Connect with us

Σχέσεις

Όταν γυρνάς, τίποτα δεν είναι ίδιο στην ζωή..

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

photo_7280_850561

Υπήρχε πάντα κάτι δελεαστικό στη φυγή. Ελευθερία θαρρώ πως το λένε..  Ίσως γι’ αυτό κι οι άνθρωποι που φεύγουν,  φαντάζουν πάντα πιο δυνατοί από τους υπόλοιπους. Μας τρομοκρατεί το πώς κατάφεραν να κάνουν κουμάντο στο πάθος τους, στην καρδιά τους. Το πώς αντιστάθηκαν στα «μείνε» και πώς κόψανε μαχαίρι την συναισθηματική κλωστή που τους κρατούσε.

Και δεν μιλώ για εκείνους που ξενέρωσαν, τους τέλειωσε ή το σιχάθηκαν το «είναι» μας, βρε αδερφέ. Μιλώ για εκείνους που μέχρι τελευταία στιγμή μας δήλωναν πως μας νοιάζονται, πως κακό δε θέλουν να μας βρει κι άλλα τέτοια όμορφα.

Κι όσο εμείς προσπαθούσαμε να καταλάβουμε πώς γίνεται να σε νοιάζεται κάποιος και να μη βρίσκεται δίπλα σου, όσο εμείς βασανιζόμασταν να διώξουμε την κτητικότητα του έρωτα, να μάθουμε την ανωτερότητα του « σε νοιάζομαι από μακριά» και ν’ αποκτήσουμε το δικό τους θάρρος , εκείνοι αποφάσιζαν να μας αποδείξουν ότι διαθέτουν και θράσος. Πώς; Επέστρεφαν!

Τα comebacks μοιάζουν όμορφα, όταν τα συνοδεύεις με ποπ κορν, πίτσα, Coca Cola και διαρκούν 20 λεπτά το πολύ. Όσο δηλαδή χρειάζεται ένας σκηνοθέτης για να μας τα πλασάρει με δυο ωραίους ηθοποιούς και με τα λόγια που δε θ’ ακούσουμε  ποτέ στην real life.

Γιατί αν υπήρχανε έστω για λίγο αυτά τα αισθήματα που φαίνεται να κατευθύνουν αυτά τα ωραία λόγια της επιστροφής, δε θα ‘φευγες, άνθρωπέ μου. Θα έμενες εδώ να προσπαθείς να κατανοήσεις, να πεις όσα έχεις φυλαγμένα, να βρίσεις, να φωνάξεις, ακόμη και να καταραστείς. Αλλά θα έμενες… Γιατί δε βρίσκεις τίποτα δυνατό στο να φύγεις. Γιατί μακριά από τον άνθρωπό σου η φυγή, δε διαθέτει ελευθερία. Φυλακή μόνο.

Και μπορεί η αγάπη εκείνου που μένει δίπλα σου στα δύσκολα να μη διαθέτει την ένταση και τις τυμπανοκρουσίες ενός κινηματογραφικού comeback, μπορεί οι ατάκες του να μην κερδίζουν βραβείο Όσκαρ και μπορεί να μη νιώσεις ποτέ αυτή τη γλύκα του κυνηγητού και του παρακαλετού  έρωτα που λιώνει στα πόδια σου για συγχώρεση και για να τον δεχθείς πίσω, αλλά σίγουρα δε θα σε κάνει να νιώσεις ποτέ πως η αγάπη σου δεν ήταν αρκετή από μόνη της για να μείνει εδώ.

Οι έρωτες που καίνε, δεν παγώνουν για λίγο. Δεν κάνουν διάλειμμα. Κι αν κάνουν δεν το ‘χουν επιλέξει οι ίδιοι.

Δε σου χει τύχει να φύγεις  για ένα μικρό ταξίδι για να ξεχάσεις δουλειά, ρουτίνα κι άγχη, να παγώσεις το χρόνο για λίγη απόλαυση κι όταν τελικά επιστρέψεις πίσω, οι ρυθμοί να είναι πιο έντονοι, τα άγχη μεγαλύτερα κι η δουλειά σκληρότερη; Έτσι είναι και στους έρωτες! Το να επιστρέφεις δε θα ‘ναι ποτέ ίδιο με το να μην έχεις φύγει ποτέ.

«Σε αγαπάει ο άνθρωπος που έχει αγωνία για τον αγώνα σου»  διάβασα κάπου κι αν δε βλέπουμε τη δύναμη ενός τέτοιου έρωτα, που αρνείται πεισματικά να μας αφήσει όποιες κι αν είναι οι συνθήκες και θεωρούμε πως η αγάπη κρύβεται μόνο στα μεγάλα λόγια, στις ακραίες αντιδράσεις  και στα «θέατρα» που κάποιοι ξέρουν καλά να παίζουν, τότε δεν είμαστε αντάξιοί της.

Γιατί το να μένει κάποιος δίπλα μας και να κάνει τα πάντα για να είμαστε ευτυχισμένοι φαντάζει σε εμάς αδυναμία και χειρισμός, ενώ το να χρησιμοποιεί κάποιος τη φυγή για να μας εξουσιάζει, όχι;

Δύναμη διαθέτει η φυγή, όταν ανακαλύπτεις ή αποδέχεσαι πως τα αισθήματα έπαψαν να είναι αμοιβαία. Φεύγεις με αξιοπρέπεια και φροντίζεις να μην επιστρέψεις ποτέ. Αδυναμία διαθέτει όταν την χρησιμοποιείς ως «κόλπο» για να θέσεις τους δικούς σου όρους επιστρέφοντας.

Οι άνθρωποι που φεύγουν φαντάζουν δυνατοί γιατί δεν αντικρίζουμε το πρόσωπό τους. Στέκει μπρος στα μάτια μας η αγέρωχη πλάτη τους ως εμπόδιο και δεν καταφέρνουμε να δούμε τις εκφράσεις τους, που θα μας μαρτυρούσαν όλη την ανασφάλεια και την προσμονή για όλο και περισσότερα «μείνε» που θα ήθελαν να τους φωνάζεις. Κι αν δεν το κάνεις, επιστρέφουν μια μέρα για να τα διεκδικήσουν.

Πόσο παράξενη η ανθρώπινη ψυχή τελικά! Στους μόνους που θα άξιζε να φωνάξει «μείνε» είναι εκείνοι που δε θα έφευγαν από δίπλα της ποτέ. Κι εκείνη άχνα!

