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Άλλες χρονιές, παραμονές της Παναγιάς, ανεβαίναμε κι ανοίγαμε το μικρό εκκλησάκι στο βουνό.
Γιόρταζε η Χάρη της κι όφειλε να είναι καθαρή και στολισμένη.
Όχι, βέβαια, ότι χρειαζόταν τίποτα ιδιαίτερο, έτσι όπως έστεκε από χρόνια ανάμεσα στις βελανιδιές και τα έλατα.
Χωμένη κάπου στα δάση του Πωγωνίου, η Παναγιά μας ήθελε μόνο λαδάκι στα καντήλια της, τρίψιμο στα μανουάλια της κι ένα άσπρισμα στην αυλή.
Θυμάμαι ανεβαίναμε με το που έπεφτε ο πολύς ο ήλιος, το απόγευμα. Δέκα ή και παραπάνω γυναίκες και παιδιά, με τα πόδια στα φιδογυριστό μονοπάτι.
Μια κρατούσε το λάδι, άλλη τα πανιά, τρίτη τον ασβέστη.
Εμείς τα παιδιά προπορευόμασταν. Μια φορά το δρομολόγιο οι μανάδες, δύο εμείς. Μπρος και πίσω. Ή και παραπάνω.
Και δε συγκρίνονταν με τίποτα η αίσθηση του μικρού πέτρινου όγκου να προβάλλει από μια γωνιά του ματιού μας στο τέλος του ανηφορικού μονοπατιού.
Η Παναγιά πάντα μάς περίμενε στη θέση της.
Τα παιδιά φιλούσαμε γρήγορα την εικόνα, κάναμε τρεις φορές το σταυρό μας και ξαμολιόμασταν στις βελανιδιές για παιχνίδι.
Οι μανάδες σήκωναν τα μανίκια κι αρχινούσαν τις δουλειές. Πρώτα το καθάρισμα, να λάμψει η Μάνα τη μέρα της γιορτής της κι ύστερα το μαγείρεμα.
Τεράστια τσουκάλια στήνονταν για να ταΐσουν τον κόσμο. Τα πρόσφερε η Αδερφότητα του χωριού για όσους θα ανέβαιναν να προσκυνήσουν ανήμερα Δεκαπενταύγουστο την εικόνα της.
Ζυγούρι βουνίσιο με κοφτό, για να ψυχοπιαστεί ο κόσμος μετά τη νηστεία.
Γιατί εκείνες τις εποχές, τις όχι και τόσο μακρινές ημερολογιακά αλλά έτη φωτός πίσω στην ψυχή, ο κόσμος την τιμούσε τη νηστεία της Παναγιάς.
Ζυγούρι με κοφτό, λοιπόν. Κι ό,τι άλλο έφερνε η κάθε οικογένεια από το σπίτι της: Λογής ηπειρώτικες πίτες και τσίπουρο.
Τελειώνοντας τις δουλειές της Παραμονής δεν κατεβαίναμε στο χωριό. Μέναμε και κοιμόμασταν στην αυλή της εκκλησίας. Όχι, βέβαια ότι κοιμόταν και κανείς, αλλά μέναμε εκεί.
Ξενυχτούσαμε την Παναγιά με το κερί. Όπως κάνουν στην Ήπειρο για το νεκρό.
Τιμή στη Χάρη της.
Και τα κατορθώματα της. 
Λέγαμε για τα θαύματα που έκανε η εικόνα της κι ας μην τα έμαθε ποτέ ο πολύς ο κόσμος.
Η προγιαγιά μου θυμάμαι, καλή της ώρα, έλεγε για εκείνο το ζευγάρι που δεν έκανε παιδιά. Και τάξανε το παιδί στη Χάρη της.
Κι εκείνη, Μάνα στοργική όλων, κάρπισε τα σπλάχνα της γυναίκας.
Κι εκείνο το παιδί που δυσκολευόταν να μιλήσει, εκείνη του έδωσε πίσω τη φωνή του.
Πάντα για τα παιδιά.
Πάντα άκουγε τον πόνο των μανάδων κι εκείνη, η Υπέρτατη Μάνα, έκανε το θαύμα της.
