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Υπάρχουν πράγματα που δεν θα πρέπει να μοιραζόμαστε με τις σχέσεις μας;

 

Τι σημαίνει «εμείς τα λέμε όλα μεταξύ μας» και τι σημαίνει αυτό το «όλα»; Δείτε πώς να αποφασίσετε τι δεν πειράζει να μοιράζεστε με τον σύντροφο σας!

 

Πρίν μερικές ημέρες, ο άντρας μου, μου έκανε μια πολύ ενδιαφέρουσα ερώτηση «Αν κάποια μου την έπεφτε, θα ήθελες να το ξέρεις;» όχι με την έννοια να μου το κρύψει από δόλο αλλά από φόβο ότι ίσως αυτού του είδους η πληροφορία, να είναι υπερβολική και να δημιουργήσει πρόβλημα από εκεί που δεν υπάρχει.

 

Πρίν μπούμε σε σχέση και παντρευτούμε, ήμασταν δύο ξεχωριστά άτομα και μέχρι και σήμερα, είμαστε ολοκληρωμένοι, έχουμε τα πάθη μας, τα όνειρά μας, τις ζωές μας. Πρίν γνωριστούμε και πρίν γίνουμε ένα, υπήρχαν πράγματα που δεν θα μοιραζόμασταν με κανέναν, ούτε με κολλητό φίλο ούτε με γονείς ή συγγενείς και είναι φυσιολογικό σαν άνθρωπος, να θέλεις να κρατήσεις κάποια πράγματα για σένα.

 

Γιατί αυτή η ιδιωτικότητα, πρέπει να αλλάζει όταν μπαίνεις σε μια σχέση ή παντρεύεσαι; Οι σχέσεις προφανώς χρειάζονται εμπιστοσύνη για να ευδοκιμήσουν αλλά υπάρχει ακόμη ένα επίπεδο ιδιωτικότητας και προσωπικής ζωής διότι αυτό είναι και ένα μέρος που καθορίζει το ποιοι είμαστε ως ξεχωριστές οντότητες.

 

Πρίν λοιπόν αποφασίσετε εάν πρέπει να τα μοιράζεστε όλα με τον σύντροφό σας, χρειάζεται να ξέρετε τι θα αποδεχτεί ο σύντροφός σας μέσα στη σχέση σας και τι όχι. Ας υποθέσουμε λοιπόν ότι μια άλλη γυναίκα, ρίχνεται στον άντρα σας. Εγώ προσωπικά αν ήταν έξω με φίλους του και συνέβαινε κάτι τέτοιο, δεν θα θιγόμουν. Θα μπορούσε μάλιστα να μου το πεί και να μην έτρεχε και τίποτα.

 

Αυτή η τακτική λειτουργεί πολύ καλά σε ορισμένες σχέσεις αλλά όχι σε όλες, ίσως όχι στις περισσότερες. Υπάρχουν άνθρωποι με τρομερές ανασφάλειες και θέματα ζήλιας που δεν αποδέχονται τέτοιου είδους δηλώσεις. Εάν έχετε να κάνετε με έναν τέτοιο άνθρωπο που είναι και άνθρωπός σας, τότε ίσως πρέπει να ζυγίσετε το τι είναι σωστό να λέγεται και τι όχι βάσει του είδους της επικοινωνίας και της αλληλοεμπιστοσύνης που έχετε ως ζευγάρι, πρίν ξεκινήσετε να μοιράζεστε μαζί του κάθε λεπτομέρεια της καθημερινότητάς σας.

 