Γράφει η Μάριαμ Πολυγένη

Πηγή

What’s your Reaction?
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Advertisement
178 Comments

178 Comments

  1. top digital transformation companies

    10 February 2022 at 12:13 am

    774424 943237I got what you mean , saved to bookmarks , extremely decent site. 774880

  2. discuss#Look At This

    15 April 2022 at 10:23 pm

    697766 25603OK initial take a great look at your self. What do you like what do you not like so considerably. Work on that which you do not like. But do not listen to other folks their opinions do not matter only yours does. Work on having the attitude that this is who youre and if they dont like it they can go to hell. 378442

  3. nova88

    2 May 2022 at 1:30 pm

    356387 777222Some really good stuff on this web web site , I love it. 874860

  4. สล็อต

    29 June 2022 at 9:39 am

    707369 250378Hello there! Do you know if they make any plugins to protect against hackers? Im kinda paranoid about losing everything Ive worked hard on. Any suggestions? 454054

  5. maxbet

    9 September 2022 at 10:19 am

    776536 882340Hiya. Extremely cool web site!! Man .. Beautiful .. Amazing .. I will bookmark your web site and take the feeds additionallyI am pleased to uncover numerous valuable information here within the post. Thank you for sharing 33128

  6. Investment

    10 December 2022 at 8:24 pm

    210335 584302As I web site owner I think the topic material here is real fantastic, appreciate it for your efforts. 762170

  7. WxxilliamNox

    31 May 2023 at 7:12 pm

  8. Tracy Guz

    29 July 2023 at 2:11 pm

    There’s noticeably a bundle to learn about this. I assume you made certain good factors in options also.

  9. hire a hacker online

    1 August 2023 at 4:04 am

    Thank you for sharing superb informations. Your web-site is very cool. I am impressed by the details that you’ve on this site. It reveals how nicely you perceive this subject. Bookmarked this web page, will come back for extra articles. You, my friend, ROCK! I found just the info I already searched all over the place and just could not come across. What an ideal site.

  10. peluang usaha fotocopy

    1 August 2023 at 12:03 pm

    Good – I should certainly pronounce, impressed with your web site. I had no trouble navigating through all tabs as well as related info ended up being truly simple to do to access. I recently found what I hoped for before you know it at all. Quite unusual. Is likely to appreciate it for those who add forums or something, site theme . a tones way for your client to communicate. Excellent task..

  11. hire a hacker pro

    1 August 2023 at 1:48 pm

    Wow! Thank you! I permanently needed to write on my website something like that. Can I take a part of your post to my website?

  12. Kursus Bahasa Inggris Online

    3 August 2023 at 12:30 am

    You have brought up a very great details , thanks for the post.

  13. instagram hackers for hire

    8 August 2023 at 7:27 pm

    I really pleased to find this web site on bing, just what I was looking for : D as well saved to fav.

  14. ethical hackers for hire

    9 August 2023 at 2:33 am

    Thanks for all your efforts that you have put in this. very interesting information.

  15. social media hackers for hire

    9 August 2023 at 5:57 am

    I think other website proprietors should take this web site as an model, very clean and magnificent user genial style and design, let alone the content. You’re an expert in this topic!

  16. limpeza de sofa em criciuma

    11 August 2023 at 1:35 am

    Cool blog! Is your theme custom made or did you download it from somewhere? A theme like yours with a few simple adjustements would really make my blog jump out. Please let me know where you got your design. Bless you

  17. alojamientos cerca de pamplona

    12 August 2023 at 11:42 pm

    Well I truly liked studying it. This post offered by you is very practical for proper planning.

  18. Biro umroh

    14 August 2023 at 1:05 am

    Great work! This is the type of info that should be shared around the internet. Shame on Google for not positioning this post higher! Come on over and visit my website . Thanks =)

  19. gazduire web romania

    15 August 2023 at 4:54 am

    I’ve recently started a web site, the info you provide on this site has helped me greatly. Thanks for all of your time & work. “Never trust anybody who says ‘trust me.’ Except just this once, of course. – from Steel Beach” by John Varley.

  20. รองพื้น

    16 August 2023 at 10:43 pm

    Thanks for the auspicious writeup. It in truth was once a entertainment account it. Glance complex to far added agreeable from you! By the way, how could we keep up a correspondence?

  21. trusted hackers for hire

    17 August 2023 at 3:40 am

    Hey there! This is kind of off topic but I need some advice from an established blog. Is it difficult to set up your own blog? I’m not very techincal but I can figure things out pretty quick. I’m thinking about setting up my own but I’m not sure where to start. Do you have any ideas or suggestions? Cheers

  22. แป้งพัฟ

    17 August 2023 at 5:21 am

    I think this internet site contains some really wonderful information for everyone. “Good advice is always certain to be ignored, but that’s no reason not to give it.” by Agatha Christie.

  23. hire a hacker to recover an account

    17 August 2023 at 9:37 am

    Hello. impressive job. I did not anticipate this. This is a great story. Thanks!

  24. papel de parede bebê menino

    18 August 2023 at 5:24 pm

    Hi, I think your site might be having browser compatibility issues. When I look at your website in Safari, it looks fine but when opening in Internet Explorer, it has some overlapping. I just wanted to give you a quick heads up! Other then that, fantastic blog!

  25. game turbo 4.0

    19 August 2023 at 12:19 pm

    Hi there would you mind letting me know which webhost you’re utilizing? I’ve loaded your blog in 3 completely different browsers and I must say this blog loads a lot quicker then most. Can you recommend a good hosting provider at a reasonable price? Cheers, I appreciate it!

  26. site assistir futebol online

    21 August 2023 at 1:26 am

    Thanks for ones marvelous posting! I truly enjoyed reading it, you happen to be a great author.I will be sure to bookmark your blog and will often come back in the foreseeable future. I want to encourage that you continue your great job, have a nice afternoon!

  27. agencia de branding madrid

    22 August 2023 at 5:04 pm

    I think you have mentioned some very interesting details , thankyou for the post.

  28. encanador

    24 August 2023 at 7:13 am

    What i do not realize is if truth be told how you are now not really much more smartly-favored than you might be now. You’re very intelligent. You already know thus considerably with regards to this matter, made me personally consider it from a lot of various angles. Its like men and women are not interested unless it?¦s one thing to do with Lady gaga! Your personal stuffs nice. Always maintain it up!

  29. genuine hackers for hire

    27 August 2023 at 6:29 am

    I have been examinating out a few of your posts and i can state pretty nice stuff. I will make sure to bookmark your website.

  30. Have you ever considered creating an ebook or guest authoring on other websites? I have a blog centered on the same ideas you discuss and would love to have you share some stories/information. I know my subscribers would appreciate your work. If you are even remotely interested, feel free to send me an e mail.