Ξημέρωνε Δεκαπενταύγουστος κι ήμασταν στο πόδι.
Στα πρώτα λόγια του παπά ήμασταν στη θέση μας. Καθαροί και ντυμένοι στα καλά μας, που είχαμε κουβαλήσει από την προηγούμενη.
Κι έφτανε κόσμος πολύς. Και δε χωρούσαν όλοι στο μικρό ξωκλήσι. Έμπαινε κόσμος, προσκύναγε κι έβγαινε για να μπει κι άλλος. Όλοι να την τιμήσουν.
Κι οι γυναίκες κερνούσαν πίτες και γλυκά, φτιαγμένα από τα χέρια τους. Κι ο κόσμος στρώνονταν στις πλαγιές και στα πέτρινα καθίσματα και τραπέζια, που για μένα ήταν από πάντα εκεί. Και για τη μάνα και για τη γιαγιά μου. Κι αν ρωτούσες την προγιαγιά, θα σου έλεγε πως κι αυτή δε θυμόταν πότε φτιάχτηκαν.
Το ξέφωτο με τα πέτρινα καθίσματα δίπλα στο ξωκλήσι γέμιζε κόσμο που έτρωγε κι έπινε. Κι έκαναν την εικόνα περιφορά με τα κλαρίνα για να μαζέψουν προσφορές για την εκκλησιά. Παλιό το κτίσμα, ολοένα και κάτι χρειαζόταν. Κι ο κόσμος δεν τα τσιγκουνεύτηκε ποτέ.
Ξέρεις, αναπολώ συχνά αυτές τις εποχές.
Τις χάσαμε κάπου και δεν έπρεπε.
Ίσως επειδή δοκιμάστηκε η πίστη μας. Ίσως γιατί απορροφηθήκαμε με άλλα, που κρίναμε πιο σημαντικά, πιο απαραίτητα, πιο κρίσιμα.
Μη με ρωτάς, δεν ξέρω να σου πω.
Το μόνο που ξέρω, είναι πως από τότε, κοιμήθηκα σε λογής ξενοδοχεία και μαλακότερο κρεβάτι από τις πλάκες στο ξωκλήσι δε βρήκα.
Κι ίσως εκεί να κρύβεται και η ευτυχία που ψάχνουμε διακαώς μα πάντα μας ξεφεύγει. Στα απλά, τα ταπεινά των παιδικών μας χρόνων.
Κάπου εκεί βρίσκεται και η πίστη μας. Όχι μόνο στο Θεό. Άλλωστε ο καθένας μπορεί να πιστεύει όπου θέλει ελεύθερα.
Το τι γαληνεύει το μέσα του, δεν μπορεί να του το υπαγορεύσει κανείς…
Όχι, λοιπόν, η πίστη στο Θεό, αλλά σε μας τους ίδιους.
Πορευόμαστε, σκοντάφτουμε και πέφτουμε στο χώμα. Και πονάμε και υποφέρουμε. Και χάνουμε κι απελπιζόμαστε.
Γιατί μάλλον πια δεν πιστεύουμε στον εαυτό μας. Δεν πιστεύουμε στα θαύματα που μπορούμε οι ίδιο να προκαλέσουμε.
Πίστη, θαύμα, βοήθεια.
Σε ένα Υπέρτατο Ον, στη ζωή, στον εαυτό μας.
Δεν αλλάζει τίποτα. Μόνο το πρόσωπο…
Γι’αυτό και λέω πως έχουμε βαθιά ανάγκη να πιστέψουμε οι άνθρωποι.
Πρώτα και κύρια σε μας. Κι ύστερα, όπου αλλού μας υπαγορεύει η συνείδηση μας.
Κι αυτά τα θραύσματα αναμνήσεων, οι σελίδες από την προσωπική μας ιστορία, δεν είναι άλλο από στηρίγματα για να διεκδικήσουμε ακριβώς αυτό:
Μια ζωή που μας γέμιζε και κάπου στη στροφή τη χάσαμε.
Ίσως να γίνει το θαύμα και να την ξαναβρούμε…
Δεν ξέρετε πόσο πολύ το εύχομαι. Και για μένα μα και για όλους εσάς.
Καλή Παναγιά να έχουμε…