Αυτό φυσικά είναι το ένα σενάριο. Το άλλο σενάριο είναι μερικά πράγματα να τα βαριέται. Μπορεί δηλαδή να μην θέλει να ακούσει για τα οικογενειακά σας, για το πόσο πού τον αντιπαθούν οι γονείς σας ή το πόσο καλύτερα θα ήταν η οικογένειά σας αν έπιανε μια καλύτερη δουλειά. Για όλα υπάρχει το κατάλληλο μέρος και η κατάλληλη στιγμή, ειδικά μέσα σε ένα γάμο. Το κλειδί βρίσκεται στο πώς, στο τι, στο πότε και στο πόσο θα μοιραστείτε οποιαδήποτε πληροφορία με τον σύντροφό σας.
Ο τρόπος για να ξεκαθαρίσετε το παραπάνω δίλημμα, είναι να μάθετε αν ο σύντροφός σας είναι δεκτικός σε ό,τι θέλετε να του πείτε. Μπορείτε να αρχίσετε να μιλάτε για διάφορα άσχετα πράγματα και σταδιακά να οδηγήσετε τη κουβέντα σε αυτό που θέλετε, ώστε να δείτε τις αντιδράσεις του. Εάν δείξει ότι δεν τον ενδιαφέρει, ίσως να μην είναι η κατάλληλη στιγμή. Εάν δείτε ότι αρχίζει να συμμετέχει ενεργά στη συζήτηση και δείξει ότι τον ενδιαφέρει να μάθει περισσότερα, τότε προχωρήστε σε όλα όσα θέλετε να του πείτε.

 

Εάν θέλετε πραγματικά να εκμαιεύσετε μια απάντηση κατά τη διάρκεια της συζήτησής σας, πρέπει πρώτα να ξεκαθαρίσετε τι ψάχνετε. Εάν θέλετε τη συμβουλή του μπορείτε να πείτε «Μπορείς να μου πείς τί θα έκανες στη δουλειά, αν ήσουν στη θέση μου;». Εάν θέλετε απλά να πείτε αυτό που σας συνέβη και δεν θέλετε τη γνώμη του, πείτε «Κάτι έγινε στο γραφείο σήμερα και θέλω να σου πω τη γνώμη μου».

 

Ειδικά το τελευταίο είναι πολλές φορές αιτία παρεξηγήσεων και τσακωμών καθώς στις μισές περιπτώσεις, ο ένας πηγαίνει στον άλλον απλά για να τα βγάλει από μέσα του, ο άλλος νομίζει ότι του ζητείται η γνώμη του και όταν αυτή η γνώμη δεν συμφωνεί με αυτόν που θέλει να μιλήσει απλά για να ανακουφιστεί, γίνεται χαμός. Είναι σημαντικό λοιπόν, πρίν οποιαδήποτε κουβέντα, να ξεκαθαρίσετε τόσο στον εαυτό σας όσο και στο σύντροφό σας τι ψάχνετε.

 

Ξεκαθαρίζοντας λοιπόν τι θέλετε να μοιραστείτε και πώς, βοηθάει πολύ και τους δύο, ειδικά τους άντρες που λόγω της φύσης τους, έχουν τη τάση να διορθώνουν πράγματα, οπότε συνήθως σκέφτονται «Αν δεν υπάρχει πρόβλημα, γιατί το αναφέρει;».

 

Με αγάπη και υπομονή, ακόμη και ο πιο «κλειστός» συνομιλητής μπορεί να γίνει εξαιρετικός ακροατής για μια γυναίκα. Και τότε θα ανακαλύψετε πως μπορείτε να μοιραστείτε οτιδήποτε συμβαίνει στη ζωή σας τη δεδομένη στιγμή, μόνο που προηγουμένως πρέπει να θυμάστε πως ό,τι είναι σωστό να ειπωθεί για εσάς, μπορεί να μην είναι για τον άλλον.

 

Μαθαίνοντας να διακρίνετε αυτές τις αμοιβαία ωφέλιμες στιγμές είναι η βάση για μια μακροχρόνια και υγιή σχέση αγάπης.

 

 

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Όταν σκεφτόμαστε συνεχώς πράγματα από το παρελθόν μας, είτε αναπολώντας τα, είτε αναθεωρώντας τα, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε μία παγίδα που μας κρατάει πίσω. Δεν δίνουμε αξία στο παρόν μας και έτσι δεν μπορούμε να χαρούμε τις εμπειρίες που βιώνουμε καθημερινά.

Η ζωή δεν είναι ένα ημερολόγιο γεγονότων που χρειάζεται ξεφύλλισμα από έναν παθητικό αναγνώστη, αλλά μία αρένα δραστηριοτήτων που πάντα έχει κάτι να μας τραβήξει το ενδιαφέρον. Το βέλος της ζωής δεν δείχνει ποτέ προς τα πίσω, δείχνει πάντα μπροστά.Έτσι, είναι ανώφελο κάποιος να κολλάει τη σκέψη του στο παρελθόν ή στο μέλλον σα να μην υπάρχει το “εδώ” και το “τώρα”.