  31. slot online

    28 August 2023 at 8:18 am

    My brother recommended I might like this blog. He was totally right. This post truly made my day. You can not imagine just how much time I had spent for this information! Thanks!

  32. cazare delta dunarii

    28 August 2023 at 9:47 am

    There is apparently a bunch to identify about this. I suppose you made various good points in features also.

  33. Cotele Dunarii Oltenita

    29 August 2023 at 2:56 am

    I just like the helpful information you provide to your articles. I will bookmark your blog and take a look at again here frequently. I am slightly certain I will be told lots of new stuff proper right here! Best of luck for the following!

  34. gudang lagu

    29 August 2023 at 3:55 pm

    Good write-up, I’m regular visitor of one’s website, maintain up the excellent operate, and It is going to be a regular visitor for a long time.

  35. tv express

    31 August 2023 at 10:35 am

    F*ckin’ tremendous issues here. I’m very glad to see your article. Thank you so much and i’m looking forward to touch you. Will you please drop me a mail?

  36. sepatu ori

    31 August 2023 at 8:23 pm

    Good – I should definitely pronounce, impressed with your site. I had no trouble navigating through all tabs as well as related information ended up being truly easy to do to access. I recently found what I hoped for before you know it at all. Quite unusual. Is likely to appreciate it for those who add forums or something, site theme . a tones way for your customer to communicate. Nice task.

  37. situs slot terpercaya 2023

    1 September 2023 at 12:31 am

    Really superb visual appeal on this site, I’d rate it 10 10.

  38. Slot Gacor Terbaru

    1 September 2023 at 3:45 am

    I like this post, enjoyed this one thanks for posting. “We seldom attribute common sense except to those who agree with us.” by La Rochefoucauld.

  39. Link Alternatif OLXToto

    1 September 2023 at 9:54 am

    You are my aspiration, I have few blogs and occasionally run out from to brand.

  40. agen slot

    1 September 2023 at 1:00 pm

    I conceive you have observed some very interesting details, regards for the post.

  41. hire a hacker

    2 September 2023 at 4:27 pm

    My spouse and I stumbled over here different web page and thought I should check things out. I like what I see so now i’m following you. Look forward to checking out your web page for a second time.

  42. hire a hacker uk

    2 September 2023 at 5:57 pm

    I’ve been surfing online greater than three hours as of late, yet I by no means found any interesting article like yours. It is lovely price sufficient for me. In my view, if all website owners and bloggers made excellent content as you probably did, the web will be a lot more useful than ever before. “It’s all right to have butterflies in your stomach. Just get them to fly in formation.” by Dr. Rob Gilbert.

  43. dicas vibrador bullet

    3 September 2023 at 2:47 pm

    I was looking at some of your blog posts on this internet site and I conceive this internet site is rattling instructive! Retain putting up.

  44. undangan online

    4 September 2023 at 5:08 pm

    Some truly excellent blog posts on this internet site, appreciate it for contribution. “A religious awakening which does not awaken the sleeper to love has roused him in vain.” by Jessamyn West.

  45. differenza tra trapunta e piumone

    5 September 2023 at 12:14 am

    Thanks for helping out, fantastic information. “In case of dissension, never dare to judge till you’ve heard the other side.” by Euripides.

  46. tessuti antiacaro

    5 September 2023 at 2:15 am

    Great website. A lot of helpful info here. I?¦m sending it to some friends ans also sharing in delicious. And certainly, thank you in your sweat!

  47. car battery shop near me

    5 September 2023 at 3:32 am

    I have been exploring for a bit for any high quality articles or blog posts on this kind of area . Exploring in Yahoo I finally stumbled upon this web site. Studying this information So i am glad to express that I’ve an incredibly excellent uncanny feeling I came upon exactly what I needed. I so much undoubtedly will make certain to don?¦t overlook this site and provides it a glance on a constant basis.

  48. bmw workshop

    5 September 2023 at 10:32 pm

    I don’t commonly comment but I gotta tell appreciate it for the post on this one : D.

  49. Ukraine surrogate

    6 September 2023 at 12:26 am

    I am often to blogging and i really appreciate your content. The article has really peaks my interest. I am going to bookmark your site and keep checking for new information.

  50. chauffeur service kuala lumpur

    6 September 2023 at 10:38 am

    There’s noticeably a bundle to know about this. I assume you made certain good factors in features also.

  51. hire a hacker for gmail

    7 September 2023 at 3:28 pm

    I am only commenting to make you be aware of of the great discovery my wife’s princess developed going through yuor web blog. She picked up too many pieces, with the inclusion of what it is like to have a wonderful teaching mindset to make many others effortlessly comprehend several impossible subject areas. You undoubtedly surpassed my expectations. Many thanks for coming up with those effective, trusted, explanatory and as well as easy guidance on your topic to Emily.

  52. assistir as viuvas das quintas feiras dublado

    11 September 2023 at 10:26 pm

    obviously like your web-site however you have to test the spelling on quite a few of your posts. Several of them are rife with spelling problems and I find it very bothersome to inform the reality on the other hand I will definitely come again again.

  53. Tabung cng

    15 September 2023 at 11:39 am

    hi!,I love your writing very a lot! percentage we communicate more approximately your article on AOL? I need a specialist on this space to unravel my problem. Maybe that’s you! Looking ahead to look you.

  54. malaysia solar heater

    16 September 2023 at 2:15 am

    Simply a smiling visitor here to share the love (:, btw great style.

  55. dicas algemas bdsm

    17 September 2023 at 10:46 pm

    This website is known as a walk-by means of for the entire data you wished about this and didn’t know who to ask. Glimpse here, and you’ll positively discover it.

  56. igreen energy é confiavel

    18 September 2023 at 8:30 pm

    Normally I do not read post on blogs, but I would like to say that this write-up very forced me to try and do it! Your writing style has been surprised me. Thanks, quite nice post.

  57. efile texas

    20 September 2023 at 12:48 am

    you may have a terrific weblog right here! would you wish to make some invite posts on my blog?

  58. cojinesparahogar.com almohadas viscoelasticas

    22 September 2023 at 1:45 pm

    Hello just wanted to give you a quick heads up. The text in your content seem to be running off the screen in Ie. I’m not sure if this is a formatting issue or something to do with web browser compatibility but I thought I’d post to let you know. The design and style look great though! Hope you get the problem fixed soon. Kudos

  59. hire a hacker uk

    23 September 2023 at 5:21 pm

    Woh I enjoy your content, saved to fav! .