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Μηχανολόγος Μηχανικός Ε.Μ.Π για τον μπαμπά, καλλιτέχνις για την ηρεμία της ψυχής της. Πνεύμα ανήσυχο και βαθιά συναισθηματικό. Πιστεύει στην καλή πλευρά των ανθρώπων κι ας την πατάει συχνά πυκνά. Κάθε της σκέψη, όνειρο κι ελπίδα τα μετουσιώνει σε λέξεις από τότε που έπιασε πρώτη φορά μολύβι στα χέρια της. Θα τη δεις να χορεύει όπου σταθεί κι όπου βρεθεί, να σκαρφίζεται από το πουθενά ιστορίες και να ονειρεύεται… Κι αποδείχτηκε πως δίκαια πιστεύει ότι τα όνειρα, όπως κι ο έρωτας, πάντα βρίσκουν το δρόμο τους. Λίγο μετά τα τριάντα, μπορεί να καμαρώνει πως κάτι κατάφερε από όσα τόλμησε να ονειρευτεί: Επιμελήτρια εκδόσεων, συγγραφέας και τυχερή κόρη, αδερφή και σύζυγος. Moto της; Όλα γίνονται αρκεί να τα πιστέψεις και να παλέψεις γι’αυτά.

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«Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».
Πόσο εύκολα έχουν ειπωθεί αυτές οι λέξεις. Πόσο μελάνι δεν χύθηκε, πόσες συζητήσεις έμειναν στη μέση μόνο και μόνο γιατί το συμπέρασμα ήταν το εξής ένα. «Όλοι μαλάκες είναι».

Συμφωνώ, υπάρχουν πολλών ειδών «μαλάκες». Αν, όμως, εσύ δεν μπορείς να ξεχωρίσεις το αγόρι απʾ τον άντρα, και τον άντρα απʾ το αρσενικό δε σου φταίει κανένας, είναι δικό σου θέμα και καθόλου δεν με ενδιαφέρει.

Κρύβεσαι πίσω από δύο αποσιωπητικά, βουτηγμένη μέσα στο δήθεν φεμινισμό σου και δεν καταλαβαίνεις πως ουσιαστικά κάνεις ζημιά μόνο σε εσένα.

Το αγόρι, ο άντρας ή το αρσενικό (αν και τα δυο τελευταία έχουν λίγο μπερδεμένο νόημα) υπάρχει πιθανότητα να μην πάψει ποτέ να έχει αυτή του την ιδιότητα μέχρι τέλους.

Υπάρχει, όμως, καλή μου, μια κατηγορία αγοριών τα οποία «μυρίζουν» από μακριά πως όταν τα μαλλιά τους ασπρίσουν, θα έχουν αποδείξει ότι είναι αρσενικά (κρατώντας το «αρσενικά» ως τον υπέρτατο χαρακτηρισμό σʾ έναν άντρα).
Θα ωριμάσει μέσα από τον αυτοσαρκασμό του και θα βάλει την εκτίμηση που έχει στη γυναίκα δίπλα του πάνω απʾ όλα.

Είναι αυτός ο άντρας που θα ήθελες να δεις δίπλα στην κόρη σου, εκείνος στον οποίο θα ήθελες να μοιάσει ο γιος σου.

Είναι αυτός που θα καταφέρει να σʾ ανεβάσει ψηλά χωρίς να έχει μπράτσα και κοιλιακούς. Ξέρει να ξεχωρίσει το γυναικάκι απʾ την γυναίκα και θα διυλίσει την κάθε σου ματιά.

Ξέρει τι θα πει ευγένεια, εκτίμηση και θα στη δείξει ακόμα και στον τρόπο που περπατάει δίπλα σου ή στον τρόπο που μιλάει για εσένα στους φίλους του.

Δεν πιστεύω να νομίζετε πως ακόμα κι αυτός ο τύπος άντρα δε θα κοιτάξει άλλη γυναίκα.
Φυσικά και θα κοιτάξει, μα το νόημα δεν είναι τι θα κοιτάξει, αλλά πού θα καταλήξει τελικά το βλέμμα του, γιατί πολύ απλά εκείνο ανήκει μόνο σʾ εσένα.

Τα υπόλοιπα απλά τα προσπερνά σαν την πρώτη ματιά που ρίχνει μπαίνοντας σʾ ένα bar προσπαθώντας να βρει ένα κενό τραπέζι να κάτσετε.
Αυτό είσαι για εκείνον, η ξεχωριστή, μοναδική γωνιά, το μοναδικό τραπέζι που ψάχνει να βρει για νʾ αράξει.

Για τον πραγματικό άντρα, το «σʾ ευχαριστώ» και το «συγγνώμη» είναι ένα σύνολο γραμμάτων τα οποία με μεγάλη ευκολία θα τα συντάξει στη σωστή σειρά, για να τους αποδώσει τις τιμές που τους αναλογούν και μαζί μʾ αυτά και σε εσένα.

Την αποδοχή σου την έχει γραμμένη στα παλαιότερα των υποδημάτων του, μιας κι αυτό που αναζητά είναι η εκτίμηση κι ο σεβασμός σου.
Θα αποζητήσει σʾ εσένα τη γνώμη σου, την άποψή σου κι όχι ένα κοριτσάκι που θα του ψελλίζει συνεχόμενα, φοβισμένα «ναι».

Απλώνει το χέρι του να σε κρατήσει, έτσι απλά, επειδή είναι ικανός να κάνει το απλό, σημαντικό.