Φυσικά, οι αναμνήσεις είναι εγγενές μέρος της ζωής και συχνά αναπόφευκτες. Είναι ένας τρόπος να μένουμε κοντά στα πρόσωπα που αγαπάμε και σε όσα είμαστε παθιασμένοι. Είναι το συστατικό της προσωπικής μας ταυτότητας και του χαρακτήρα μας. Είναι οι ρίζες βαθιά μέσα στον πυρήνα του εαυτού μας.

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Ο Άλμπερτ Αϊνστάιν σε μία συνέντευξή του στο παρελθόν είχε ερωτηθεί τι κάνει όταν του έρχεται μία νέα ιδέα. Αν για παράδειγμα την καταγράφει σε ένα χαρτί ή σε κάποιο συγκεκριμένο σημειωματάριο. Απάντησε αποφασιστικά πως «Όταν έχω μια νέα καταπληκτική ιδέα, δεν τη ξεχνώ εύκολα». Και αυτή είναι η αλήθεια. Όταν κάτι μας συγκινεί σχεδόν αδύνατο να το ξεχάσουμε.

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“Πρέπει να ζουμε στο παρόν, να αναβαθμίζουμε τον εαυτό μας σε κάθε ευκαιρία που παρουσιάζεται μπροστά μας, να κερδίζουμε την αιωνιότητα κάθε στιγμή. Μόνο οι ανόητοι κάθονται στο νησί που κρύβει το θησαυρό κοιτώντας από μακριά άλλες παραλίες. Όπως δεν υπάρχουν άλλα νησιά για μας, έτσι υπάρχει μόνο μία ζωή που καλούμαστε να ζήσουμε.”

Η ανάμνηση μοιάζει με άρωμα που κρατά για πολύ

Οι απολαύσεις είναι λουλούδια που ανθίζουν όταν ζούμε τη ζωή μας, την παίρνουμε στα χέρια μας και τη γευόμαστε. Οι ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις είναι εκείνες που συνέβησαν τις στιγμές που έπρεπε και που δεν ξεχείλωσαν πέρα από τα όριά τους μη αφήνοντας να γευτούμε καινούργιες στιγμές.

Δεν θυμόμαστε γεγονότα στην ολότητά τους παρά μόνο συγκεκριμένες στιγμές, γι’ αυτό λοιπόν θα πρέπει να έχουμε βιώματα και εμπειρίες ξανά και ξανά. Ο πλούτος της ζωής βρίσκεται στις αναμνήσεις που συνεχίζουμε να κάνουμε και επιλέγουμε να κρατάμε. Μερικές φορές είναι δύσκολο να τολμήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες, ειδικά αν είμαστε κολλημένοι και περιχαρακωμένοι στη ζώνη άνεσης μας. Ωστόσο, αν θέλουμε να έχουμε ευχάριστες αναμνήσεις θα πρέπει να ζούμε μία έντονη ζωή.

Μολονότι, έχουμε ένα απτό και ικανό φυσικό σώμα και με τις αισθήσεις μας μπορούμε να έρθουμε σε επαφή με το εξωτερικό κόσμο και να τον καθορίσουμε όπως θέλουμε, εγκλωβιζόμαστε σε όσα μας λέει το μυαλό μας και η εσωτερική μας φωνή. Παρ’ όλο αυτό, θα πρέπει να πάρουμε μια απόφαση. Είτε Θα περάσουμε τη ζωή μας αναμασώντας όσα μας συνέβησαν στο παρελθόν και ενθυμούμενοι τις άσχημες εμπειρίες που είχαμε, είτε θα πάρουμε τον έλεγχο της ζωής μας, θα ζήσουμε νέες εμπειρίες και φυσικά θα ελέγξουμε τα συναισθήματά μας. Μόνο αν τολμήσουμε κάτι τέτοιο, θα μπορέσουμε να απολαύσουμε την ύπαρξή μας.