  60. Sport808

    24 September 2023 at 4:08 pm

    Hey, you used to write great, but the last few posts have been kinda boring… I miss your tremendous writings. Past several posts are just a bit out of track! come on!

  61. how much for a swim spa

    28 September 2023 at 4:25 am

    I¦ve read several excellent stuff here. Definitely worth bookmarking for revisiting. I wonder how a lot attempt you place to create such a great informative site.

  62. best books in sales and marketing

    1 October 2023 at 9:49 am

    I really like what you guys are usually up too. This kind of clever work and exposure! Keep up the amazing works guys I’ve added you guys to my own blogroll.

  63. link kudalaut88

    10 October 2023 at 10:00 am

    Thank you a lot for providing individuals with an extraordinarily nice chance to read in detail from this site. It’s always very enjoyable plus full of a great time for me and my office mates to visit the blog nearly thrice in one week to study the newest stuff you will have. And of course, we’re at all times impressed concerning the sensational thoughts you serve. Selected 2 tips in this post are definitely the best we’ve ever had.

  64. 1xbet first deposit bonus promo code

    15 October 2023 at 9:40 pm

    1xBet Promo Code 2023: 248248 – this combination gives you an exclusive sports bonus that will add 100 to your first deposit of up to 130 €/$. Promo codes have become widespread in the gambling industry, including betting. In other words, game portals provide benefits and advantages to players under certain conditions. Such a sentence is usually encrypted in a combination consisting of numbers, letters and symbols. It is this combination that is a promo code. It is with this combination that users most often encounter when they are interested in the 1xBet bookmaker.

  65. diamond painting aufbewahrungskoffer

    19 October 2023 at 2:23 pm

    Your home is valueble for me. Thanks!…

  66. amber rose dad

    19 October 2023 at 4:22 pm

    Thank you for another informative website. Where else could I get that type of info written in such a perfect way? I have a project that I am just now working on, and I have been on the look out for such information.

  67. temanjp

    20 October 2023 at 5:36 pm

    Very informative and good body structure of subject material, now that’s user friendly (:.

  68. an138

    21 October 2023 at 9:10 pm

    Enjoyed looking at this, very good stuff, thanks. “All of our dreams can come true — if we have the courage to pursue them.” by Walt Disney.

  69. link alternatif temanjp

    22 October 2023 at 2:12 am

    An interesting discussion is worth comment. I think that you should write more on this topic, it might not be a taboo subject but generally people are not enough to speak on such topics. To the next. Cheers

  70. temanjp

    22 October 2023 at 4:37 am

    Hey there, You’ve done a fantastic job. I will definitely digg it and personally suggest to my friends. I am sure they’ll be benefited from this web site.

  71. Auditoria Contábil

    23 October 2023 at 12:22 am

    Good ?V I should certainly pronounce, impressed with your site. I had no trouble navigating through all tabs as well as related information ended up being truly easy to do to access. I recently found what I hoped for before you know it at all. Reasonably unusual. Is likely to appreciate it for those who add forums or anything, website theme . a tones way for your customer to communicate. Excellent task..

  72. sracz

    26 October 2023 at 10:13 pm

    It’s really a cool and helpful piece of information. I’m glad that you shared this helpful information with us. Please keep us informed like this. Thanks for sharing.

  73. local private investigaton agencies near me

    1 November 2023 at 10:18 am

    F*ckin’ awesome things here. I am very glad to see your post. Thanks a lot and i am looking forward to contact you. Will you kindly drop me a e-mail?

  74. siti web varese

    3 November 2023 at 10:22 am

    This web site is really a walk-through for all of the info you wanted about this and didn’t know who to ask. Glimpse here, and you’ll definitely discover it.

  75. kontraktor pameran

    4 November 2023 at 7:19 pm

    I believe this website holds very superb indited written content articles.

  76. suzuki surabaya

    5 November 2023 at 10:48 am

    hello there and thank you for your information – I have definitely picked up anything new from right here. I did however expertise several technical issues using this site, since I experienced to reload the site many times previous to I could get it to load correctly. I had been wondering if your web host is OK? Not that I am complaining, but slow loading instances times will often affect your placement in google and can damage your quality score if ads and marketing with Adwords. Well I am adding this RSS to my email and can look out for much more of your respective fascinating content. Ensure that you update this again very soon..

  77. arbety

    6 November 2023 at 6:03 am

    I’ve learn several excellent stuff here. Definitely price bookmarking for revisiting. I wonder how a lot attempt you place to create this type of great informative website.

  78. Briliofood

    6 November 2023 at 12:20 pm

    I like what you guys are up too. Such smart work and reporting! Carry on the excellent works guys I have incorporated you guys to my blogroll. I think it will improve the value of my web site :).

  79. anichin top

    6 November 2023 at 4:25 pm

    Thanks for another informative site. The place else could I get that kind of info written in such an ideal manner? I have a challenge that I’m simply now operating on, and I’ve been on the look out for such info.

  80. concursos notícias

    12 November 2023 at 2:14 am

    This web site is really a walk-through for all of the info you wanted about this and didn’t know who to ask. Glimpse here, and you’ll definitely discover it.

  81. handheld xrf/libs analyzer

    12 November 2023 at 3:58 pm

    he blog was how do i say it… relevant, finally something that helped me. Thanks

  82. training accurate online

    14 November 2023 at 2:33 am

    I wanted to thank you for this great read!! I definitely enjoying every little bit of it I have you bookmarked to check out new stuff you post…

  83. hackers for hire roblox

    15 November 2023 at 9:57 am

    I’d should verify with you here. Which is not one thing I usually do! I enjoy studying a put up that can make people think. Also, thanks for permitting me to remark!

  84. colostat zonder voorschrift in België

    18 November 2023 at 12:26 am

    Sweet blog! I found it while surfing around on Yahoo News.
    Do you have any suggestions on how to get listed in Yahoo News?
    I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there!
    Cheers

  85. aciclovir à prix abordable en France

    18 November 2023 at 4:37 am

    Hey there! This post could not be written any better!
    Reading through this post reminds me of my good old room mate!
    He always kept chatting about this. I will forward this post to him.
    Pretty sure he will have a good read. Thanks for sharing!

  86. game

    18 November 2023 at 5:10 pm

    hello!,I love your writing so a lot! share we communicate more approximately your article on AOL? I need a specialist on this house to resolve my problem. May be that is you! Taking a look forward to look you.

  87. Medikamente ohne ärztliche Verschreibung

    19 November 2023 at 12:25 am

    It’s going to be ending of mine day, however before ending I am reading this great piece
    of writing to improve my knowledge.