Είσαι η ιδανική για εκείνον, όχι επειδή συμμορφώνεσαι με κάποια πρότυπα, αλλά επειδή δεν τον ενδιαφέρει το ιδανικό και δεν το ψάχνει. Ξέρει τον τρόπο να σε κάνει να νιώσεις ιδανική για εκείνον κι αυτό του αρκεί.

Είναι ο άντρας που δεν είναι όμορφος, αλλά θα σου αποδεικνύει καθημερινά πως μοναδικός σκοπός του είναι το να νιώθει όμορφος στα μάτια σου.

Ξέρει να ηγηθεί, και μέσα απʾ την ηγετική του υπόσταση θα καλύψει όλες σου τις ανασφάλειες, την ίδια στιγμή που στα μάτια σου θα αναζητά εκείνη που θα μείνει στα δύσκολα χωρίς πολλές φαμφάρες.

Να ξέρεις πως τα λόγια του είναι οι πράξεις του, αλλά ακόμα κι όταν τα χρησιμοποιεί, το κάνει για να μην ξεχνιέσαι, γιατί ξεχνιέστε, αγαπητή μου.

Είναι εκείνος που στο άκουσμά του θα ριγήσεις από πόθο, θα σε κάνει να τον ποθήσεις παίζοντας με το μυαλό σου κι όχι με το κορμί σου.

Στο τέλος της ημέρας, στο κρεβάτι σου, θα είναι αυτός που, κλείνοντας τα μάτια σου δίπλα του, θα σε κάνει να χαμογελάσεις με την εικόνα ενός γέρου γκριζομάλλη που σε πλησιάζει από πίσω κουτσαίνοντας, και σε παίρνει αγκαλιά, την ίδια στιγμή που φιλά τον ρυτιδιασμένο σου λαιμό.

Αυτός ο ίδιος που το πρωί δε θα ξεχάσεις ποτέ να τον αποχαιρετήσεις με μια καλημέρα και ένα φιλί.

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Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους.

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Της Ανθής Κατερίνη.

Αποκτάς μεγαλύτερη αγάπη για τους άλλους όταν αρχίζεις να φροντίζεις τον εαυτό σου. Εάν θέλεις να τους αγαπήσεις και δεν μπορείς να το εκφράσεις, η ίδια αυτή δυσκολία υπάρχει στην σχέση σου με τον εαυτό σου. Και αν σήμερα θέλεις να τους πεις πόσο όμορφοι είναι, είναι γιατί τα λόγια και οι πράξεις σου δεν κατευθύνονται εχθρικά προς τον εαυτό σου όπως χθες. Από τις σωστές για σένα επιλογές απορρέει από μέσα σου η επιθυμία να σου πεις μπράβο και έτσι καταλήγεις να επιβραβεύεις την ύπαρξη των άλλων που υπάρχουν εκεί και στέκουν τόσο όμορφοι. Με ιδιαίτερη ομορφιά, με την φιλικότητα και τον αυθορμητισμό τους, με την επιμονή και την εργατικότητά τους, με το άγχος τους, με την ντροπαλότητά τους. Όλοι βλέπεις σου αρέσουν τέτοιες μέρες που έχεις φροντίσει τον εαυτό σου και όλους τους αγαπάς ακόμη και αν είναι τόσο διαφορετικοί μεταξύ τους. Αποτελούν πλευρές του εαυτού σου και τις αποδέχεσαι. Μα εάν κάποια έχεις αποκλείσει από την ταυτότητά σου και δεν την θεωρείς δική σου πλευρά καταβάθος την ζηλεύεις και την αποστρέφεσαι σαν ατελής άνθρωπος που είσαι, που δεν του αρέσει να τον βαραίνει μία αίσθηση κατωτερότητας. Γι’ αυτό δεν πρέπει να φοβάσαι να γίνεις όλα αυτά που έχεις αποκλείσει πως μπορείς να είσαι. Αυτό ήταν μέχρι χτες. Σήμερα μπορείς να επιλέξεις από την αρχή. Μια επιλογή σε κρατά και η ιδέα πως δεν ήταν τέτοια όμορφα πράγματα στο πεδίο των επιλογών σου.
Όσο αγαπάς τον εαυτό σου τόσο θα αγαπάς τους άλλους. Όσο πιο όμορφο σε βρίσκεις τόσο θα βλέπεις ομορφιά στους άλλους.
Σταμάτα τις πράξεις που σε οδηγούνε σε φαύλους κύκλους αρνητικών συναισθημάτων. Αν σε τρέφει αυτή η ρόδα που πάνω της τσουλάς και ταυτόχρονα στην άσφαλτο πατιέσαι, μάθε να μην φοβάσαι να μείνεις εκτεθειμένος με τον πόνο σου, αντί να τον καλύπτεις με σκουπίδια. Μάθε πως όταν σταματήσεις τα εφήμερα παυσίπονα τότε θα σε διδάξει ο πόνος σου. Πρέπει να τον κοιτάξεις και μια φορά στα μάτια. Να μην τον πνίγεις με μία κουβέρτα για να εξαφανιστεί. Αντιθέτως, να καλύψεις εσένα με την κουβέρτα αυτή, να ζεσταθείς και ό, τι άσχημο ,θα δεις, που θα φύγει σαν μικρόβιο που δεν μπόρεσε να επιζήσει μέσα σε έναν οργανισμό που οι στρατιώτες του πολέμησαν με τόλμη και δύναμη για την προστασία του παλατιού τους. Γύμνασε τους πολεμιστές της ψυχής σου και θα γίνεις ο καλύτερος προστάτης του εαυτού σου. Γιατί όσο και να μην θέλουμε να το παραδεχτούμε εάν κατηγορούμε κάποιον για το κακό που μας έκανε, στην πραγματικότητα κατηγορούμε εμάς που μας φερθήκαμε με τέτοια αναισθησία και δεν μας προστατέψαμε όπως μας άξιζε. Και τέτοια ντροπή πώς να την ξεχάσεις; Με το να κάνεις τον εαυτό σου να σε εμπιστευτεί ξανά. Να πιστέψει πως εάν αφεθεί χαλαρός στα χέρια σου δεν θα βρεθεί ξανά στο πάτωμα, αλλά θα είσαι εκεί να τον αφήσεις να πέσει απαλά μέσα στην τρυφερή σου χούφτα.