Το κλειδί για να βιώνουμε περισσότερο είναι να σκεφτόμαστε και να αναπολούμε το παρελθόν λιγότερο και να περιορίζουμε τις προσδοκίες που περιμένουμε να υλοποιηθούν στο μέλλον. Να αποδεχτούμε αυτά που έχουμε στο εδώ και στο τώρα και τίποτα περισσότερο. Να ζούμε τις στιγμές μας εμποδίζοντας τους εαυτούς μας να αποπροσανατολιστούν από τις παγίδες που βάζει το μυαλό.

Εν τέλει, ο προορισμός μας είναι να ζήσουμε, όμως καταλήγουμε να ζούμε ελάχιστα. Είναι η ώρα να αντιστρέψουμε αυτόν τον κανόνα. Η ευτυχία δεν βρίσκεται σε άλλο τόπο και χρόνο, αλλά στο παρόν στο εδώ και στο τώρα. θυμάστε πάντα.

Πηγές: share24.gr / Spirit Alive 
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Τάσος Λειβαδίτης: «Μάθε να αγαπάς αυτούς που δεν πληγώνουν την αγάπη»

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Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από τα δύσκολα. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που σε πλήγωναν εύκολα, που δεν δίσταζαν να σου πουν όχι, που δεν σε φρόντιζαν όσο θα ήθελες. Έμαθες να έλκεσαι από ανθρώπους που ενώ γνώριζες ότι δεν είσαι ευτυχισμένος, ευτυχισμένη, παρέμενες και το ονόμαζες σχέση.

Παλιά έλεγες ότι αξίζεις περισσότερα, σταδιακά όμως σταμάτησες να το λες. Τον ξέχασες τον εαυτό σου. Δικαιολογούσες όλες τις συμπεριφορές των άλλων. Έμαθες να εφευρίσκεις δικαιολογίες για όλες τις συμπεριφορές, για όλα τα λόγια, για αυτά που σε πλήγωναν. Έμαθες να λες ότι γίνεσαι πιο δυνατός, πιο δυνατή έτσι.

Έμαθες να προσπαθείς να σώσεις, ακόμα και αυτά που δεν σώζονται. Προσπαθούσες για χρόνια να πείσεις τον εαυτό σου ότι έτσι είναι οι σχέσεις. Δύσκολες, πρέπει πάντα να καταλαβαίνεις τον άλλον, απαιτούν μόνιμα συμβιβασμούς και μόνιμα έπρεπε να προσφέρεις εσύ.

Να σου πω όμως κάτι; Δεν είναι έτσι οι σχέσεις. Έμαθες να αγαπάς όσους πληγώνουν την αγάπη, όσους πλήγωναν εσένα. Ονόμαζες το λίγο πολύ και πάντα δικαιολογούσες. Πάντα έλεγες ότι καταλαβαίνεις τους άλλους και ότι στην αγάπη πρέπει πάντα να ακούμε. Να σου πω όμως κάτι;

Δεν είναι αυτό αγάπη. Στην αγάπη προσφέρουν και οι δύο, νιώθουν και οι δύο, ακούνε και οι δύο, φροντίζουν και θαυμάζουν και οι δύο, ρωτάνε και οι δύο, ενδιαφέρονται και οι δύο, είναι παρόντες και οι δύο, επιδιώκουν και οι δύο, προσφέρουν και οι δύο, θέλουν τη σχέση έμπρακτα και οι δύο.

Δεν πληγώνουν. Δεν μειώνουν. Δεν παραμελούν. Δεν αγνοούν. Δείχνουν, με λίγα ή με πολλά, δεν έχει σημασία. Σέβονται. Και είναι τόσο όμορφο να σε σέβονται, να σε θαυμάζουν, να σου λένε πόσο όμορφος είσαι ή πόσο όμορφο είναι αυτό που έφτιαξες.

Σταμάτησε να δικαιολογείς και να αρκείσαι στα λίγα. Φρόντισε τον εαυτό σου και αγάπησέ τον μέσα από τις επιλογές σου. Μην περιμένεις μία γιορτή για να σου δείξει ο άλλος αν σε αγαπάει. Αγάπη σημαίνει να σου δείχνω καθημερινά ότι αξίζω εγώ να είμαι δίπλα σου.

Ελένη Σολταρίδου – enallaktikidrasi.com

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Δε κλαίω γιατί είμαι αδύναμος! Κλαίω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός!