  88. ahli asuransi jakarta

    19 November 2023 at 6:29 am

    I love forgathering utile info, this post has got me even more info! .

  89. sprzedaż online hydroxyurea w Rzeszowie

    21 November 2023 at 5:31 am

    After I initially left a comment I seem to have clicked the -Notify me when new
    comments are added- checkbox and from now on every time a comment is
    added I recieve four emails with the exact same comment.
    There has to be a means you can remove me from that service?
    Thanks!

  90. Chicago Time Zone

    26 November 2023 at 11:02 pm

    I like this web site very much, Its a really nice situation to read and get info .

  91. locação de toalhas

    27 November 2023 at 7:41 am

    As a Newbie, I am continuously searching online for articles that can be of assistance to me. Thank you

  92. hire a hacker to recover instagram

    30 November 2023 at 12:43 am

    I view something really interesting about your website so I saved to fav.

  93. window tinting shop near me

    30 November 2023 at 6:27 am

    What i do not understood is if truth be told how you are no longer really much more neatly-appreciated than you may be right now. You are very intelligent. You know thus significantly in relation to this subject, produced me in my opinion believe it from so many varied angles. Its like women and men aren’t fascinated unless it’s one thing to accomplish with Woman gaga! Your own stuffs excellent. At all times deal with it up!

  94. Bernard Extine

    3 December 2023 at 9:50 pm

    My coder is trying to convince me to move to .net from PHP. I have always disliked the idea because of the expenses. But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using WordPress on various websites for about a year and am concerned about switching to another platform. I have heard fantastic things about blogengine.net. Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress posts into it? Any kind of help would be greatly appreciated!

  95. hkbpokerqq

    5 December 2023 at 11:37 am

    I’ve recently started a website, the info you offer on this website has helped me tremendously. Thank you for all of your time & work.

  96. cbd vape cartridge canada

    6 December 2023 at 12:49 am

    Regards for helping out, excellent information.

  97. Digital Agency

    8 December 2023 at 12:50 pm

    Hello There. I found your blog the use of msn. That is a very well written article. I will be sure to bookmark it and return to read extra of your helpful info. Thank you for the post. I will definitely return.

  98. achtformpool set

    11 December 2023 at 3:11 pm

    Hi my loved one! I wish to say that this article is awesome, great written and include almost all significant infos. I’d like to see more posts like this.

  99. Everything is very open and very clear explanation of issues. was truly information. Your website is very useful. Thanks for sharing.

  100. กันแดดคุมมัน

    12 December 2023 at 10:03 pm

    I’ve read several good stuff here. Certainly worth bookmarking for revisiting. I wonder how much attempt you put to make such a wonderful informative site.

  101. ผับไฮโซ ทองหล่อ

    13 December 2023 at 10:49 am

    It’s hard to find knowledgeable people on this topic, but you sound like you know what you’re talking about! Thanks

  102. Carpet Fitter towcester

    16 December 2023 at 3:55 pm

    I think this internet site has got some real fantastic info for everyone : D.

  103. hire a hacker online

    17 December 2023 at 4:02 pm

    An interesting discussion is worth comment. I think that you should write more on this topic, it might not be a taboo subject but generally people are not enough to speak on such topics. To the next. Cheers

  104. hire a hacker uk

    17 December 2023 at 8:19 pm

    I like the efforts you have put in this, thanks for all the great content.

  105. private investigators in my area

    18 December 2023 at 2:55 am

    Thanks a lot for sharing this with all of us you really know what you’re talking about! Bookmarked. Kindly also visit my web site =). We could have a link exchange agreement between us!

  106. tlover tonet

    18 December 2023 at 8:25 am

    It’s really a cool and helpful piece of information. I’m satisfied that you shared this helpful information with us. Please keep us up to date like this. Thank you for sharing.

  107. mzplay

    18 December 2023 at 1:08 pm

    I don’t commonly comment but I gotta state thanks for the post on this special one : D.

  108. sanakirja

    19 December 2023 at 7:19 pm

    Those are yours alright! . We at least need to get these people stealing images to start blogging! They probably just did a image search and grabbed them. They look good though!

  109. typische albanische nachnamen

    20 December 2023 at 11:40 am

    I like this web blog very much so much fantastic information.

  110. Jackpot168

    22 December 2023 at 3:15 am

    Hello there I am so happy I found your weblog, I really found you by accident, while I was looking on Yahoo for something else, Anyhow I am here now and would just like to say cheers for a marvelous post and a all round enjoyable blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have time to read it all at the moment but I have saved it and also added in your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read a great deal more, Please do keep up the excellent work.

  111. situs slot88

    22 December 2023 at 2:48 pm

    Hi, just required you to know I he added your site to my Google bookmarks due to your layout. But seriously, I believe your internet site has 1 in the freshest theme I??ve came across. It extremely helps make reading your blog significantly easier.

  112. nonton film bonanza

    26 December 2023 at 7:04 am

    You have observed very interesting points! ps nice internet site.

  113. levofloxacin à acheter sans problème

    27 December 2023 at 9:22 am

    Hello to every body, it’s my first pay a visit of this web site; this webpage
    contains amazing and in fact good data for readers.

  114. I all the time emailed this weblog post page to all my friends,
    as if like to read it then my links will too.

  115. funbet303

    28 December 2023 at 7:35 pm

    A powerful share, I simply given this onto a colleague who was doing a bit of evaluation on this. And he in reality bought me breakfast as a result of I discovered it for him.. smile. So let me reword that: Thnx for the treat! But yeah Thnkx for spending the time to discuss this, I feel strongly about it and love reading extra on this topic. If doable, as you become experience, would you thoughts updating your weblog with more details? It is highly helpful for me. Large thumb up for this blog put up!

  116. funbet303

    29 December 2023 at 6:02 am

    Only wanna remark on few general things, The website style and design is perfect, the content material is real great. “War is much too serious a matter to be entrusted to the military.” by Georges Clemenceau.

  117. red vein bali vs maeng da

    29 December 2023 at 10:42 am

    Magnificent website. A lot of helpful information here. I’m sending it to several buddies ans additionally sharing in delicious. And certainly, thank you in your sweat!

  118. inbound no tatuapé

    30 December 2023 at 10:34 pm

    I view something genuinely interesting about your blog so I saved to bookmarks.

  119. real-estate.berstoun.com

    31 December 2023 at 12:52 am

    Great web site. A lot of useful information here. I’m sending it to some friends ans also sharing in delicious. And naturally, thanks for your sweat!