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Ανθή Κατερίνη

Κάθε φορά που χάνομαι ανάμεσα στον ρεαλισμό και τον ρομαντισμό, στην αισιοδοξία και την απαισιοδοξία παίζω με τις λέξεις για να με ανακαλύψω. Οι σκέψεις μου χορεύουν στάζοντας μελάνι και δεν ξέρεις ποτέ τι θα σχηματίσουν τα βήματά τους. Η αδυναμία μου είναι οι όμορφες ψυχές. Μυρωδιές, μουσικές, εικόνες χρωματίζουν την καθημερινότητα μου. Στόχος μου είναι η αυτοβελτίωση γι’ αυτό συχνά αλλάζω αφήνοντας πίσω ότι στέκεται εμπόδιο ανάμεσα σε μένα και τον εαυτό μου.

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Η Ελλάδα πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.

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Της Δικαίας Μαραβέλια.

Αγαπητέ μου Έλληνα, ξέρεις από τότε που η Ελλαδίτσα μας θυμάται τον εαυτό της, πάντα από κάπου αιμορραγεί.
Τραβάς εσύ από την μια, τραβούν οι υπόλοιποι από την άλλη και τώρα είναι η ώρα που χρειάζεται την καλύτερη περίθαλψη γιατί αιμορραγεί στο κέντρο της.
Οι αξίες μας, ο πολιτισμός μας, η ψυχή μας, εμείς οι ίδιοι αφήσαμε να μας τα πάρουν… και τώρα απαιτείς να στα επιστρέψουν. 
Φοβάσαι να πεις δημόσια, ότι φοβάσαι για τα παιδιά σου;
Ξέρεις φοβάμαι, που φοβάσαι. Φοβάμαι που νομίζεις ότι τα θέματα που απασχολούν ολόκληρο τον πλανήτη δεν σε απασχολούν.
Ναι ζούμε στην πιο ευλογημένη χώρα στο κόσμο, στην χώρα της δημοκρατίας, στην χώρα που κάνουμε ποστ μόνο, τις σοφίες των σοφών μας, χωρίς να γνωρίζουμε το βαθύτερο νόημα τους.
Φοβάμαι… αλλά είμαι αισιόδοξη. Για τα παιδιά ρε, για τα παιδιά μας!

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Δικαία Μαραβέλια

Η Δικαία Μαραβέλια ζει μόνιμα στη Σύμη.
Μεγαλωμένη και κανακεμένη, στα γόνατα του παπά Τάσου, με ιερή στιγμή αυτή που την τάϊζε γλυκό σταφύλι με τόση ευλάβεια, σαν να ήταν κοινωνία.
Τον έβλεπε πάντα να γράφει όταν δεν λειτουργούσε.
Τώρα έφτασε η ώρα να ακολουθήσει τα χνάρια του, συντροφιά με τους αγγέλους της.

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