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Το πιο επικίνδυνο και μάλλον πιο βάναυσο συναίσθημα απ’ όλα, είναι το ίδιο το συναίσθημα. Η αίσθηση πως είτε η παρουσία είτε η απουσία αυτού μπορεί να σε συνθλίψει. Βέβαια, υπάρχουν πολλών ειδών συναισθήματα, γι’ αυτό και μπορείς και να διαλέξεις. Τι θέλεις να κρατάς, τι επιθυμείς να έχεις.

Κανείς, παρ’ όλα αυτά, δε σου υπόσχεται πως θα σου βγουν κι έτσι. Ας πούμε, κανένας δεν πρόκειται να σου εγγυηθεί πως τη στιγμή εκείνη, της επιθυμίας σου, θα είναι σε θέση να σου την πραγματώσει. Με άλλα λόγια, δε γνωρίζεις ποτέ αν οι επιθυμίες σου θα υπάρξουν ταυτόχρονες μ’ εκείνου που είναι κάθε φορά να τις ταιριάξεις.

Γι’ αυτό και παρά τις επιλογές σου, πάντα το συμπέρασμα καταλήγει στο εξής· τα καλύτερα συναισθήματα είναι τα ταυτόχρονα. Αυτά που ταυτόχρονα γεννιούνται κι ούτε χρειάζεται να τ’ αφήσεις πολύ για να σε φτάσουν. Ούτε, βέβαια, πολύ για να τα φτάσεις. Αυτά δεν είναι πράγματα όμορφα ούτε λογικά.

Είναι, ας πούμε, περιπαίγματα. Καρικατούρες και σχεδόν αλήθειες. Σχεδόν ολόκληρα και σχεδόν ατόφια. Είναι επικίνδυνα· καλύτερα να μην τ’ αγγίξεις. Κι αν, πάλι, τ’ αγγίξεις, θα νιώσεις την απόσταση  να σε κατατρώει σε χρόνο κι ουσία.

Γιατί αλλιώς τρέχει ο χρόνος για κείνον που πρώτος νιώθει. Πιο αργά. Πιο ταλαίπωρα. Πώς να πειστείς μετά πως σ’ αγαπάνε; Τέτοια μεγαλεπήβολα αισθήματα είναι για ν’ ανήκουν μόνο στο εδώ και το τώρα.

Το «θα» προϋποθέτει από μόνο του προοπτική και -πιθανόν- υπόσχεση. Οι υποσχέσεις ματαιώνονται. Το «θα» και το «Σ’ αγαπώ», επομένως, είναι από μόνα τους νοηματικά αταίριαστα, αν το θες πραγματικά να το πεις και να το εννοείς.

Να σ’ αγαπάει τώρα, για να σ’ αγαπάει και μετά. Έτσι πάνε τα πράγματα. Αν δεν είσαι σίγουρος για το κάθε πότε ή πόσο αγαπάς, δεν αγαπάς. Οι έρωτες είναι πυροτεχνήματα. Είναι τυχαίοι, συχνά μοιραίοι κι έχουν στενή σχέση με τον χρόνο.

Δεν κρίνονται πάντα κι απαραίτητα απ’ αυτόν, όμως σίγουρα απ’ αυτόν γεννιούνται. Τη στιγμή που βρίσκεις έναν, τρελό και παλαβό σαν κι εσένα και μαζί αποφασίζετε να δοκιμαστείτε. Τη στιγμή που είσαι διαθέσιμος κι έτοιμος να πεις «Το θέλω, το χρειάζομαι και το μπορώ».