  120. perfume for men

    31 December 2023 at 7:06 pm

    What i don’t realize is if truth be told how you’re no longer actually much more well-appreciated than you might be now. You’re so intelligent. You recognize thus significantly in the case of this topic, made me in my opinion consider it from so many numerous angles. Its like women and men don’t seem to be interested unless it is one thing to do with Girl gaga! Your own stuffs outstanding. Always handle it up!

  121. Click here for EzySpot's exciting content

    2 January 2024 at 6:48 am

    Very good blog! Do you have any recommendations for aspiring writers? I’m planning to start my own site soon but I’m a little lost on everything. Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option? There are so many options out there that I’m completely overwhelmed .. Any tips? Many thanks!

  122. nom de famille anglais

    4 January 2024 at 1:01 am

    I like the efforts you have put in this, regards for all the great blog posts.

  123. mp3juice

    4 January 2024 at 6:06 pm

    Have you ever thought about writing an ebook or guest authoring on other blogs? I have a blog centered on the same topics you discuss and would really like to have you share some stories/information. I know my readers would appreciate your work. If you are even remotely interested, feel free to send me an e mail.

  124. tesão de vaca

    5 January 2024 at 2:08 am

    Just a smiling visitor here to share the love (:, btw outstanding style.

  125. download lagu mp3

    5 January 2024 at 8:57 pm

    You have brought up a very superb points, appreciate it for the post.

  126. Bom88

    6 January 2024 at 2:56 am

    Hi there, just became alert to your blog through Google, and found that it is truly informative. I’m gonna watch out for brussels. I will be grateful if you continue this in future. A lot of people will be benefited from your writing. Cheers!

  127. Ayo188

    6 January 2024 at 2:42 pm

    hey there and thanks on your information – I have definitely picked up something new from right here. I did then again experience a few technical issues the use of this web site, as I experienced to reload the site a lot of occasions prior to I may get it to load correctly. I have been brooding about in case your hosting is OK? Now not that I am complaining, but sluggish loading circumstances occasions will very frequently impact your placement in google and can injury your high-quality score if ads and ***********|advertising|advertising|advertising and *********** with Adwords. Well I am adding this RSS to my e-mail and could glance out for much extra of your respective exciting content. Ensure that you replace this again soon..

  128. Puravive

    7 January 2024 at 11:01 pm

    Please let me know if you’re looking for a article writer for your site. You have some really great articles and I believe I would be a good asset. If you ever want to take some of the load off, I’d really like to write some articles for your blog in exchange for a link back to mine. Please blast me an email if interested. Thank you!

  129. Alpha Tonic

    8 January 2024 at 10:01 am

    Hey! Do you know if they make any plugins to protect against hackers? I’m kinda paranoid about losing everything I’ve worked hard on. Any recommendations?

  130. massage in sao paulo

    8 January 2024 at 5:08 pm

    I must express appreciation to you for bailing me out of this particular circumstance. Just after checking throughout the search engines and coming across recommendations which were not productive, I figured my life was gone. Living without the presence of answers to the difficulties you’ve fixed all through your entire short article is a crucial case, and ones which might have adversely affected my career if I hadn’t come across your site. Your good expertise and kindness in touching every aspect was excellent. I don’t know what I would’ve done if I hadn’t come across such a solution like this. I can now look forward to my future. Thanks so much for the specialized and result oriented guide. I will not be reluctant to recommend the sites to anyone who will need care on this area.

  131. Fungame777

    11 January 2024 at 10:48 pm

    Really fantastic information can be found on site. “Search others for their virtues, thyself for thy vices.” by Benjamin Franklin.

  132. KKSLOT777

    12 January 2024 at 2:07 pm

    I got good info from your blog

  133. symmetrel veilig kopen

    12 January 2024 at 9:07 pm

    Hi, i think that i saw you visited my website thus i came to “return the favor”.I’m trying to find things to
    enhance my site!I suppose its ok to use some
    of your ideas!!

  134. resume online

    13 January 2024 at 3:15 am

    ResumeHead is a resume writing company that helps you get ahead in your career. We are a group of certified resume writers who have extensive knowledge and experience in various fields and industries. We know how to highlight your strengths, achievements, and potential in a way that attracts the attention of hiring managers and recruiters. We also offer other services such as cover letter writing, LinkedIn profile optimization, and career coaching. Whether you need a resume for a new job, a promotion, or a career change, we can help you create a resume that showcases your unique value proposition. Contact us today and let us help you get the resume you deserve.

  135. mefenamic acid en venta en Lima sin receta

    13 January 2024 at 8:41 am

    Why viewers still use to read news papers when in this technological world the
    whole thing is existing on web?

  136. Kauf von apriso Mylan in Deutschland

    14 January 2024 at 10:07 am

    Thanks for some other informative blog. The place else may just I am getting that kind of info
    written in such an ideal approach? I’ve a undertaking that I am just now working on, and I have been at the glance out for
    such information.

  137. Sightcare

    15 January 2024 at 7:15 am

    Thanks for your personal marvelous posting! I definitely enjoyed reading it, you will be a great author.I will remember to bookmark your blog and definitely will come back sometime soon. I want to encourage you to definitely continue your great writing, have a nice morning!

  138. sumatra slim belly tonic customer review

    17 January 2024 at 9:55 pm

    Very good site you have here but I was curious about if you knew of any message boards that cover the same topics talked about in this article? I’d really like to be a part of online community where I can get opinions from other knowledgeable people that share the same interest. If you have any suggestions, please let me know. Thanks!

  139. sumatra slim belly tonic

    18 January 2024 at 6:09 pm

    You made some good points there. I looked on the internet for the topic and found most individuals will agree with your blog.

  140. Puravive

    18 January 2024 at 9:31 pm

    What’s Taking place i’m new to this, I stumbled upon this I’ve found It positively helpful and it has helped me out loads. I hope to contribute & assist different users like its helped me. Good job.

  141. instagram hackers for hire

    19 January 2024 at 10:14 pm

    It’s really a nice and useful piece of information. I am glad that you shared this helpful information with us. Please keep us informed like this. Thanks for sharing.

  142. Billionaire brain wave

    20 January 2024 at 5:22 pm

    Hello there, You’ve performed an incredible job. I will certainly digg it and for my part recommend to my friends. I am confident they’ll be benefited from this website.

  143. solar water heater

    21 January 2024 at 5:12 am

    What i do not realize is in fact how you’re no longer actually a lot more smartly-liked than you may be now. You are very intelligent. You already know therefore significantly with regards to this topic, made me in my opinion imagine it from so many various angles. Its like women and men are not fascinated unless it is something to do with Lady gaga! Your personal stuffs nice. At all times care for it up!