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Ναι κλαίω. Κλαίω γιατί δεν είναι «ντροπή», επειδή δεν «εκτίθεμαι» όταν το κάνω όπως εσύ υποστηρίζεις. Κλαίω γιατί τα χω καλά με τον εαυτό μου κι έχω μάθει να μην τον καταπιέζω μόνο και μόνο για να μπορώ να εντάσσομαι στην κάθε κοινωνική νόρμα που θέλει τους «δυνατούς» αναίσθητους.

Κλαίω γιατί δεν είμαι αναίσθητος και επιλέγω να μην μηδενίζω τον ανθρώπινο συναισθηματισμό και την πηγαία δύναμη ξεσπάσματος που έχω μέσα μου και που όσο κι αν εσένα σου φαίνεται περίεργο, θέλει πολλά κουράγια να καταφέρεις να βγάλεις προς τα έξω.

Γιατί όταν αυτή η δύναμη απελευθερώνεται μένει εκεί για να σε ξυπνήσει, να σε κινητοποιήσει και να κατευθύνει την συνείδησή σου εκεί που έχεις ξεχάσει πώς να πάς.

Εκεί που είσαι άνθρωπος και εκφράζεσαι με ειλικρίνεια και θάρρος, όχι απέναντι στους άλλους αλλά απέναντι στον ίδιο σου τον εαυτό.

Εκεί που κοιτάς κατάματα την ψυχή σου και της ζητάς παραπονεμένα το λόγο που σ’ αφήνει να ζεις όπως σου λένε οι άλλοι. Εκεί που ο πόνος, η συγκίνηση, η αγανάκτηση , η χαρά είναι και πάλι μέρος του εαυτού σου κι όχι απαγορευμένες, ξεχασμένες καταστάσεις του είναι σου.

Και ναι έφτασα εκεί. Και ήταν δύσκολο να αντιμετωπίσω τον εαυτό μου, μάλλον, ήταν δύσκολο να τον βρω γιατί συνεχώς τον έχανα ψάχνοντάς τον πίσω από καλώς δημιουργημένα, κοινωνικώς αποδεκτά προσωπεία.

Κι όταν τον βρήκα επιτέλους φοβήθηκα, κι άρχισα να τρέχω με πανικό για να μην συνειδητοποιήσω άλλα. Και μακριά από αυτόν έτρεχα κι από όλους τους άλλους, που μου έδιναν ρηχά διδάγματα επιβίωσης και επέμεναν πως είμαι αδύναμος και πως πρέπει να «σκληρύνω» και να κρύψω τον εαυτό μου για να επιβιώσω.

Στο τέλος όμως σταμάτησα. Γιατί ήταν μάταιο και γιατί κουράστηκα. Σταμάτησα αποφασιστικά, γύρισα προς τα πίσω, είδα τον εαυτό μου, του χαμογέλασα, τον πήρα αγκαλιά και μαζί πήραμε τον δρόμο του γυρισμού. Και μαζί ήμασταν πιο δυνατοί απέναντι στους άλλους. Και δυσκολευτήκαμε και συναντήσαμε εμπόδια αλλά δεν είχε πλέον σημασία γιατί είμαι πλέον ζωντανός! Κι όταν αισθάνομαι το κάνω με όλη την έννοια της λέξης!

Κι αν θέλω να κλάψω θα το κάνω, ακόμη κι αν είναι με μια μικρή λεπτομέρεια που με συγκίνησε και βελτίωσε ολιγόλεπτα την βαρετή καθημερινότητα που έχετε δημιουργήσει, και που ευτυχώς πλέον βιώνω ως απλός παρατηρητής. Και ευτυχώς δεν είμαι μόνος μου. Υπάρχουν κι άλλοι σαν κι εμένα και θα υπάρξουν ακόμη περισσότεροι.

Θα κλάψω γιατί είμαι ζωντανός και αν ο λόγος δεν σας αρκεί και θέλετε κάτι πιο «λογικό», θα κλάψω για σας και τον χαμένο σας συναισθηματισμό. Όχι για να σας θρηνήσω αλλά για να σας κάνω να θυμηθείτε τι θα πει «είμαι ζωντανός».

Σας χαιρετώ,

Ένας ζωντανός άνθρωπος

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