Αν δεν το νιώθεις τώρα, δε θα νιώσεις. Μπορείς να περιμένεις όσο θες μα δε θα νιώσεις. Ούτε για σένα θα νιώσουν. Και πάλι όμως, μπορείς να περιμένεις. Άδικο, αν με ρωτάς. Τι να περιμένεις; Να σ’ αγαπήσουν; Δεν τους κάνεις τώρα;

Κι ίσως είναι κρίμα για εκείνους μα δεν πρόκειται ν’ αλλάξεις. Ίσα-ίσα θα γίνεσαι ολοένα και πιο φορτικός. Θα κουράζεις και θα κουράζεσαι που θα ζητάς πιο πολλά και κάπου-κάπου ακόμα περισσότερα. Κι αν είσαι εσύ ο άνιωθος, θα σε κουράζουν.

Μπορεί, μάλιστα, να νιώθεις και τύψεις. Τύψεις που δεν μπορείς να νιώσεις ή να δώσεις παραπάνω. Τύψεις που σου δίνουν και δεν μπορείς να ανταποδώσεις. Κι αυτό άδικο είναι. Αυτά δεν είναι γραμμένα να γίνονται έτσι.

Το συναίσθημα θα πρέπει να είναι τέτοιο που θα είναι αδύνατο να το συγκρατήσεις. Ή μάλλον τέτοιο που δε θα μπορείς καν να το κρατήσεις. Γι’ αυτό, λοιπόν και θα ‘ναι αναγκαίο να το δώσεις. Να το μοιραστείς. Να το μοιραστείς κι ας πάει και στράφι.

Το συναίσθημα θα πρέπει να μοιράζεται ισάριθμα κι ισάξια. Όσο μπορείς, βέβαια, να το μετρήσεις. Κι αν λίγο αγαπάς, λίγη αγάπη σου πρέπει κανονικά να περιμένεις κι αντιστρόφως. Αυτό, φυσικά, δεν έχει καμία σχέση με το πόση αγάπη εσύ επιθυμείς.

Αν χρειαστεί ή μάλλον αν έρθει έτσι που αυτό πρέπει να καθυστερήσει, τότε είναι εκεί που φαίνεται η αρχή του προβλήματος. Δε θα έρθει ποτέ. Γι’ αυτό φύγε, αν είσαι εσύ αυτός που το καθυστερεί. Αν, πάλι, είσαι αυτός που περιμένει, πάλι φύγε.

Φύγε γιατί είναι κρίμα, τσάμπα να περιμένεις. Φύγε κι εν καιρώ θα δεις πως είναι άλλα τα συναισθήματα που σου αρμόζουν. Ηλιόλουστα, πολύχρωμα, εκτυφλωτικά. Αν εις γνώσιν σου αργοπορείς, τότε φύγε, άλλον να μη βλάψεις περισσότερο.

Γι’ άλλα ήρθε κι άλλα του αξίζουν να του δώσεις. Αυτό να θυμάσαι. Για τι ήρθες και τι πήρες. Τι σου ζητάνε και τι δίνεις. Ανταλλαγή είναι όλα. Ανταλλακτικοί είμαστε κι εμείς.

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“Τό χθες δεν είναι τίποτα περισσότερο από την ανάμνηση του σήμερα, και τo αύριο, τo όνειρο του σήμερα”

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Οι μνήμες είναι συχνά κάτι το απατηλό μιας και είναι φτιατσιδωμένες από τα γεγονότα του παρόντος και έτσι πέφτουν στη φάκα του νου. Η διαφορά ανάμεσα στις ψεύτικες και τις γνήσιες αναμνήσεις μοιάζει με τον τρόπο που ξεχωρίζουν τα φο-μπιζού από τα πραγματικά κοσμήματα, τα φο-μπιζού μοιάζουν αληθινά επειδή αστράφτουν πιο έντονα.

Η μνήμη μοιάζει με ένα όχι τόσο έξυπνο σκύλο που όταν του πετάξεις ένα ραβδί θα σου φέρει ένα διαφορετικό που βρίσκεται πιο δίπλα.

“Να ζείτε την κάθε μέρα της ζωής σας”

Η ζωή θα ήταν αδύνατη αν θυμόμασταν όλα όσα μας έχουν συμβεί

Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

Πηγές: share24.gr / Spirit Alive 
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Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

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Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

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Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

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Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

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