  144. จำนำรถ

    23 January 2024 at 2:50 am

    Hi! I’ve been following your web site for some time now and finally got the courage to go ahead and give you a shout out from Huffman Texas! Just wanted to mention keep up the excellent job!

  145. I’ll immediately grasp your rss as I can’t find your e-mail subscription hyperlink or e-newsletter
    service. Do you have any? Please permit me recognise so that I could subscribe.
    Thanks.

  146. lottery defeater

    25 January 2024 at 3:40 am

    Hello, Neat post. There’s a problem with your web site in internet explorer, would check this… IE nonetheless is the marketplace leader and a big portion of other folks will leave out your great writing because of this problem.

  147. prodentim

    26 January 2024 at 6:14 am

    My developer is trying to persuade me to move to .net from PHP. I have always disliked the idea because of the costs. But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using WordPress on numerous websites for about a year and am anxious about switching to another platform. I have heard great things about blogengine.net. Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress posts into it? Any help would be greatly appreciated!

  148. Me Bloqueia

    27 January 2024 at 2:02 pm

    Some really good posts on this website , thanks for contribution.

  149. What i do not understood is in fact how you are
    no longer really a lot more well-liked than you might be right now.
    You’re very intelligent. You realize thus significantly with regards to this matter, made me personally consider it from a lot of various angles.
    Its like women and men aren’t interested except it’s
    something to do with Lady gaga! Your own stuffs nice.
    All the time care for it up!

  150. fitspresso

    30 January 2024 at 11:54 pm

    Hello, i think that i saw you visited my website so i came to “return the favor”.I’m attempting to find things to improve my site!I suppose its ok to use a few of your ideas!!

  151. hire a hacker dark web

    31 January 2024 at 4:19 pm

    I must express appreciation to the writer just for bailing me out of such a circumstance. Right after searching through the the net and coming across tricks that were not productive, I thought my life was done. Living minus the answers to the problems you’ve sorted out as a result of your entire article content is a serious case, as well as those which may have badly damaged my entire career if I had not discovered your website. The expertise and kindness in controlling a lot of stuff was useful. I don’t know what I would’ve done if I had not come upon such a subject like this. I’m able to at this time relish my future. Thanks a lot very much for your professional and amazing guide. I will not be reluctant to endorse your web site to anyone who should have direction about this area.

  152. Sugar Defender

    31 January 2024 at 5:32 pm

    Very interesting details you have mentioned, thanks for posting. “Death is Nature’s expert advice to get plenty of Life.” by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe.

  153. ug555

    1 February 2024 at 6:59 am

    There are actually lots of details like that to take into consideration. That is a nice level to bring up. I supply the thoughts above as general inspiration but clearly there are questions like the one you carry up the place an important factor will probably be working in sincere good faith. I don?t know if greatest practices have emerged round issues like that, but I am certain that your job is clearly identified as a fair game. Both boys and girls feel the influence of just a second’s pleasure, for the remainder of their lives.

  154. automatic driving lessons

    1 February 2024 at 12:43 pm

    It’s actually a cool and useful piece of information. I’m glad that you just shared this useful information with us. Please keep us up to date like this. Thank you for sharing.

  155. tonic greens review

    1 February 2024 at 10:27 pm

    I have recently started a web site, the info you offer on this web site has helped me greatly. Thank you for all of your time & work.

  156. aizen power

    2 February 2024 at 12:44 am

    Excellent beat ! I wish to apprentice even as you amend your web site, how can i subscribe for a weblog website? The account helped me a appropriate deal. I had been a little bit familiar of this your broadcast offered brilliant transparent idea

  157. billionaire brain wave

    5 February 2024 at 10:01 am

    Rattling good info can be found on site. “I don’t know what will be used in the next world war, but the 4th will be fought with stones.” by Albert Einstein.

  158. ordine di inmunoartro in Italia

    6 February 2024 at 1:33 pm

    We are a group of volunteers and starting a new scheme in our community.
    Your website offered us with valuable info to work on. You have done an impressive job and our
    entire community will be grateful to you.

  159. รองพื้น lancome

    7 February 2024 at 1:14 am

    Simply desire to say your article is as surprising. The clearness in your put up is just cool and that i can think you are an expert on this subject. Well together with your permission let me to snatch your RSS feed to stay updated with impending post. Thank you 1,000,000 and please keep up the rewarding work.

  160. lift detox

    7 February 2024 at 1:40 pm

    Thank you for some other great article. Where else could anyone get that kind of information in such an ideal manner of writing? I’ve a presentation next week, and I’m at the search for such information.

  161. Rekomendasi teh tarik authentic di solo

    7 February 2024 at 4:35 pm

    We’re a group of volunteers and opening a brand new scheme in our community. Your site provided us with valuable information to work on. You’ve performed an impressive job and our entire group will be grateful to you.

  162. เสื้อกล้ามเด็ก

    7 February 2024 at 4:39 pm

    Greetings! I’ve been reading your blog for a long time now and finally got the bravery to go ahead and give you a shout out from Humble Tx! Just wanted to tell you keep up the excellent work!

  163. herpagreens reviews

    7 February 2024 at 7:34 pm

    Outstanding post but I was wanting to know if you could write a litte more on this topic? I’d be very thankful if you could elaborate a little bit further. Thank you!

  164. fitspresso review

    8 February 2024 at 7:42 pm

    I carry on listening to the reports lecture about receiving free online grant applications so I have been looking around for the most excellent site to get one. Could you tell me please, where could i get some?

  165. Sight Care

    10 February 2024 at 12:18 am

    I like this website because so much useful stuff on here : D.

  166. Cortexi

    11 February 2024 at 8:16 am

    Great write-up, I am regular visitor of one?¦s website, maintain up the excellent operate, and It’s going to be a regular visitor for a long time.

  167. Fortune Tiger

    11 February 2024 at 11:10 pm

    There is noticeably a bundle to learn about this. I assume you made certain nice factors in options also.

  168. mp3 juice

    13 February 2024 at 3:28 pm

    Hey just wanted to give you a quick heads up. The words in your article seem to be running off the screen in Opera. I’m not sure if this is a format issue or something to do with internet browser compatibility but I figured I’d post to let you know. The layout look great though! Hope you get the problem solved soon. Cheers

  169. saibaba answers

    15 February 2024 at 1:13 pm

    I am glad to be one of the visitants on this outstanding internet site (:, thankyou for putting up.

