica?

    10 April 2024 at 3:35 pm

    My family members every time say that I am killing my time here at net, but I know I am getting knowledge
    every day by reading such fastidious posts.

  206. In fact no matter if someone doesn’t understand afterward its up to other people that they will help, so here it happens.

  207. Einfach xetin in Europa kaufen

    20 April 2024 at 12:26 am

    Very nice article. I definitely appreciate this site.
    Keep writing!

  208. I am really enjoying the theme/design of your website. Do you ever run into any internet browser compatibility issues?
    A handful of my blog visitors have complained about my
    blog not operating correctly in Explorer but looks great in Chrome.
    Do you have any tips to help fix this problem?

  209. Vanessa

    26 April 2024 at 11:29 pm

    Hi, yes this article is really nice and I have learned lot
    of things from it about blogging. thanks.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Σχέσεις

Όσο αφήνεις το παρελθόν να σε στοιχειώνει, τόσο λιγότερο θα απολαμβάνεις τη ζωή σου

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

Όταν σκεφτόμαστε συνεχώς πράγματα από το παρελθόν μας, είτε αναπολώντας τα, είτε αναθεωρώντας τα, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε μία παγίδα που μας κρατάει πίσω. Δεν δίνουμε αξία στο παρόν μας και έτσι δεν μπορούμε να χαρούμε τις εμπειρίες που βιώνουμε καθημερινά.

Η ζωή δεν είναι ένα ημερολόγιο γεγονότων που χρειάζεται ξεφύλλισμα από έναν παθητικό αναγνώστη, αλλά μία αρένα δραστηριοτήτων που πάντα έχει κάτι να μας τραβήξει το ενδιαφέρον. Το βέλος της ζωής δεν δείχνει ποτέ προς τα πίσω, δείχνει πάντα μπροστά.Έτσι, είναι ανώφελο κάποιος να κολλάει τη σκέψη του στο παρελθόν ή στο μέλλον σα να μην υπάρχει το “εδώ” και το “τώρα”.

Φυσικά, οι αναμνήσεις είναι εγγενές μέρος της ζωής και συχνά αναπόφευκτες. Είναι ένας τρόπος να μένουμε κοντά στα πρόσωπα που αγαπάμε και σε όσα είμαστε παθιασμένοι. Είναι το συστατικό της προσωπικής μας ταυτότητας και του χαρακτήρα μας. Είναι οι ρίζες βαθιά μέσα στον πυρήνα του εαυτού μας.

“Τό χθες δεν είναι τίποτα περισσότερο από την ανάμνηση του σήμερα, και τo αύριο, τo όνειρο του σήμερα”

-Kahlil Gibran-

Οι μνήμες είναι συχνά κάτι το απατηλό μιας και είναι φτιατσιδωμένες από τα γεγονότα του παρόντος και έτσι πέφτουν στη φάκα του νου. Η διαφορά ανάμεσα στις ψεύτικες και τις γνήσιες αναμνήσεις μοιάζει με τον τρόπο που ξεχωρίζουν τα φο-μπιζού από τα πραγματικά κοσμήματα, τα φο-μπιζού μοιάζουν αληθινά επειδή αστράφτουν πιο έντονα.

Η μνήμη μοιάζει με ένα όχι τόσο έξυπνο σκύλο που όταν του πετάξεις ένα ραβδί θα σου φέρει ένα διαφορετικό που βρίσκεται πιο δίπλα.

“Να ζείτε την κάθε μέρα της ζωής σας”

Η ζωή θα ήταν αδύνατη αν θυμόμασταν όλα όσα μας έχουν συμβεί

Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

Πηγές: share24.gr / Spirit Alive 
Εικόνα: Johnny Palacios Hidalgo paint
What’s your Reaction?
+1
1
+1
1
+1
1
+1
0
+1
1
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Continue Reading

Σχέσεις

Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

What’s your Reaction?
+1
1
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Continue Reading

Σχέσεις

Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

Πηγή: have2read
What’s your Reaction?
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Continue Reading

Trending