  170. vermox sin efectos indeseables en Ecuadorr

    16 February 2024 at 1:07 am

    Thank you so much! It a astounding site! comprar aristocort en línea sin receta en México

  171. öğrenci eshot ne kadar soru

    27 February 2024 at 6:40 pm

    I loved as much as you will receive carried out right here.
    The sketch is attractive, your authored subject matter stylish.
    nonetheless, you command get bought an impatience over that you wish be delivering the following.

    unwell unquestionably come further formerly again since
    exactly the same nearly very often inside case you shield this hike.

  172. cennet 8 casino bonus kodları

    2 March 2024 at 5:41 am

    Way cool! Some very valid points! I appreciate you writing
    this article plus the rest of the website is also really good.

  173. If some one wants to be updated with most recent
    technologies therefore he must be pay a visit this web page
    and be up to date daily.

  174. eth крипто мекенжайы

    30 March 2024 at 11:19 am

    If you are going for most excellent contents like I do, just pay a visit this web page all the time since
    it provides quality contents, thanks

  175. I’ve been exploring for a little bit for any high
    quality articles or blog posts on this sort of area . Exploring in Yahoo I ultimately stumbled
    upon this web site. Studying this info So i’m glad to express that I have an incredibly just right uncanny feeling I found out just what I needed.

    I so much surely will make sure to do not disregard this website and provides it a look regularly.

  176. I like what you guys are usually up too. This kind of clever work and reporting!
    Keep up the fantastic works guys I’ve incorporated you guys to blogroll.

  177. Autentisk betaxolol fra Europa

    18 April 2024 at 4:13 am

    Good write-up. I definitely appreciate this site. Stick with it!

  178. First of all I want to say great blog! I had a quick
    question which I’d like to ask if you don’t mind.
    I was interested to know how you center yourself and clear your thoughts prior to writing.

    I’ve had a tough time clearing my thoughts in getting
    my thoughts out there. I do enjoy writing but it just seems like the first 10 to
    15 minutes tend to be lost simply just trying to figure out how to begin. Any suggestions or tips?
    Thank you!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Σχέσεις

Όσο αφήνεις το παρελθόν να σε στοιχειώνει, τόσο λιγότερο θα απολαμβάνεις τη ζωή σου

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

Όταν σκεφτόμαστε συνεχώς πράγματα από το παρελθόν μας, είτε αναπολώντας τα, είτε αναθεωρώντας τα, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε μία παγίδα που μας κρατάει πίσω. Δεν δίνουμε αξία στο παρόν μας και έτσι δεν μπορούμε να χαρούμε τις εμπειρίες που βιώνουμε καθημερινά.

Η ζωή δεν είναι ένα ημερολόγιο γεγονότων που χρειάζεται ξεφύλλισμα από έναν παθητικό αναγνώστη, αλλά μία αρένα δραστηριοτήτων που πάντα έχει κάτι να μας τραβήξει το ενδιαφέρον. Το βέλος της ζωής δεν δείχνει ποτέ προς τα πίσω, δείχνει πάντα μπροστά.Έτσι, είναι ανώφελο κάποιος να κολλάει τη σκέψη του στο παρελθόν ή στο μέλλον σα να μην υπάρχει το “εδώ” και το “τώρα”.

Φυσικά, οι αναμνήσεις είναι εγγενές μέρος της ζωής και συχνά αναπόφευκτες. Είναι ένας τρόπος να μένουμε κοντά στα πρόσωπα που αγαπάμε και σε όσα είμαστε παθιασμένοι. Είναι το συστατικό της προσωπικής μας ταυτότητας και του χαρακτήρα μας. Είναι οι ρίζες βαθιά μέσα στον πυρήνα του εαυτού μας.

“Τό χθες δεν είναι τίποτα περισσότερο από την ανάμνηση του σήμερα, και τo αύριο, τo όνειρο του σήμερα”

-Kahlil Gibran-

Οι μνήμες είναι συχνά κάτι το απατηλό μιας και είναι φτιατσιδωμένες από τα γεγονότα του παρόντος και έτσι πέφτουν στη φάκα του νου. Η διαφορά ανάμεσα στις ψεύτικες και τις γνήσιες αναμνήσεις μοιάζει με τον τρόπο που ξεχωρίζουν τα φο-μπιζού από τα πραγματικά κοσμήματα, τα φο-μπιζού μοιάζουν αληθινά επειδή αστράφτουν πιο έντονα.

Η μνήμη μοιάζει με ένα όχι τόσο έξυπνο σκύλο που όταν του πετάξεις ένα ραβδί θα σου φέρει ένα διαφορετικό που βρίσκεται πιο δίπλα.

“Να ζείτε την κάθε μέρα της ζωής σας”

Η ζωή θα ήταν αδύνατη αν θυμόμασταν όλα όσα μας έχουν συμβεί

Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

Έτσι, θυμόμαστε όσα είναι πραγματικά σημαντικά για μας και μας συναρπάζουν, γιατί ενεργοποιούνται οι περιοχές και οι νευρωνικές συνδέσεις του εγκεφάλου που είναι υπεύθυνες για τη διατήρηση αυτής της μνήμης.

Το πρόβλημα ανακύπτει όταν ο εγκέφαλος διατηρεί έντονα αναμνήσεις που θα πρέπει να ξεχάσουμε, γιατί δεν μας κάνουν καλό. Και ακριβώς αυτή η σήμανση συγκεκριμένων αναμνήσεων που επιθυμούμε να σβήσουμε είναι ο μηχανισμός που τις κρατά ζωντανές στο μυαλό μας.

Όπως πρεσβεύει και η μέθοδος της αντίστροφης ψυχολογίας, η διαδικασία της λήθης ξεκινά όταν αντίστοιχες καινούργιες μνήμες αντικαθιστούν τις παλιές μη επιθυμητές. Έτσι στο τέλος, όταν το μυαλό ανακτά μνήμες του παρελθόντος, έχει κάτι πιο φρέσκο να φέρει μπροστά μας!

“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

Πηγές: share24.gr / Spirit Alive 
Εικόνα: Johnny Palacios Hidalgo paint
What’s your Reaction?
+1
1
+1
1
+1
1
+1
0
+1
1
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Continue Reading

Σχέσεις

Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

What’s your Reaction?
+1
1
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Continue Reading

Σχέσεις

Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

Published

on

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας

Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

Πηγή: have2read
What’s your Reaction?
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0
+1
0

Μοιραστείτε το με τους φίλους σας
Continue Reading

ΑΡΘΡΟΓΡΑΦΟΙ ΤΗΣ ΕΒΔΟΜΑΔΑΣ

Facebook

Trending